Wednesday, April 30, 2008

A busy day today~

Every minute today seems to have been filled with something going on. I am not complaining at all. God blessed me with a day and I think I made the most of it even if its not over yet. I plan on cutting the grass tonight and then dropping off Madisons guitar and Dawn and Heathers flowers. Heather asked me to get some flowers from my grandma's greenhouse last week so they can plant a butterfly garden together. I thought man - what a great mommy~daughter activity.... and everyone likes hummingbirds and butterflies. So I got them some zinnia's, bee balm and some verbenia. Looking forward to seeing some pictures in a few weeks once the heat starts here in the south and gets them plants growing!
Tomorrow I am helping Carol and Kyles teacher set things up for his first real play. Kyle and his class are performing for the first graders and their parents - so I am in charge of the boys costumes .... how did I get that job? I am not sure but I know Carol had something to do with it! :) - Its all good and I am honored to be a part of it. I am sure all the kids will do just great and I am proud of each of them. Today at lunch each one asked me to sit with them .... I wish I could...... that would be just awesome but I will get to spend some time with them tomorrow morning.
Well I am finishing up my afternoon coffee - a little tired today and got things to do so I added some juice this afternoon to get me through the evening. Have to be back for Idol tonight.... I can't believe Carol has me watching that now.........
I will check in tomorrow... Hope everyone is doing well.
Lonnie~

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Reed Gold Mine from the eyes of a 4th grader

What a great day! It was cold this morning but we all did well with our southern blood :)
Got to school this morning early after our great friends Barbara and her daughter Madison got to the house. We packed all the lunches and drinks for the kids and got a good 20 hugs and high fives - kids were very excited! Reed Gold mine is the first place in America that gold was discovered - even before California. Its a great place and it almost all free - except for panning for Gold. I got to help many of the kids swirl their pan around - none of which found gold in their pan but Kyle was the lucky man - not only with finding a spec of gold but also in having such great friends! We then walked and panned for gems and met some great folks from Jim's Gem and Mine. They were a hoot and knew allot about rocks and gems and shark teeth!
We got to see the Cabarrus K-9 unit in action with fake gun shots and robbers being attacked by the dogs. The dogs showed off their skills in finding drugs and their obedience skills. Really amazing since I have 2 dogs and unless I have a pizza crust in my hand I cant get them to do anything!
Anyways - it was great seeing some parents from last year - getting hugs and getting a chance to hang with some of "MyKids" from last year. What a great bunch of kids from 3rd grade and I have felt all year just a little held back in 4th grade by not being able to spend much time with them this year but today I dont feel that way. It was great being on their level and spending time investing in them and listening to them. I did have a chance to walk with Kyles teacher today and it was such a nice conversation and I thanked her for allowing me to walk along side so many kids in her class... they are all very special and they want someone to listen, to care and smile at life.
Tonight when we got home I got the chance to drop off a bike to one of "MyKids" and the smile - the hugs and the THANK YOU's were priceless. Nothing like making a small difference in someones life, like a bike, and seeing them riding and smiling - dang its such a blessing..... I pray for those first driving lessons..... I pray mom is ok with me doing that too~

Funny thing is - God did not bless me with my own daughter - even though I always thought I would have a daughter but God has blessed me with many daughters.....and for that I am so very honored and blessed to have these kids in my life.

Love you all...... looking forward to tomorrow- Work and 3rd grade lunch duty :)
Lonnie~

Monday, April 28, 2008

Flying by the seat of my pants....

I have a lot going on today and this week ahead! ~ But I am loving being in the zone. Yesterday at church for some reason there was a little extra to everything. The band was on even with some of the issues of sound check and other small things but our volunteers got it done. Brandon led an awesome worship experience and Pastor Jimmy gave a great message! There was a group of folks who sat in the next section over from us and they just brought some energy yesterday and energy is SO contagious! I love it when we can worship in a church service where everyone is really into it and receiving something very special directly from the Lord. Pastor Jimmy preached on urgency and how we need to continue to invite folks around us to church, to serve with us, building communities while following Jesus. I have been feeling this for months now and last night at our Rock Group I announced some big decisions that I have been just burdened by for some time and has been keeping me up at night. I don't have all the details planned out just yet but God is giving me the plan and it is unfolding. There are many great folks I want to connect with and be a part of their lives ... Since our Rock Group families have come together - I can honestly say that I just don't see how we did life without them now. It is that important and sharing that is of urgency!
Yesterday Carol and I were leading the k-4-5 kids and after our main lesson we broke the groups into 2. Boys - Girls. What started out as a little experement really went over great. I heard kids talk who NEVER talk - they got to share some of what is going on in their lives and get to know each other. I had lunch with a few of "MyKids" today at a school where I have not spent a lot of time. Its a weird lunch time and far away from where I work so its hard for me to get out there and all. But today I went - I asked a few of them if yesterday was ok and if it was cool and they all answered it was awesome! They told me that they come in and go to church and Sunday school and then go home ... never really getting to know the other kids because they are in class. Unless they know someone there is no time to get to know someone else! SO many adults do the same thing - they come to church and then go home. The ones that never get connected seem to never stick around. We have to give folks responsibility and get them connected not only to church and serving but also to other people! Friendships need to blossom from what God is putting people together to do! That is to do life together and serve one another and have that support system that we all need. Being a Christain is not meant to spent alone but with others! Others who will hold us accountable and in tune with God. So I am really excited about this new adventure in our K-4-5 ministry and I am hoping everyone else who leads and teaches will share this excitement.
Tomorrow I am out of the office - going to Reed Gold Mine with Kyles class - so Carol and I will be in charge of a few kids each and lead them for the day through the mines and panning for gold. It will be a great day and honestly - ANY day spent investing in these kids is a GREAT DAY! I just can't believe that God has blessed me to be doing what I am doing.
Reed Gold mine Tuesday - helping lunch for my dear friend Donna Wed - Helping Kyle and his class at their first play on Thursday morning - have to get the grass cut :( - lunches this week with "MyKids" - especially those who did not come to church this past Sunday! Project 252 auction taking place on Saturday night so helping Carol with that. So its a busy week but I wouldn't trade it for anything.
Prayers out to my buddy Warren -his dad is not doing well and is under Hospice care now. You know I am praying for you bud..... there is great peace knowing God is in control.
Love you all,
Lonnie~

Friday, April 25, 2008

Roots....

Yesterday I left the house early - 5:15AM - to head to Ararat Va - My family has a greenhouse business there on the mountain. For years I have traveled back to the country and gave them a good days work in exchange for some plants -flowers and vegetables. It's a time I always look forward to - seeing almost everyone, getting some work done and planning out my garden for the summer. I do enjoy my time there - its like stepping back in time. Life is tough there on the mountain and things are simpler in many ways. My Aunt lives in my great grandparents house - I remember the cook stove and the room with the piano and the screened in porch - it was a place to escape the heat of the summer and a place where folks sat and talked about "life". I remember going out my grandmothers back door through the woods down this little trail to a cold spring - dipping and filling a metal pale to bring back to the kitchen for drinking water. I remember how cold that water was and how refreshing. I remember at my grandmothers before they had the greenhouses and they farmed their food during the summer - I remember working in the fields and helping out- getting tired and sneaking the salt shaker out of the house and then picking some bell peppers ... sneaking to the front of the house and climbing the tree there and hiding in the branches. I would take out my pocket knife and slice up that pepper - pour some salt on that thing....man that was life. Things went by slow - time seemed to stand still and the grass grew before our eyes.
I love going back to that mountain - my mom's grave is there - the church bells ring on the hour as you stand and look up to that mountain. A lot has changed there since I was a kid - the local store down the road is not there anymore - lots of cars and homes being built all around .... it now takes $10 in gas to go to town if you are lucky.
I got to meet some folks yesterday that go way back - folks who have lived in the area all their lives. Folks who grew up with my grandparents and my dad and his brothers and sisters. I will be thinking about all this as I plant my garden over the next few days and when after much work on the land and tending the plants - I cut my first summer tomato - it is sweet just like that mountain and the folks who live there.
I am sore today! I am glad to be back at my desk job :) - and I am getting ready to go do what I love doing .... visiting "MyKids" at their school so I am off to Furr Elementary now ..... and picking up a little McDonalds on the way.
Life is good ~ Hope you are engaging yours today. God has plans for you today - do you know what they are? Sometimes we need to step back to move forward.

Later~
Lonnie

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

What matters most....

I have been excited all week to have lunch with a child that came to see me at church this past Sunday. I have had to hold off until today to go and have lunch with this class because I didn't want to push things (I normally go on Fridays but how was I to wait till then when I wanted to go Monday?) and I wanted time to pray just a bit more for this child and her family. See I have been going to see a few of "MyKids" at this school for lunch since the beginning of the year. One day a week and will continue to do so until the end of the year. Sad time for me~ But as always I get to know many of the kids in their class as well as other kids in the hallways, the teachers and lunch folks. This year this is my special class. I love going and spending time with them. Out of all the kids I get to have lunch with, there are only 2 classes that I get to actually sit with the kids and this is one of them. I get to be on their level and talk about what is going on in their lives, their struggles, sports they play and all - you can see which kids have it hard at home, maybe a parent missing or money struggles - I mean a lot comes through a child by the way they handle themselves or how they smile or don't smile. Since the beginning of the year this teacher has given me room and makes me feel very comfortable with them and I am very grateful for that. It does mean the world to me that I am allowed to invest in these children and earn my "Uncle Lonnie" nickname to almost all of the kids.
I pray every time before entering the school that what I am doing is honoring to God and that He blesses this time. Today was no different. My visitor was very excited to see me and told me that she and her mom enjoyed church this past Sunday. She wanted to know which service I was going to be at this Sunday and I told her that me and Miss Carol were teaching k4-5 and I hoped that she would be there. I told her I wanted to talk a little with her mom and it seemed like we were rushed last Sunday because they came in a little late and they probably didn't have the special visitor greeting like we do at church on Sundays. I am just blown away today with excitement for her and knowing that this special class I have 5 kids now all coming to church- all in Sunday school that Carol and I get to mold and invest in them almost each Sunday as their parents get to listen to a message that is from God in the service. That is exciting and their is nothing like it!!!

I am just all fired up today and I am feeling so blessed - blessed beyond anything I could have ever imagined that God would be using me like this. There is so much meaning in life when you put others ahead of yourself. I mean as a church we are called to be Disciples. We are called to be the church that Jesus has given us instructions for and if we are too focused on ourselves how can we accomplish this? I mean really???? Are you too focused on your problems, are you too focused on your situations and struggles - When you put the needs of others in front of yours - that is when you have crossed the line and being the church and the Disciple that God has planned. That sweet spot is where amazing things happen and where God really uses normal, messed up, screwed up and common folks like us.

Make a difference in someones life and be an encourager to them - be passionate about that. It will matter 100 years from now...... and that is something to pass down - that you made a difference and you stood strong for Jesus. Its what matter most...

Love you all,
Lonnie~

Monday, April 21, 2008

Wii Championship - Rock Group Style~





Here are a couple pictures from our First Rock Group Wii Bowling Championship. We had some tough games bowled and some close matches. Heather topped Lori in the 10th frame and took the championship! Congrats Heather!!! Job well done..... it was a great evening with lots of laughs, food and more laughs....shared by all.
Love you all,
Lonnie

Still recovering....

There was a time in my life when I was actually afraid of kids. I had to get over that fear when Kyle came around but I just really never thought I could relate to them. All of that has changed and Friday night with a van full of kids - Going from the Harrisburg Fun night to the Fractured Prune for our church youth group fund raising event - man the kids where tilted. Sugar above and beyond and while driving home - Carol and I laughed so hard. I mean big time belly laughing with the kids. I told Carol - "Ya know - there was a time when I would not have done this and now I can't get enough of it!"...She agreed and smiled at me...... what a great weekend filled with church, our kids, our first anual Wii Bowling tournement. What a great time ... I even had a surprise Sunday morning when a classmate of one of "MyKids" came walking into Sunday School. I was just floored and she brought her mom with her. Her mom said I just had to come and meet this Uncle Lonnie I have been hearing so much about. I guess I have an addition to "MyKids" now - I look forward to seeing her at lunch this week and seeing how they liked their visit to church. I have been praying for weeks that she could talk her mom into bringing her and now I must let God just nurish that seed. I will be honest - I can't get enough of "MyKids".... each of them are special in their own way and my heart just goes out for them. Travis said it perfectly yesterday - He is our church youth pastor and he had the preaching duty yesterday - He said our youth are crying out and they are hurting .... as parents we have to be that person who listens and cares, who is there for them and live by examples... we have to be the "Salt and Light" to everyone but especially those kids in our lives.
Lord I ask that you touch each and every one of them today. May their home lives be ok today - may they have what they need and are healthy today. I pray that their parents are living by Your example Lord and that they are the "Salt and Light" in their families. I thank You Lord for putting these children into my heart and I ask that You continue to raise me up with being a good example for them, for loving them unconditionally and for just walking along side each one of them no matter what is going on in their lives. Their hurts and struggles are my hurts and struggles. I ask that you bless each step of the way in these relationships Lord and how great it is knowing that You are making a difference in their lives. I ask that You continue to use me for Your will with them Lord and may I honor You in everything I am doing. Thank You for "MyKids" and placing them also on Carols heart. They all mean so much to us.... and we love each one of them.
I pray in Your sons name in Jesus,
Amen

Friday, April 18, 2008

Settling for a "B"~

With our semester here fast coming to a close - my Aunt Sharon shared this with me this morning. It came at just the right time. I have been talking "this" for some time now. God so much wants to do more through each of us but so many times we just ignore His signals and brush Him off or we are so unaware of the things that God is showing us because we are too busy to even notice. I even told our friend Terry at Mexicasa last night after she told us she was close to burn out and just couldn't keep 2 jobs and there is no time for everything to be fit in.... I said Terry dear - slow down, take some time off, get some rest and really shift the things in life in line that are most important. Take care of yourself because if you don't, you wont be good to anyone.
So many of us are running and running - we think things are important and our meters are on empty. God wants to give you a good grade but He is hoping that your faith and trust in Him will give you a perfect mark.
Look up loved ones and take notice in life....love YOUR God and serve someone today in His name.
Love you - Thanks for sharing Aunt Sharon ... it speaks volumes this morning.
Lonnie~

‘I can do everything through Him who gives me strength.’ Philippians 4:13 NIV
Harvey MacKay tells the story of a professor who stood before his class of 30 senior molecular biology students. Before passing out the final exam, he said, ‘I have been privileged to be your instructor this semester, and I know how hard you have worked to prepare for this test. I also know most of you are off to medical school or graduate school next autumn. I am well aware of how much pressure you are under to keep your grade point averages up. Because I am confident that you know this material, I am prepared to offer an automatic “B” to anyone who opts to skip taking the final exam.’ The relief was audible. A number of students jumped up from their desks, thanking the professor for the lifeline he had thrown them. ‘Any other takers?’ he asked. ‘This is your last opportunity.’ One more student decided to go. The instructor then handed out the final exam, which consisted of two sentences. It read: ‘Congratulations, you have just received an A in this class. Keep believing in yourself.’ It was a just reward for the students who had worked hard and believed in themselves.
The apostle Paul experienced more headaches and heartaches in a month than most of us will see in a lifetime. Yet he wrote, ‘I can do everything through Him who gives me strength.’ Come on; start believing God’s Word to be true, that Christ who lives in you can strengthen you in order to fulfil the calling He has for you.
Refuse to settle for a ‘B’ when God has promised and called you to an ‘A’.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Amazing.......

I want to share a small story this afternoon. It may not be of high value or really anything that special but it does speak loud and clear.
Last week Madison B was over at the house spending some time with Kyle, Carol and I. We got to take her to Kyles guitar practice and she sat in with him and Brandon or Worship Pastor and she was SO excited. Brandon taught her some simple things and on her Hannah Montana guitar she was missing a string. So I told her I would take her guitar and get it fixed for her this week. Not a big deal, a couple bucks for a string and some time invested going there and all. I saw her yesterday at school and she asked me about it and I told her I was taking care of it today for her. So off at lunch I went to the guitar shop. Not a normal day for me since I am usually in a school somewhere having lunch with "MyKids". I walk in and ask the fella if he can help me out. Now do know I have my cowboy hat on which is a part of me - just ask any of "MyKids" and they would tell ya. The man does a double take and said - "Dang, I thought Kenny Chesney just walked in" - I said sorry to disappoint ya but I do have a Hannah Montana guitar I need help with. He laughed and headed into the back. I was greeted by a nice lady in the office and then 2 office dogs that hang out. I got some good pets in and made friends. The man came back out and said - Have a great day Kenny and since you look like Kenny, have this guitar with Hannah Montana and you love the Lord - its on the house and I just stood there .... like wow.
Here I am doing something for someone - taking care of a need and God makes a way to take care of my need. So I got a free guitar string and a tuning - but its more than that.
Over the last few years I have put more and more trust into the Lord as he shows me and teaches me. I do my best to bless someone each and every day. To make a commitment to taking care of a good friends lawn for the grass cutting season and I do feel those blessings!! I do know that God is blessing me as I march down this road in life. If you are not experiencing fruitfulness in your life - give yourself away, give your time, your money and passion into something dear to the Lord. It may be a nursing home, church volunteering, mission work, a debt that someone owes you, it can be paying for someones lunch you don't even know or the person behind you in the drive through at McDonald's .... I am telling you - it does make a difference and God does take notice.

I opened the book of Proverbs the other morning in my quiet time. There is SO much in those chapters and it is a slow hard read but a very pin - pointed read and really focused.
This is what I read this morning and this is what this post is all about.

Proverbs 11:
24 One man gives freely, yet gains even more; another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty.
25 A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed.


Where is your heart today? Are you a giving person looking to bless someone?
Giving is one of the blessings God wants to do for us.... so many times our actions and our hoarding of things blocks the flow of those blessings. The more my family and I give the more it is apparent that God is multiplying those blessings. Amazing....... I will drop off that guitar tonight or tomorrow and that alone will be a blessing for everyone!

With love,
Lonnie~

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

19 years?

Already? Has it been that long?....... wow. I have been married longer than some of the kids here on this campus have been alive!!!! But I dont feel that old which is a good thing.

1989 Tax day - funny how it worked out for that day. I remember our parents being there as the excitement built up to this day from all the planning and more planning. I remember many of our relatives coming long distance to attend our wedding and man did it rain this day 19 years ago. They say that rain on your wedding day is good luck - I don't believe that at all because luck has nothing to do with anything.

19 years of marriage is riding the bull some days for 8 full seconds, sticking it out when times are tough, enjoying the good times, standing together on plans and a vision for our future, its planning and staying within budget when it comes to money and personal items, its loving each other more every day, its accepting God into our marriage so that together we can serve Him together and honor Him through our marraige - setting an example for Kyle on what marriage means and should stand for. Yes 19 years have been pretty awesome Carol - I am proud to be your husband and best friend. I look to the future with hope and excitement knowing that God has saved you, Kyle and myself and spending eternity together is part of Gods plans for everyone.
Marriage is not a throw away item like a used car when it doesn't run well anymore or when times get tough. So many marriages fall apart when one becomes selfish and doesnt put the other in front of themselves. Its about serving your husband or wife before yourself. Communication is tops when it comes to a strong marriage. Your dad showed me that over and over again over the years. I am blessed to know that and make that a very important item .....

I have also learned something that many men need to listen up on and learn - the faster the better for them~

If Momma ain't happy, NOBODY is happy...... so honor your wife and make her happy! Lead her like a husband should and lead your family with Gods word and example. Your actions and love are louder than we realize!

I love you Carol and yes looking forward to Red Lobster tonight and many more years ahead. Love you more than I have words for and its awesome to be serving the Lord and the people in our lives together. God has sorrounded us with some awesome folks ... and for never stopping me when I am serving and loving "MyKids". Thanks for all your encouragement....... and being a God loving woman, wife, mom and friend to so many.

Forever yours,
Lonnie~

Monday, April 14, 2008

Making a difference?

Ok I got the lawn cut tonight - I am pressed for time and the schedule just keeps going so I even cut the grass in the drizzle. But as I walked back and forth its a good time to think.
So here are a few thoughts ...

There are 2 churches that I drive by on my way to work. I often think about what kind of churches they are, their style of services and the message that is preached in their walls, what kind of folks come and what are they like? I see a sign out front - I just dont like church signs because they turn unchurched people away in my opinion - and I often wonder how are people coming to that particular church. I mean are they like an island or are they really working hard in the community and reaching lost people for Jesus right in their community? Both of these churches were here long before the subdivisions showed up and I wonder are they making an impact in those subdivisions? ....

So here is my thought - what would happen if those churches closed? Would the community still thrive? Would there be any difference? Would the community recover or even notice?
What is happening at those churches that are worth talking about? What is it that they are doing in the community to cause a BUZZ?
When people leave your church services, are they thinking about the e-mails they need to send and the football game they want to watch—or are they thinking deeply about their own choices and thinking how they might make a difference in someone's life this week? Are they walking out with a heavy heart knowing they can do more and really make a difference? Are the fathers leading their families?

Wouldn't it be great if all churches made lasting community impact in the lives of their communities? Folks following Jesus and being BOLD for JESUS by sharing His word and living by His example?
I believe that if Jesus were physically here in 2008, he would come just like he came last time - right into the community where people live. Changing lives as he went from community to community. He immersed himself into the culture of the day and 2008 is no different than 2000 years ago - it might just look different. He would use today's examples to relate to people and teach in parables we could understand just like he did 2000 years ago in that culture.

Our local communities are dying without Jesus, our families are dying without Jesus and its our duty to not let that happen.

So if your church closed their doors, how would it affect your local community?

And I didn't even finish cutting the grass.......
Lonnie~

A quick post~

Monday morning and back @work. It was a fast weekend but a peaceful one that was needed. Carol, Kyle and I headed to the cabin Friday night and stayed until 1:00 yesterday so that we may be home in time for Rock Group last night. We were missing some folks but glad we got together with those who came. The ladies and I had a relaxed time together and I feel great that folks are that committed to our group to come even with 1/2 the group out. Next Sunday we will be having multiple TV's going all hooked to the WII stations and all will be invited to come and try out their skills in bowling, Tennis and boxing just to name a few sports. It should be a great time together as we engage the kids into playing outside and letting the parents play! I will let you know how that goes over.

Friday night Carol and I sat on the front porch at the cabin and watched the storms roll in - great light show in the heavens and we just sat watching and taking it all in. The rain sounded so peaceful hitting the roof - my mom would have loved it more than I did!
Saturday we all went to Chimney Rock - Carol has posted a few pictures on her blog so check them out here - http://carolbateman.wordpress.com/ - we even got to see a wedding at the top of the "Rock" - Carol did well and she admits she prayed before going that she would not be afraid. I can tell it worked because last time up there was not good for her! Sunday morning we took the canoe out and went down stream on Ostin Creek and headed out to the lake. We got some fishing in but it was cold out there on that water so we did not stay long. Kyle was the lone fisherman! It was weird missing church yesterday - something that we don't do often! I missed our church family yesterday as well as all of "MyKids" - Looking forward to those lunch times this week after not seeing them yesterday.

Well thats if from here as of now. Just getting in the groove this morning and thinking about the cabin - the quietness and peacefulness of the mountains.
Praying the Lord settles us and refreshes us with His amazing peace this week. Busy week ahead but eager to experience it all.
Lonnie~

Thursday, April 10, 2008

I did it .....but why?

I am still asking myself that question today - Why?

But I think I have an answer. Yesterday I took the challenge of fasting. I remember a kid who used to work for me years ago - he fasted every Wednesday and spoke good things about it - discipline and for God - I just thought he was nuts but it still to this day makes me have questions about it. It mentions in the Bible in many different places that people used to fast all the time but I don't really see it these days. I wanted to know more about it and why it was so important to God to be put in the Bible.

Other than for health reasons, giving our bodies a break from eating and simplifying our food intake to water and just a few pieces of fruit for a day which from what I have read is a good thing to do once in awhile. I have to say that I felt pretty good yesterday all the way through. I drank like 9 bottles of water when the hunger pains hit - I would suck a bottle of water down. My mind seemed to be focused more on what I was doing and I did have good energy all day. I did not focus too much on food - even had lunch with Kyle and "MyKids" yesterday and had 2 slices of an orange because one of MyKids told me she told her mom that I come in and sit next to her at her lunch and that I really like oranges - so her mom packed me a snack in her lunch! Imagine that ....that just blows me away. It was an unbelievable orange as you can imagine!
Anyways - upon reflecting last night and this morning about how yesterday went - I did notice that I was in prayer more yesterday than I usually am. I mean I asked God for his help to get me through the next hour - to help me with a task here at work- to keep me focused on Him through my day - to provide for "MyKids" and that everything is ok in their homes and families. It has me focused today on Gods blessings in my life and the lives of the folks around me. Many people I know are hurting and are struggling with BIG things. I realize that even during my trials with my mom and through Walt - those were some deep and dark places - TOUGH places with many tears and emotions but a comfort through those things like I have never experienced before. I know Carol feels this as well having that comfort in such a hard painful experience - it could have only come from God. I realize that those struggles could have been so much harder and tougher on me but also my family. I am the spiritual leader as all dads should be to their families and if the spiritual leader is floundering so will those around him. I am not saying that fasting will bring some sort of in site to life and Gods ways - I am just saying its a discipline that puts our hearts and minds in focus. We are giving up something so we remove the distractions and gain some focus. God still has his mystery about Him because He has given us enough of what we need to know for this life - He could not give us all the answers to our questions because we could never understand it all - We make what we already have HARD ENOUGH!!!
God has given us what we need - we need Him and we need each other. We need to be part of family of others so that we do not have to stand alone or go through tough things alone.

Many times we ask - WHY? Why has God allowed this?- Why am I going through this hard time? I asked that same question when my mom was sick - God Why? Cancer is not part of my family - Mom is so young and with so much to look forward to ... God WHY?
The answer is is not WHY ~ But ~ WHAT - WHAT does God want to teach me through this? What is it that He wants me to understand? I am sure God taught many things to my mom during this time as well as Walt. He taught me many things as well during those times.....
So if we look at our struggles today - loss of a loved one, a job, relationships, money or a car that just wont run, a child that is walking down a hard path in life or some bad decision - we have to ask ourselves not WHY - but WHAT.

What is it that God wants you to learn through this struggle?

I look at the last 2 years walk through my church's building campaign and vision to have a building of our own. Since we kicked that campaign off -we have church family who have walked away, we have also gained church family - we have moved locations and God has put us in a better location (right down from our land)- He has strengthened us as a family and we are reaching more lost folks than ever! - We have more people serving than at any other time - We have a childrens ministry that has kicked it up a few notches - A Middle school and high school ministry that continues to double in size - we have a worship pastor who brings the best and coolest music our church has ever heard - Our Pastor is growing and learning in new ways to lead and preach Gods word- ... God is doing amazing things! Sure a building would have been awesome 2 years ago but God is preparing us for that season in time. He knows best~
He is doing the same thing in your life!
Would I fast again? Honestly it was pretty hard but I feel good that I accomplished what I did and it gave myself the chance to focus a little more on God yesterday. If God nudged me again ..... I won't push the thought that far away again.

Thank you all for the prayers for my cousin Patty. She should be on her way home from the hospital right now. We are looking forward to Madison B tonight with guitar practice and eating out afterwards - also with a great friend and her daughters , whom we all just love!

Romans 12:9
9 Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. 10 Love each other with genuine affection,[e] and take delight in honoring each other. 11 Never be lazy, but work hard and serve the Lord enthusiastically.[f] 12 Rejoice in our confident hope. Be patient in trouble, and keep on praying. 13 When God’s people are in need, be ready to help them. Always be eager to practice hospitality.

With Love,
Lonnie~

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Today ....

I have to tell you that I am doing something today that I have not done in a very long time. I mean since I was a kid. It is harder than I thought it would be but I am determined to make it to the finish line 5:30 this evening. It was something that God has placed on my heart awhile back and I have thought about and brushed it off and then God would nudge me again and decided to learn more about and the reason behind it all. More to follow tomorrow~

Tonight I am headed to see Miss Lexi at her soccer game. Something I have wanted to do for weeks now. American Idol last night had another mention of God front and center in one of the songs. I think Brooke sang that song - I don't follow it as closely as Carol and Kyle do.
I had lunch with Kyle and few of "MyKids" - it was a great lunch! Kyle has a friend from his class last year that we have kept close with - Madison B. - she is coming over tomorrow and going to Kyles guitar practice at the church office. She is SOOOO excited - she is bringing her guitar and will sit in on the lesson with Brandon. The kids just love him - and Madison is just besides herself .... we are then going to go out to eat and then sneak in some icecream at Grampy's .... I love their MOOSE TRACKS so expect me to be getting on that big time. Really looking forward to tomorrow .....

Anyways - thank you all for your prayers for my cousin Patty. Her sister Beth called me this afternoon and the surgery went well. They will be keeping her tonight so I will call her later this evening and check on her. Let her rest and let some of the pain meds wear off a little - she might be cursing me out or something right sis???? Guess it would be hard to be throwing the hospital phone! :) - Hey I have to pick at ya ... I love ya!

Praying the Lord leads me on my Rock Group and the families that He has placed in my care. Wish we had a wednesday evening church service .... that is something I am really looking forward to once our church has a building.

Lonnie~

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Its a good day ....

Its a day to be thankful and rejoice in that is for sure. I actually got to see the sun for a few minutes this afternoon while out having lunch with a few of "MyKids". It was probably one of the best lunches I can remember. I had stopped at McDonald's on the way to school and got what she always asks me for each time I come and have lunch with her. Plain double cheeseburger and a small fry. I got an extra fry for my other kid and I did not make lunch this morning before leaving work so I got a chicken sandwich. Well it has been a long time since eating at McDonald's - I can't even remember when but it has been LONG time ago and I have to say - the chicken sandwich was pretty good. Not Chick-Fil-A quality ~but ok.
Anyways, I can almost always tell how things are at home by how "mykid" acts and her demeanor and all. Today was an exceptional day - very kind and soft spoken - we prayed before we ate and she said "Uncle Lonnie, this was no trouble at all right?" - I said "No dear, its my pleasure to come and have lunch with you and I promised I would bring McDonald's this week." - She almost always checks to make sure it was no trouble and it is something I want to do .... that for sure comes from a proud parent and good teaching. I am proud of her for that.... I told her that when I don't see her in church on Sundays I pray extra hard for her and her mom just to make sure everything is ok. I know sometimes things can be hard at home and God has placed this family and this child on my heart for a reason. I pray I can continue to be a role model in her life in some capacity - something positive and something uplifting.
It was such a peaceful lunch -not over fun, not crazy like at one of my other schools even though that is awesome too! - Maybe it has something to do with having one of my sleepless nights that I have from time to time. 2:11 does not give much time for sleep but I will probably be out like a bear in the winter come 9:00 this evening.
Prayers needed for my cousin Patty tomorrow. She is having outpatient surgery tomorrow in Winston Salem - please pray for a good outcome and better than expected results.

Love you all - going home now to cut the back lawn and then head over to the Heritage and visit with some of the older folks and shut ins. God has us reaching in far places I never would have thought we would be. Life is good .......... thanks Lord!!

Lonnie~

Monday, April 7, 2008

Monday morning~

Wow - I would have got my credit card out this morning to just sleep a little more! Kyle is out of school today and I got up - left the house and the place was still quiet! Kyle is usually up on his days off before I go to work but I guess he and Carol were sleeping in - good for them. I am actually a little motivated this morning and getting some stuff done. Had a little sit time with one of my bosses this morning and my friend Shelley called and I got to talk with her a little so that was cool.
Saturday I had the chance to do something I have not done in a long time. I got to piddle in the garage. Something that I like doing since I have TV out there and a cd player - had some worship songs playing and I got the lawn mowers all tuned up, blades changed and oil changed. Me and miss Payton got to hang out with the doors open - it was warm and it was raining and Payton just circled up and slept on the blanket - just as long as she was near her daddy she was fine! I have not had a chance to do that in a long time and it was cool to be able to have some time to do that. Kyle was down at his fort in the rain with some of his other peeps and man were they a mess - muddy, stinky and WET. Great to be boys ....

The last 2 weeks now I have been studying from Acts 4. I bought a DVD a few months ago while searching for what I am to lead our Rock Group in and came across this DVD while flipping through the website from Dr. James McDonald. I have been a big fan of his teaching for a long time now and listen to him almost everyday via iTunes on a podcast. Being Bold for Jesus and I have to say that I usually watch the message first before I even consider it to be used for a rock group study - then I go back and watch it again while taking notes - from there I make my handouts and fill in the discussion time and also add in a music video or something funny.... I mean there is some work that goes into it all - I do love it and pray through this entire time that I myself get something out of the lesson but more importantly that my rock group family gets something from it. Sharing Jesus - Why does it have to be so hard? Why does it have to be so testy and full of fear sometimes? I think that now that I have been walking with the Lord for a few years now, I am more bold in my outwardness (is that a word? - it should be!) about Jesus to others. I think I do take some risk in sharing Jesus with others but that was just not the case in the beginning. I think sometimes I let the opportunity go or a personal invite to church go because I did not want to seem pushy and in their face or afraid to say the wrong thing or worse - not have an answer to a question! - but I am more relaxed about it now even though FAMILY - is my sticky point. I can get fired up in no time when this comes up or I start thinking about a family member who does not know Jesus! Man its so personal for me knowing that Eternity might be a moment away and I have not done enough to encourage their walk with Jesus. I know God is working behind the scenes and we may not see Him nurturing the seed that has been planted but I do have faith in what He is doing even though we may not see any progress at all.

Being Bold for Jesus and along with Unleash this year - has brought forth some fruit in plugging people into our church the last few weeks. I plugged in a fella yesterday into our breakdown ministry that I have seen serving on the sidelines for a few months. I approached him and asked if this is something he loves doing and why not be recognized and plugged in for his serving? We had a good small conversation and was very excited that I had asked him. I had nothing to write on since I needed some contact info to get in touch with him so I did a funny thing - I ripped off a piece of cardboard from a box in one of our ministry trailers. Yes a piece of CARDBOARD!! I handed him a pen and he wrote down his info and we laughed about it. All I had to do was ask and step forward ... and he met me half way. How awesome is that? This guy now has purpose, responsibility and has taken part ownership into our church and his walk with Jesus by serving! Man that just gets me fired up...... Being BOLD for Jesus. We have to be SOLD out in what God is doing in our lives - we have to be 110% IN and let our love and trust in Him show to others.

Loved ones, God is interested in what we do in life but He is more interested in HOW we do it.

Are you being BOLD for Jesus? Are you encouraging others in their walk? Are you showing the practical love of Jesus to others around you by your words, actions and kindness?
Share you story here .... How is God asking you to be BOLD about for Him?

Love you all,
Lonnie~

Friday, April 4, 2008

Radar .....weather and Gods...

Who would have thought - I am sitting here watching the weather on a Friday night. We have storms in the area and we are under tornado watch - for some, folks just go ahead with their normal thing but for me and Kyle - (little Bob when it comes to weather) we are in the garage, out front, on the deck, checking radar - listening and watching and waiting. Not hoping for anything bad or power outage or down trees but just the excitement of weather is just awesome. Always has been! What did we do before RADAR???

Carol is out at a baby shower and hope she is enjoying herself. Kyle made his reading goal today on the last day with not a moment to spare - proud of him even with a quarter that had the passing of his grandpa and all that stuff - I am very proud of him for making his goals.

Today I had lunch with a few of "MyKids" - I snuck in bojangles and even got an extra meal for everyone. Yes nobody particular, it was just like community food and the kids loved it. I made a little necklace with a cross on it for one of my "FearFactor" girls and she was just all smiles. It later came undone and she didnt even care - I told her I would make her another one and she said "NO - I want this one because its so special!" - so I do pray her mom or dad can fix it for her - if not I will have to get her another ~ not a big deal. She told me she was working on her mom and dad to come to church this Sunday and she asked what time would be good so that I am there. I told her if she came @9:30 - she could sit with me if it was ok with her parents and if she came @11:00 - I would be in Sunday school with her. As I was leaving and the kids getting ready to go back to class - she gave me a big hug and said - "Uncle Lonnie - Pray that my mom and dad takes me to church on Sunday. I told her I would and that I IS a promise."

Maybe this Sunday will be that day ..... I am so looking forward to that because I know it will be life changing for 2 of us :) - I know this family is on Gods radar .... I can just feel it.

Ok got to go find Kyle - its starting to get interesting out now ..... got to run,
Lonnie~

Thursday, April 3, 2008

The support system ...

The last month or so - I have been asked by a few folks and by a few kids if our small (Rock) group was open to new folks. I am excited about that because I know that people are seeing and wanting to be plugged into a network of friends and support. I know the value of this support system and wonder what did we do before when life was hard and we needed spiritual friends around us when we are hurting and need to be around folks who love us? I can't even imagine now .......
I can name 3 families right now who I would invite to come - how would I fit them into the house? What would we do with the children when we are already struggling with the ones we have with giving them some biblical guidance when they are at Rock Group? - how can we make this time a place to learn for them as well? How do we keep the group small and intimate when we have so many people? How can we keep 1.5 hours each week focused and learning and not what most small groups eventually do that meet? ~ a social hour where folks get together and eat.
I am determined to have a group that gets together to learn and to pray together - to do real life together - even if it means I am working hard on handouts, video clips, a study to study from and also having fun while we are doing all this!
Can I invite these folks that others have asked me about and also the families that I have on my heart to plug in for a trial bases? How long is a trial? Can I invite them during our time together or a seperate time? How would that work? After the trial period - what then? Who could I place them with and would they be happy and open to that change and feel connected and wanted?
This is what I have been struggling with the last few weeks especially - because I know the value of a rock group - a group that meets every week and has a purpose and a need to have a support system and where people make it their priority to be there and carve out of other things pulling them away - like family time, TV, sports and eating out ...the list is endless!
I was told yesterday that one of "MyKids" in our rock group had some family visiting from out of town. Her mom let her stay and play with her cousins thus missing rock group which they very rarely ever do! (Proud of them!) and when it was time to go home, she asked if we were going to Rock Group Sunday night. It was already past the time and late - but she still wanted to go! She was upset and started crying .... that is value and something special! That is changing a life on Sunday - meeting an hour at a time - having other kids there who she values as brothers and sisters!
I want to see more folks connected into a support system where a person can stand and know that close and loving friends have their back - where there are folks who are willing at a phone call away to help with your kids or in an emergency no matter the time of day or night - where they can come and bring their issues and problems and get real answers and prayers - where they get built up instead of wripped apart - where they will be held accountable in a loving way for their choices and decisions in life - where folks will call and check on you and wish you happy birthday when family and others have forgotten - where you can have a family who loves you deeply when your real blood line family is 1000 miles away.

Ecclesiastes 4:12
A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two men can stand back-to-back and conquer.
The writer of Ecclesiastes paints a depressing picture of a man who strives to gain the whole world alone, and then asks himself, "Who am I working for? Why am I giving up so much pleasure now?" He concludes, "It is all so meaningless and depressing". How much better it is to go through life with a strong network of support. When you share your trials and triumphs with others, you soon realize that you're not alone. And somehow, when we stand together, life's challenges don't seem so daunting anymore.

My prayer today - Lord, what shall you have me do with what you have placed on my heart? amen

:To my rock group folks ... I love you all more than I have words for. You all rock and we are all blessed to be doing this life together. Love you all,

Lonnie~

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

One prayer ....

If you had one prayer in your life above all else, what would it be?

Thats a great question and for the last few days I have been reading and watching as LifeChurch.tv unfolds the One Prayer concept to churches all over the world.
Look here for more information - http://www.lifechurch.tv/one-prayer

Imagine a 4 week message that your church can sign on with that would be all video based - Each week a different message from a different Pastor from a different part of the world. For a small church this is a way for them to bring in the "big guns" and feel like one of those big hitters. What a great idea - I have no idea if my church is looking at this but I am hoping so - our Pastor would get some much needed time off to rest and study. I think most Pastors when they are rested are ready for battle and bring in their A game on Sundays. Just like we do when we are doing life and we are rested and not run down and tired - just trying to get to Friday.

I often ask myself why don't churches team up more? We are all on the same team really and all serving the same Lord. The differences I guess is what keeps us apart....

Kyle and I will be getting dirty this evening as we finish up the raised beds in the back. I love doing projects with him when I have time as we work together and talk about things. He is eager to learn and when he is focused - man the little man can work!
I will post some pictures when they are done ... need to plan out my trip to my grandmothers to work at the greenhouse. I think I am going to take Kyle this year with me and expose him to a generational blessing that has been passed down to me for many many years - I always look forward to my visit to the greenhouse - get some work done - visit grandma and my aunts and uncles and just enjoy spending some time together. Life is slower there and for me~ thats a good thing.
If you are praying hard for someone today to come to church or to know Jesus - let me encourage you to not give up. You never know what God is doing behind the part we cannot see...... One prayer ..... for Jesus to touch the lives of those around us who are so important to each of us.

Love you all,
Randy

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

3,000,000 more hours....

Today is April 1st and this is NO joke ...Honest. Today I have been working at the same place for 13 years. It has been a good and fun ride for the most part! I am honored mostly not for what my job entails here but for the chance to talk truth to people around me and to have an office where folks come and sit and really talk about life and struggle. They know that the cross on my neck that I currently don't have because I gave it to one of MyKids after she told me it was nice and she wished she had one like it - but because of that cross - my role here at work is different than others. Its a part that I enjoy the most and I don't get paid for. Sounds like ministry doesnt it?
Anyways - in 3,000,000 more hours I might be looking at retiring but not quiting and hanging out. So many walk around their jobs unhappy and unfilfilled knowing that they are not where they are supposed to be. Some don't even know where they are supposed to be at all. I am here to remind you that God is working in those situations. Many times your prayers will be answered later down the road and in some capacity that you might not even realize. God has something to teach you today right where you are and in the place you are. You might be struggling or having a problem or even a tough circumstance but God is using that to bring you closer to Him. You might not be seeing it or feeling it or even knowing that folks around you are full of encouragement and prayers that you dont even know. So many times folks walk away or give up before God can bless and answer their prayers - God is working even if you cant see it. Faith is not walking by sight - it is walking by the trust in Who God says He is and WHAT He has promised. SO hang tight onto that and really know and believe that God will work through you to do His will. Its not about you at all .... and He may be using YOUR situation and struggle to get to a person along side of you or one of your children.

There are folks around me today that are seeking and searching - they have yet to really "GETIT" and live for Jesus. They are partly in or still want control and have things their way. If only they would take the next step - to give faith a shot in their life and watch how God will transform them. Being a Christain is no easy task - our lives of full of checks and balances - accountability not only for ourselves but the folks around us - we are in constant flux on how we can lead better or do things better or do Gods will above our own or how can we reach out to someone in Christ's name and show them the practical love of Jesus. I walk around everyday with the heavy heart for the folks around me who I am doing life with - for "MyKids" and that continued investement knowing that LONG down the road it MIGHT pay off that I made some kind of difference. God has placed that on me - He has placed it on me to do my part and whatever I can do to show others what He has done for me and HOW He has changed my life. I want that with all my heart for others to know that Joy and peace and guidance.
Faith is an easy word when we are doing well and things are rolling along - its when we are struggling and hurting that FAITH shows up and is tested ... it is spiritually grown and your trust and understanding in who Jesus really is comes in full vision.

Some can sit and wait - 3,000,000 more hours till retirement so they can watch Opray and CNN - Thats just not for me ... I am blessed today for 13 years of employment at one place - helping up and coming teachers who will go out into our schools and touch the hearts of children - its why I serve in Sunday School - many of those kids come from school and into Sunday School so they can be full circle and come to know Jesus in a personal way - a guiding light in a dark world where the road is narrow to His ways to those who find it. To those who are shining for Jesus around me today - Shine on brothers and sisters ..... I am walking with you on this awesome journey today.
Thank You Lord for Your love, encouragement and the things only You could place on my heart. Thank You for the people you have surrounded me with and lift me up - thank You for MyKids and the passion You have given me to go into the schools and invest in them Thank You for the church you have placed My family and I in. Thank You Lord for changing my life and saving me. Thank You for my family and the things that You have walked with us through in the last few years. I know You have been there all along and I am blessed to share Your name with others. Even if I thought the hard conversations over the last few years with Walt seemed to be a waste of time, its never going to happen - You proved to us that they weren't and it was all part of Your plan. Nothing we do in Your honor is thrown aside and You will bless us for serving You.
Amen