Merry Christmas everyone! I am thankful for those who come to "thewalk" and follow me on my journey in this life. I am blessed to be following Jesus and to have such awesome people in my life to help me, encourage me and to pray for me. I thank each and every one of you. For me, Christmas is more about celebrating what Jesus has done for us and not so much about the presents. It means a lot to me to share my life and my heart with others and I fully enjoyed our time together with my family this morning opening gifts, having a few moments with my girls and then some time with another sweet and dear family for most of the day. I am thankful for that time together today and all the phone calls and text messages from everyone. Lord as I sit and take a moment to thank you and celebrate your birthday - I am humbled by what you are doing in my life. Last night on stage for our Christmas Eve service will be a milestone to look back on and see the steps I am taking with you. A few years ago I would never have been able to close such a special service like that down in prayer but today I am able to do that. I thank You for where my heart is Lord and as I continue to focus this day on others ... I become smaller and you become bigger. That is for me Lord where I need to have my focus. Thank You with all I have.
I will share Luke 2: today because God sent His son for all of us... not just for me, your neighbor or even for you. He sent Jesus for all people and from all walks of life. Celebrating You today Jesus. May we each live our lives to honor and bring you praise. Thank you for each of the blessings and gifts shared today.
Luke 2
The Birth of Jesus
1-5About that time Caesar Augustus ordered a census to be taken throughout the Empire. This was the first census when Quirinius was governor of Syria. Everyone had to travel to his own ancestral hometown to be accounted for. So Joseph went from the Galilean town of Nazareth up to Bethlehem in Judah, David's town, for the census. As a descendant of David, he had to go there. He went with Mary, his fiancée, who was pregnant.
6-7While they were there, the time came for her to give birth. She gave birth to a son, her firstborn. She wrapped him in a blanket and laid him in a manger, because there was no room in the hostel.
An Event for Everyone
8-12There were sheepherders camping in the neighborhood. They had set night watches over their sheep. Suddenly, God's angel stood among them and God's glory blazed around them. They were terrified. The angel said, "Don't be afraid. I'm here to announce a great and joyful event that is meant for everybody, worldwide: A Savior has just been born in David's town, a Savior who is Messiah and Master. This is what you're to look for: a baby wrapped in a blanket and lying in a manger."
13-14At once the angel was joined by a huge angelic choir singing God's praises: Glory to God in the heavenly heights, Peace to all men and women on earth who please him.
15-18As the angel choir withdrew into heaven, the sheepherders talked it over. "Let's get over to Bethlehem as fast as we can and see for ourselves what God has revealed to us." They left, running, and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby lying in the manger. Seeing was believing. They told everyone they met what the angels had said about this child. All who heard the sheepherders were impressed.
19-20Mary kept all these things to herself, holding them dear, deep within herself. The sheepherders returned and let loose, glorifying and praising God for everything they had heard and seen. It turned out exactly the way they'd been told!
Merry Christmas everyone!
With love and peace,
Lonnie Carol and Kyle
Friday, December 25, 2009
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
My first day of winter break and off work for 2009 was spent serving others at the Christmas Center with a good handful of "MyKids". It was a great day serving the families that we have spent hours reaching out to with the Angel Tree program over the last few years and it was such a blessing at the end of the day just being tired from running all day. A fun time after for lunch at sky in the pie pizza in uptown Charlotte and some fun smiles shared after exploring uptown ... not too often we get up there. Last night we got to spend some time as some of our family came together to share in Kates Christmas. It was new for her as she has never done anything like that in sharing gifts and all ... it was a night full of smiles and laughs for sure. Blessings are starting to come and I am so thankful for that.... it has been a long road of trying, prayer and example but things are coming together.
Last night one of "MyKids" shared with me Deuteronomy 15:10 in the way of a Bible book mark and it read : 10 Give generously to him and do so without a grudging heart; then because of this the LORD your God will bless you in all your work and in everything you put your hand to.
On it reads - "You serve the Lord OUR God so Faithfully" - she read this to me and it brought tears to my eyes because this came from the heart and this is what she thinks of me. I don't even have words to express that ... other than completely being humble. I am so blessed to be doing life with such awesome young people who God has put in my care and I take this role so dear to me. Those words mean speak volumes .........
I wanted to share this evening a song that I looked over my Ipod the last few months and sorted by how many times I have played. I was a little surprised but I do know it is one of my favorite songs.... I hope its one of yours: They played this last YCI meeting and I almost had to leave the room. Mom ..... you continue to speak to me and I am so thankful for you. I miss you...
Take time this Christmas to tell someone you love them. Holding back does not produce anything and they just may need to hear those words.
Chris Tomlin : I will Rise
There's a peace I've come to know
Though my heart and flesh may fail
There's an anchor for my soul
I can say "It is well"Jesus has overcome And the grave is overwhelmed
The victory is won
He is risen from the dead
[Chorus:]
And I will rise when He calls my name No more sorrow, no more pain
I will rise on eagles' wings
Before my God fall on my knees And rise
I will rise
There's a day that's drawing near
When this darkness breaks to light And the shadows disappear And my faith shall be my eyes
Jesus has overcome
And the grave is overwhelmed
The victory is won He is risen from the dead
[Chorus:]
And I will rise when He calls my name
No more sorrow, no more pain
I will rise on eagles' wings
Before my God fall on my knees And rise I will rise
And I hear the voice of many angels sing,"Worthy is the Lamb"
And I hear the cry of every longing heart,"Worthy is the Lamb"
And I will rise when He calls my name
No more sorrow, no more pain
I will rise on eagles' wings
Before my God fall on my knees
And rise
I will rise
Last night one of "MyKids" shared with me Deuteronomy 15:10 in the way of a Bible book mark and it read : 10 Give generously to him and do so without a grudging heart; then because of this the LORD your God will bless you in all your work and in everything you put your hand to.
On it reads - "You serve the Lord OUR God so Faithfully" - she read this to me and it brought tears to my eyes because this came from the heart and this is what she thinks of me. I don't even have words to express that ... other than completely being humble. I am so blessed to be doing life with such awesome young people who God has put in my care and I take this role so dear to me. Those words mean speak volumes .........
I wanted to share this evening a song that I looked over my Ipod the last few months and sorted by how many times I have played. I was a little surprised but I do know it is one of my favorite songs.... I hope its one of yours: They played this last YCI meeting and I almost had to leave the room. Mom ..... you continue to speak to me and I am so thankful for you. I miss you...
Take time this Christmas to tell someone you love them. Holding back does not produce anything and they just may need to hear those words.
Chris Tomlin : I will Rise
There's a peace I've come to know
Though my heart and flesh may fail
There's an anchor for my soul
I can say "It is well"Jesus has overcome And the grave is overwhelmed
The victory is won
He is risen from the dead
[Chorus:]
And I will rise when He calls my name No more sorrow, no more pain
I will rise on eagles' wings
Before my God fall on my knees And rise
I will rise
There's a day that's drawing near
When this darkness breaks to light And the shadows disappear And my faith shall be my eyes
Jesus has overcome
And the grave is overwhelmed
The victory is won He is risen from the dead
[Chorus:]
And I will rise when He calls my name
No more sorrow, no more pain
I will rise on eagles' wings
Before my God fall on my knees And rise I will rise
And I hear the voice of many angels sing,"Worthy is the Lamb"
And I hear the cry of every longing heart,"Worthy is the Lamb"
And I will rise when He calls my name
No more sorrow, no more pain
I will rise on eagles' wings
Before my God fall on my knees
And rise
I will rise
Monday, December 21, 2009
1 more day.....
Well, actually a few more hours really and I will be done with work for 2009. It has been a good year, a year that God has grown me and challenged me in many things. God has blessed my family and I and I have felt Him as close as I ever have in my life. I look forward to mywalk in 2010 and the families and students that will come and go in my life. Its exciting for sure serving God and His people - still its hard to believe at times and I feel so unworthy of the capacity that He is using me.
Carol's birthday was yesterday - she has finally caught up to me in years even though she looks a LOT younger than I do. Good plug huh? Hey its been awhile since I saved up some brownie points... I am usually driving her crazy and I admit at times, I don't spend enough time with her with everything that is going on. Life does have its busy and needy moments thats for sure but I try to manage and handle it all and I know that the things in my life are from God. The families we are doing life with and the young people I am doing life with are not here by accident and they have meaning, purpose and are all part of Gods plan to not only shape them but also to shape me. They show me Jesus as much as I show them Jesus... maybe even more so on their part! We had a small birthday party for her last night and totally surprised her even though she made a few announcements that she has never been surprised... I just have to shake my head because I have got her a LOT over the years...... LOL - anyways, lots of good smiles, kids got to hang out together and it was fun time.
Tomorrow- Kyle, Morgan and I -not sure who else is going - are headed to the Salvation Army to help with Distribution day. Its a day where the families come - 200 an hour- and sign in, get in line to get their gifts and stocking stuffers and then a chance to spin the big wheel to win a bike. It is a day that last year was hard for me to hold back the emotions because these families need help and experience a blessing of Christmas and having the chance for their children to have a present to open is just amazing. I got to walk and talk with a 3 families last year in my short stay there.... and get to know them a little as we walked through the line, getting the gifts and then out to their vehicles.... it is something to share for sure. I am really pumped about this and look forward to talking with Kyle and Morgan and who ever else.... at lunch about it. We will then head uptown Charlotte and see the Christmas tree and what ever else the afternoon brings.
I wanted to share Psalm 119 today ... it is a LONG piece of scripture but I wanted to share a small part of it. It really spoke to me this morning ...
Psalm 119:105
105 Your word is a lamp to guide my feet and a light for my path.
Lord as this year begins to wind down, the gifts are all under the tree and we come together to celebrate You for Christmas - may you guide us Lord with your light in the paths that we need to be on in this life. If our paths are off today Lord in our walk ... help us get back to where we need to be. Surround us with the people that can guide us, that have our best interests at heart and I pray Lord that those that are with us, our families and dear friends, that they too will walk in Your light. Together we can make an impact and not feel isolated and alone - especially during this season. Help us focus on celebrating LIFE Lord, Your life in us.... we thank You for Your son Jesus its because of Him we have all we need. I pray all this in Jesus name,
Amen
Lonnie~
Carol's birthday was yesterday - she has finally caught up to me in years even though she looks a LOT younger than I do. Good plug huh? Hey its been awhile since I saved up some brownie points... I am usually driving her crazy and I admit at times, I don't spend enough time with her with everything that is going on. Life does have its busy and needy moments thats for sure but I try to manage and handle it all and I know that the things in my life are from God. The families we are doing life with and the young people I am doing life with are not here by accident and they have meaning, purpose and are all part of Gods plan to not only shape them but also to shape me. They show me Jesus as much as I show them Jesus... maybe even more so on their part! We had a small birthday party for her last night and totally surprised her even though she made a few announcements that she has never been surprised... I just have to shake my head because I have got her a LOT over the years...... LOL - anyways, lots of good smiles, kids got to hang out together and it was fun time.
Tomorrow- Kyle, Morgan and I -not sure who else is going - are headed to the Salvation Army to help with Distribution day. Its a day where the families come - 200 an hour- and sign in, get in line to get their gifts and stocking stuffers and then a chance to spin the big wheel to win a bike. It is a day that last year was hard for me to hold back the emotions because these families need help and experience a blessing of Christmas and having the chance for their children to have a present to open is just amazing. I got to walk and talk with a 3 families last year in my short stay there.... and get to know them a little as we walked through the line, getting the gifts and then out to their vehicles.... it is something to share for sure. I am really pumped about this and look forward to talking with Kyle and Morgan and who ever else.... at lunch about it. We will then head uptown Charlotte and see the Christmas tree and what ever else the afternoon brings.
I wanted to share Psalm 119 today ... it is a LONG piece of scripture but I wanted to share a small part of it. It really spoke to me this morning ...
Psalm 119:105
105 Your word is a lamp to guide my feet and a light for my path.
Lord as this year begins to wind down, the gifts are all under the tree and we come together to celebrate You for Christmas - may you guide us Lord with your light in the paths that we need to be on in this life. If our paths are off today Lord in our walk ... help us get back to where we need to be. Surround us with the people that can guide us, that have our best interests at heart and I pray Lord that those that are with us, our families and dear friends, that they too will walk in Your light. Together we can make an impact and not feel isolated and alone - especially during this season. Help us focus on celebrating LIFE Lord, Your life in us.... we thank You for Your son Jesus its because of Him we have all we need. I pray all this in Jesus name,
Amen
Lonnie~
Thursday, December 17, 2009
All that I am......
I have been walking pretty close with a few families over the past couple years and have had countless experiences with students from church, in school, college students here on campus, "MyKids" and so many others that have shared things in their life where I just want to be able to fix things and make things right. I have often times struggled with those feelings. Feelings of not knowing what to say or what to do. Thoughts that keep me up at night trying to figure out how I could make things better or change the outcome of their struggles. Times of how do I gather the energy up to do what is on my heart to do? Add on top of all I am going through in life with myself and my own family and you can just see how complicated it gets, how overwhelming it can feel and sometimes I feel like I can't do anything right or not enough of what people think I need to be doing or not doing. Life in ministry is tough. God never said this was going to be easy and when we make a decision to fight for those around us, to shine for Jesus and walk with others to be their "Balcony" person .... Satan comes at you and attacks... he gets to your family, he gets to your wife/husband and children, he knows us and he knows how to get to us.
One of the things I am learning through all this is - God is not leaving me here where I am at, He is teaching me through all this, and most importantly - I don't have to have all the answers. Being the Waffle that I am - I want to fix stuff - its a guy thing but sometimes fixing is not part of the solution.
I would not be a good steward in following Jesus if I was pointing people to myself. I have to be there to listen, to walk with, to be authentically available, and simply guide those around me, my family, friends, MyKids, students at church and whoever else - to their potential in Christ. I also have to recruit some trusted adults to help me do this because I can't do this alone. I have to have the blessings of my wife Carol in order for me to lead in our home and all who come to our home. I have to have the blessings of parents if I am to reach to their children. There is a LOT at stake here and there is nothing more important than a persons salvation nor nothing more important than a word or conversation at the right time, in the right context, with the correct motives to show a person that they are important and that they matter to God....
God loves us right where we are (in life) but there is more to it than that. He uses us as we are but He also uses us in who we will become. God is not done with your story and everything in your life is part of Him shaping and molding you. We must simply give Him our all. God, what are you wanting to do through me? Who are you shaping me to be? Are you a person of dreams, infinite possibility and promise? God sees you that way no matter if you see yourself that way or not.
I look around me today and see myself cheering on so many from the balcony of life. See there are 3 types of people in your life. You have the audience - the people in life taking up room. They are in your classes, at your work, at the ballgames, at the mall walking around but they are just people. Maybe you say hey maybe not. Maybe you know them maybe not. They are going about their life and interaction is minimal. You also have basement people - those are the people who are always negative, they drag you down, they steer you to themselves and have only themselves to think about. These are people who snub you when they are around a different crowd. These folks would turn on you when you needed them, they talk about you behind your back and these kinds of relationships usually are one sided. Pleasing them usually means you being unhappy, confused and often times hurt. Then you have the Balcony people -these are people that are cheering you on in life. They have the CAN DO attitude and can't is not part of their vocabulary. They encourage you and speak high levels of promise in you. They are the ones when you see them and you say to yourself - "I hope they have time for me today". They are the ones that lead you in truth, they are always asking what they could do for you, they bring you through the tough places and they shine so bright and you can't get enough of them because they are honest and have your best interest at heart. Jesus pours from them and life is exciting because life steps up.
So as I continue "mywalk" with student ministry, family ministry and lead my family, MyKids and others ... I don't have to fix, I don't have to have the answers, I dont have to feel unable to help or change anything - all I have to do is point them to Jesus. Help them realize the potential for them with God. Its not so much who we are today but who we are to become.
Thankful and blessed - for my conversations this week where I didn't have the words nor the answers but put in a place to just listen because I felt incapable of sharing some level of wisdom or something insightful. God then shows me His way ..... and I am thankful He did.
All that I am from the balcony for you,
Lonnie
One of the things I am learning through all this is - God is not leaving me here where I am at, He is teaching me through all this, and most importantly - I don't have to have all the answers. Being the Waffle that I am - I want to fix stuff - its a guy thing but sometimes fixing is not part of the solution.
I would not be a good steward in following Jesus if I was pointing people to myself. I have to be there to listen, to walk with, to be authentically available, and simply guide those around me, my family, friends, MyKids, students at church and whoever else - to their potential in Christ. I also have to recruit some trusted adults to help me do this because I can't do this alone. I have to have the blessings of my wife Carol in order for me to lead in our home and all who come to our home. I have to have the blessings of parents if I am to reach to their children. There is a LOT at stake here and there is nothing more important than a persons salvation nor nothing more important than a word or conversation at the right time, in the right context, with the correct motives to show a person that they are important and that they matter to God....
God loves us right where we are (in life) but there is more to it than that. He uses us as we are but He also uses us in who we will become. God is not done with your story and everything in your life is part of Him shaping and molding you. We must simply give Him our all. God, what are you wanting to do through me? Who are you shaping me to be? Are you a person of dreams, infinite possibility and promise? God sees you that way no matter if you see yourself that way or not.
I look around me today and see myself cheering on so many from the balcony of life. See there are 3 types of people in your life. You have the audience - the people in life taking up room. They are in your classes, at your work, at the ballgames, at the mall walking around but they are just people. Maybe you say hey maybe not. Maybe you know them maybe not. They are going about their life and interaction is minimal. You also have basement people - those are the people who are always negative, they drag you down, they steer you to themselves and have only themselves to think about. These are people who snub you when they are around a different crowd. These folks would turn on you when you needed them, they talk about you behind your back and these kinds of relationships usually are one sided. Pleasing them usually means you being unhappy, confused and often times hurt. Then you have the Balcony people -these are people that are cheering you on in life. They have the CAN DO attitude and can't is not part of their vocabulary. They encourage you and speak high levels of promise in you. They are the ones when you see them and you say to yourself - "I hope they have time for me today". They are the ones that lead you in truth, they are always asking what they could do for you, they bring you through the tough places and they shine so bright and you can't get enough of them because they are honest and have your best interest at heart. Jesus pours from them and life is exciting because life steps up.
So as I continue "mywalk" with student ministry, family ministry and lead my family, MyKids and others ... I don't have to fix, I don't have to have the answers, I dont have to feel unable to help or change anything - all I have to do is point them to Jesus. Help them realize the potential for them with God. Its not so much who we are today but who we are to become.
Thankful and blessed - for my conversations this week where I didn't have the words nor the answers but put in a place to just listen because I felt incapable of sharing some level of wisdom or something insightful. God then shows me His way ..... and I am thankful He did.
All that I am from the balcony for you,
Lonnie
Monday, December 14, 2009
Monday morning......
I was in bed last night at 9:15. Long day yesterday and one that was jam packed with things to do. Yesterday I got to do something that I have never done before. They say that there are 2 things that are our greatest fears - Heights and public speaking. Well, I got to tackle one of those yesterday and I am still scared of heights and vertigo at times doesn't help that but thats another story. About a month or so ago our Pastor to students and families asked me to pray about yesterday and preaching in the student ministry. I agreed right on the spot because I have felt in my heart for a long time this calling to do that. I know that is what God has called me to do with walking along side the students that He has trusted me with. It all began a few years ago when I walked into my first sunday school class because Carol continued to beg me and beg me to go with her. I was hooked since that day but it was a day that God had been building in me for some time before that. I can place blame on Donna for that -I pick at her all the time and I am so very thankful for you Donna - for letting me come into your classroom and experience the kids and God took my heart from there. All part of His perfect plan and the students and children I am doing life with today - I see them all as world changers and difference makers. I see so many of them taking their lights and shining in their dark places in their life. It is hard work at times, exhausting at times and its a ministry calling of extremes. But there is also extreme joy in all of it. Yesterday I got to teach from Luke 24. Its a story of the how Jesus walks along side His disciples after they were leaving town and walking along the side of the road. Jesus had been killed and placed in the tomb and all their hope and dreams were gone. All they heard about all their lives - a king that would come and rescue them and their people. They knew him as a friend and as their king - Jesus. Now with all hope gone, the long road to walk back home .... talking to themselves about what just happened and what they were going to do now. Jesus, without them noticing who He was..... walks up and looks over their shoulders. He checks in on our lives - he is in those text messages and phone calls, he is in those high school parties that maybe we shouldn't be at, he is in those relationships that are no good for us and leading us to a place we shouldn't be, he is in those football huddles, he is in the quiet times when nobody is looking.... he comes along side of us when life happens and we don't see it coming. When we are waiting on the test results, and during the loss of a parent, son or daughter. He is with us when we don't see him or feel him at all.......
With 42 students and leaders in the room ... it was a pretty awesome experience for me to bring them Gods word from my heart. A couple small video clips to help deliver the message and a call at the end that God prompted me to ask while we were praying to have the students look at me who need prayers this week because of something they are struggling with. MANY looked up at me and it almost brings tears to my eyes thinking about it right now as I looked at each one of them.
Mom - I never dreamed I would be doing this. I never dreamed God would be using me like this. I never dreamed my life would be revolving so much around God and have this burn in my chest for the students and their families that I am doing life with. There is no higher calling than this and I often just have to sit back and be completely amazed. Mom, through your cancer, it has brought me to this place. God's perfect place and plan. I pray I can continue to impact those around me for Jesus not just in a preaching way but also in a doing way - a faith that has actions behind it. An impact as we minister together to a family in need, as we give out soccer balls this coming Saturday, as we feed the homeless and work at the Christmas center.
There is nothing more important than their relationship with Jesus. Life comes at us and often times we don't see it coming. Your life was that way mom - we just didn't see it coming. Instead of asking why me ..... one valuable lesson I have learned over the years is seeking God in my struggles and asking "What is it Lord you want me to learn through this?".
I want to thank Carol for coming down and checking on me before the students got there. Carol you give up so much and are still adjusting to all that God is doing. We often times are running all over the place and burning the candles at both ends. I love you so much and I just couldn't do any of this without your support. We give up a lot of time to minister to "OurKids" and its not just limited to Sundays.... every day there is ministry work taking place as we love on those around us and in doing so .... we are making a difference! Our home is a safe zone - one where they can come and smile, share things, experience a love for them and feel God at work.
I want to thank Morgan for coming with me yesterday to the early service which she often times does. I think I would have been really nervous if I was in the classroom by myself for those 30 minutes before hand. I am thankful that we got to talk and share some laughs and for always encouraging me. I want to thank Kyle for always telling me I did a good job.... and always for his encouraging words and prayers. Thanks to the leaders in the room yesterday for telling me I did good and it was a message that they too needed to hear and that they felt it...... I also want to thank Pastor Travis for trusting me in leading. I sometimes have no idea what I am doing or what to do next but I am so pumped for what is ahead man. God has us moving forward on many things as we reach out to our students. I am so excited to be a part of this!!!
We got to celebrate Joe Bagley's life yesterday at his memorial service. I am in awe of his family and the life he has lead following Jesus. His life is an amazing testimony and it was amazing to see so many of his church friends and his family there. You could just feel the love in the room for an amazing man, an amazing husband, an amazing father, an amazing friend and an amazing follower of Jesus. I will always cherish our sunset conversation Joe. I know with all my heart that conversation took place for a reason. A reason to pause our life and just take in those still moments in time where heaven and earth come together and God paints an amazing tapestry of colors and scenery. I'll see you again my friend.
As I look around the office this morning. I see lots of pictures and notes .... Our lives are meant to be lived so big and so full of life. I am just very thankful this morning for what God is doing in me, through me and for my close peeps in my life that I get to share so much with. I am so blessed to be doing this together.
Lonnie~
With 42 students and leaders in the room ... it was a pretty awesome experience for me to bring them Gods word from my heart. A couple small video clips to help deliver the message and a call at the end that God prompted me to ask while we were praying to have the students look at me who need prayers this week because of something they are struggling with. MANY looked up at me and it almost brings tears to my eyes thinking about it right now as I looked at each one of them.
Mom - I never dreamed I would be doing this. I never dreamed God would be using me like this. I never dreamed my life would be revolving so much around God and have this burn in my chest for the students and their families that I am doing life with. There is no higher calling than this and I often just have to sit back and be completely amazed. Mom, through your cancer, it has brought me to this place. God's perfect place and plan. I pray I can continue to impact those around me for Jesus not just in a preaching way but also in a doing way - a faith that has actions behind it. An impact as we minister together to a family in need, as we give out soccer balls this coming Saturday, as we feed the homeless and work at the Christmas center.
There is nothing more important than their relationship with Jesus. Life comes at us and often times we don't see it coming. Your life was that way mom - we just didn't see it coming. Instead of asking why me ..... one valuable lesson I have learned over the years is seeking God in my struggles and asking "What is it Lord you want me to learn through this?".
I want to thank Carol for coming down and checking on me before the students got there. Carol you give up so much and are still adjusting to all that God is doing. We often times are running all over the place and burning the candles at both ends. I love you so much and I just couldn't do any of this without your support. We give up a lot of time to minister to "OurKids" and its not just limited to Sundays.... every day there is ministry work taking place as we love on those around us and in doing so .... we are making a difference! Our home is a safe zone - one where they can come and smile, share things, experience a love for them and feel God at work.
I want to thank Morgan for coming with me yesterday to the early service which she often times does. I think I would have been really nervous if I was in the classroom by myself for those 30 minutes before hand. I am thankful that we got to talk and share some laughs and for always encouraging me. I want to thank Kyle for always telling me I did a good job.... and always for his encouraging words and prayers. Thanks to the leaders in the room yesterday for telling me I did good and it was a message that they too needed to hear and that they felt it...... I also want to thank Pastor Travis for trusting me in leading. I sometimes have no idea what I am doing or what to do next but I am so pumped for what is ahead man. God has us moving forward on many things as we reach out to our students. I am so excited to be a part of this!!!
We got to celebrate Joe Bagley's life yesterday at his memorial service. I am in awe of his family and the life he has lead following Jesus. His life is an amazing testimony and it was amazing to see so many of his church friends and his family there. You could just feel the love in the room for an amazing man, an amazing husband, an amazing father, an amazing friend and an amazing follower of Jesus. I will always cherish our sunset conversation Joe. I know with all my heart that conversation took place for a reason. A reason to pause our life and just take in those still moments in time where heaven and earth come together and God paints an amazing tapestry of colors and scenery. I'll see you again my friend.
As I look around the office this morning. I see lots of pictures and notes .... Our lives are meant to be lived so big and so full of life. I am just very thankful this morning for what God is doing in me, through me and for my close peeps in my life that I get to share so much with. I am so blessed to be doing this together.
Lonnie~
Friday, December 11, 2009
A few updates~
Happy Friday everyone! Thankful to be winding down a busy week and this evening - I think as a family we are going to get the Christmas tree down and get it decorated. Nothing else planned and that is a good thing. Yes downtime, a little extra sleep and some quiet time is not a sign of weakness or just unplugging but a time to refresh, regroup, refocus and this waffle sure needs some time in my "nothing" box.
Last Wednesday we had 44 folks go to the Angel Tree Program through the Salvation Army. Shelley as usual did a great job explaining the process, what we do and the outreach importance into the community that this organization does. The students are excited to be serving and having fun while doing so and that is such an awesome thing to witness. We adopted as a church 25 Angels and we only have like 11 left for Sunday services but that is still 25 children we will be touching this Christmas through our church. Its personal and it puts our faith in action and that is what its all about. Great time for sure... will be headed back to drop gifts off on Tuesday evening - hoping to have a few students to come along as well as a few parents to help drive. Distribution days in 2 weeks is something to see for sure. I am really excited to be there again this year.
There is something that has been on my heart the last few days. I almost posted it yesterday but wanted to give Kyle his due on "thewalk" in case someone didn't know it was his birthday and all. We did head to Red Lobster last night with a dear family we are close with and he tore open some seafood. The young man can eat thats for sure. He didn't want to go to bed last night because he said it would be the end to his birthday and a great day! I am happy about that~
I am going to spill my heart here for a few minutes. I will say the word "She" but I think this applies to that son in your life, that student if you are a leader so put the context in place so that it makes sense for you. I am using "She" because there is someone who this is for but it is applied to all of "MyKids" and its something I am passionate about as I walk with so many. Hope it does for you as well.
There is a fine art to being authentically available to a young person who might want to talk to you about what is troubling them. It is something like this that keeps me asking, keeps me praying for opportunity and searching for a way for them to communicate no matter how big or small. These moments and opportunities keep me up at night. I had this conversation just this morning about that moment that God calls us home - we never know when that may be so I tell "mykids" that I love them and that I am proud of them every chance I get. I want them to know that and if it is that time - then they won't ever have to wonder about it because I have told them many times. There won't be any doubt what so ever. In order to open this communication line of course, they have to know that you love them and value them. Otherwise, they could not afford to tell you how they really feel about anything important. (small talk to pass time really bugs me just so you know) Even as adults, we rarely confide in anyone we may think does not truly care about us right? Our students and our children are no different. I also think that most of us wont open up to people who pry either. So there is a fine line to asking questions, talking from the heart and what is really on our hearts and minds. We have to be available but we also have to give them space and respect if the time is not right or that trust has not been fully established yet. Communication flows freely when students/children and leaders/parents feel safe and secure with each other.
Teenagers, adults and young children often need to be able to spill out deeper anxieties and fears. Without these safety valves, emotional tensions and stress can rise to such levels that something has to give. If you are a parent, a leader or that trusted role model ~ the right words and conversation not only can help ventilate the mind and hearts and diminish fear and anguish of the spirit, but also can mend and heal. SO much is packed into even those small and quick conversations. You don't need to wait for that big event, or the perfect place and time for that big conversation on a specific subject - often times, especially in this face pace world of email, twitter, blogs and texting - the small conversations can have the biggest impact on those we love and are trying to reach. Pleasant and relaxing excursions with them can let them see what an intelligent, mature grown up is really like. For those girls - a fatherly figure is so important or a trusted male role model who has their best interest at heart - it is vital for them!! Every girl needs that kind of influence in her life, someone she can talk to, argue with, race at the picnic, be silly with, but also have access to authentic relationship with someone who cares and loves them as an example she can compare to in her life down the road. Boys are the same, they need to have access to a father or male role model to lift them in encouragement, show them how to lead in life, how to treat a lady, to stick with things when things are tough, and also to be compassionate to others - and yes, its even ok to have a softer side that cares and wants to be cared about in return. All these things are worth doing even if you have to make room in your schedule. Let me be honest here and it is why I do so much with "mykids" and sometimes to the point where I am probably over extending myself at times but I know deep in my heart that - they are growing up just as swiftly as I am adding years to myself. Waiting until next year or the year after that will only find them a year older, me a year older, and that much less inclined to talk with you, go swimming with you, have fun at a picnic, or even go to a concert with. They will find that safety valve else where and that is usually when trouble begins to creep in.
Out of all these experiences come the kind of deep mutual and open relationship and understanding that have kept thousands of daughters, sons and students right minded, trustworthy about sex and dating, even in a world where morals, ethics and character sometimes seem extinct.
Our kids are worth that leadership from you. They are worth your investment. "MyKids" are worth that investment to me. I pour into them with everything I have because maybe, just maybe down the road - they will be different than what society is telling them. Maybe they will be leading their friends and not them being lead by their friends. Maybe they will have a heart for the things that God has a heart for. Maybe down the road it will keep them from making a bad choice that will haunt them for life. Maybe down the road it will lead them to finding their calling in life. Maybe down the road - they will know who they really are and won't let others decide who they are or even who they should hang out with. Maybe down the road they will have confidence in themselves and the word "CAN'T" is not part of their vocabulary.
Authentically available means being there for them when you don't have time, when you have to put aside what you want to do for them, putting them first sometimes over yourself, leading them when sometimes we are scared to death for them (and us), and loving them regardless with a love that is unconditional.
That is where I am today. My time with them is short and is not getting any longer. To me the only thing that will matter 100 years from now after I am long gone is their relationship with Jesus. Did I do everything I could to help them see and experience Jesus? Doesn't matter if I led them there but it does matter what I do with them after they find Him.
I had a phone call on the way home yesterday from one of my students. It was a great conversation that had questions. I got back with her on them and talked through some things. All unexpected, unplanned, and unprompted but by making myself available to talk- even if it meant me pulling over on the side of the road so I could concentrate and focus for 10 minutes - I think it made a lasting impression on a decision. It put some value in that choice without an adult just telling her what to do. She understands now WHY she was making the choice she was making. That is powerful stuff!! What would have been that decision without that conversation? Its not always in the big talks that make the biggest impact.
Colossians 4:2-6
Further Instructions 2Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful. 3And pray for us, too, that God may open a door for our message, so that we may proclaim the mystery of Christ, for which I am in chains. 4Pray that I may proclaim it clearly, as I should. 5Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. 6Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.
Lord I continue to ask that you open the doors for those around me who need an ear to talk with or someone to walk along side so that they have a release valve to release the pressures of this life. I pray for those opportunities ahead and ask that You be in those conversations and in every detail that takes place. I continue to ask that You keep me humble Lord, ready to listen and ready to have Your words above my own. I ask that You keep me focused on You Lord and that Your lampstand is sitting in the perfect spot so that they may see Your light Lord. I thank You for using me Lord in such ways and continue to ask for Your blessings and guidance in all I do. Your intentions Lord above my own and may Your name be glorified in all I do.
Its in Jesus name I pray,
Amen
Love you all,
Lonnie~
Last Wednesday we had 44 folks go to the Angel Tree Program through the Salvation Army. Shelley as usual did a great job explaining the process, what we do and the outreach importance into the community that this organization does. The students are excited to be serving and having fun while doing so and that is such an awesome thing to witness. We adopted as a church 25 Angels and we only have like 11 left for Sunday services but that is still 25 children we will be touching this Christmas through our church. Its personal and it puts our faith in action and that is what its all about. Great time for sure... will be headed back to drop gifts off on Tuesday evening - hoping to have a few students to come along as well as a few parents to help drive. Distribution days in 2 weeks is something to see for sure. I am really excited to be there again this year.
There is something that has been on my heart the last few days. I almost posted it yesterday but wanted to give Kyle his due on "thewalk" in case someone didn't know it was his birthday and all. We did head to Red Lobster last night with a dear family we are close with and he tore open some seafood. The young man can eat thats for sure. He didn't want to go to bed last night because he said it would be the end to his birthday and a great day! I am happy about that~
I am going to spill my heart here for a few minutes. I will say the word "She" but I think this applies to that son in your life, that student if you are a leader so put the context in place so that it makes sense for you. I am using "She" because there is someone who this is for but it is applied to all of "MyKids" and its something I am passionate about as I walk with so many. Hope it does for you as well.
There is a fine art to being authentically available to a young person who might want to talk to you about what is troubling them. It is something like this that keeps me asking, keeps me praying for opportunity and searching for a way for them to communicate no matter how big or small. These moments and opportunities keep me up at night. I had this conversation just this morning about that moment that God calls us home - we never know when that may be so I tell "mykids" that I love them and that I am proud of them every chance I get. I want them to know that and if it is that time - then they won't ever have to wonder about it because I have told them many times. There won't be any doubt what so ever. In order to open this communication line of course, they have to know that you love them and value them. Otherwise, they could not afford to tell you how they really feel about anything important. (small talk to pass time really bugs me just so you know) Even as adults, we rarely confide in anyone we may think does not truly care about us right? Our students and our children are no different. I also think that most of us wont open up to people who pry either. So there is a fine line to asking questions, talking from the heart and what is really on our hearts and minds. We have to be available but we also have to give them space and respect if the time is not right or that trust has not been fully established yet. Communication flows freely when students/children and leaders/parents feel safe and secure with each other.
Teenagers, adults and young children often need to be able to spill out deeper anxieties and fears. Without these safety valves, emotional tensions and stress can rise to such levels that something has to give. If you are a parent, a leader or that trusted role model ~ the right words and conversation not only can help ventilate the mind and hearts and diminish fear and anguish of the spirit, but also can mend and heal. SO much is packed into even those small and quick conversations. You don't need to wait for that big event, or the perfect place and time for that big conversation on a specific subject - often times, especially in this face pace world of email, twitter, blogs and texting - the small conversations can have the biggest impact on those we love and are trying to reach. Pleasant and relaxing excursions with them can let them see what an intelligent, mature grown up is really like. For those girls - a fatherly figure is so important or a trusted male role model who has their best interest at heart - it is vital for them!! Every girl needs that kind of influence in her life, someone she can talk to, argue with, race at the picnic, be silly with, but also have access to authentic relationship with someone who cares and loves them as an example she can compare to in her life down the road. Boys are the same, they need to have access to a father or male role model to lift them in encouragement, show them how to lead in life, how to treat a lady, to stick with things when things are tough, and also to be compassionate to others - and yes, its even ok to have a softer side that cares and wants to be cared about in return. All these things are worth doing even if you have to make room in your schedule. Let me be honest here and it is why I do so much with "mykids" and sometimes to the point where I am probably over extending myself at times but I know deep in my heart that - they are growing up just as swiftly as I am adding years to myself. Waiting until next year or the year after that will only find them a year older, me a year older, and that much less inclined to talk with you, go swimming with you, have fun at a picnic, or even go to a concert with. They will find that safety valve else where and that is usually when trouble begins to creep in.
Out of all these experiences come the kind of deep mutual and open relationship and understanding that have kept thousands of daughters, sons and students right minded, trustworthy about sex and dating, even in a world where morals, ethics and character sometimes seem extinct.
Our kids are worth that leadership from you. They are worth your investment. "MyKids" are worth that investment to me. I pour into them with everything I have because maybe, just maybe down the road - they will be different than what society is telling them. Maybe they will be leading their friends and not them being lead by their friends. Maybe they will have a heart for the things that God has a heart for. Maybe down the road it will keep them from making a bad choice that will haunt them for life. Maybe down the road it will lead them to finding their calling in life. Maybe down the road - they will know who they really are and won't let others decide who they are or even who they should hang out with. Maybe down the road they will have confidence in themselves and the word "CAN'T" is not part of their vocabulary.
Authentically available means being there for them when you don't have time, when you have to put aside what you want to do for them, putting them first sometimes over yourself, leading them when sometimes we are scared to death for them (and us), and loving them regardless with a love that is unconditional.
That is where I am today. My time with them is short and is not getting any longer. To me the only thing that will matter 100 years from now after I am long gone is their relationship with Jesus. Did I do everything I could to help them see and experience Jesus? Doesn't matter if I led them there but it does matter what I do with them after they find Him.
I had a phone call on the way home yesterday from one of my students. It was a great conversation that had questions. I got back with her on them and talked through some things. All unexpected, unplanned, and unprompted but by making myself available to talk- even if it meant me pulling over on the side of the road so I could concentrate and focus for 10 minutes - I think it made a lasting impression on a decision. It put some value in that choice without an adult just telling her what to do. She understands now WHY she was making the choice she was making. That is powerful stuff!! What would have been that decision without that conversation? Its not always in the big talks that make the biggest impact.
Colossians 4:2-6
Further Instructions 2Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful. 3And pray for us, too, that God may open a door for our message, so that we may proclaim the mystery of Christ, for which I am in chains. 4Pray that I may proclaim it clearly, as I should. 5Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. 6Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.
Lord I continue to ask that you open the doors for those around me who need an ear to talk with or someone to walk along side so that they have a release valve to release the pressures of this life. I pray for those opportunities ahead and ask that You be in those conversations and in every detail that takes place. I continue to ask that You keep me humble Lord, ready to listen and ready to have Your words above my own. I ask that You keep me focused on You Lord and that Your lampstand is sitting in the perfect spot so that they may see Your light Lord. I thank You for using me Lord in such ways and continue to ask for Your blessings and guidance in all I do. Your intentions Lord above my own and may Your name be glorified in all I do.
Its in Jesus name I pray,
Amen
Love you all,
Lonnie~
Thursday, December 10, 2009
12 years ago today .....
I can remember wondering what am I in for as I look back 12 years ago today. Kyle you were planned to be delivered by c-section and that was ok with your mom and me. It was how I was most comfortable. In a few hours your mom and I left for the hospital and our lives were forever changed. Yes I should be sleeping now. Not exactly sure why I can't - especially the last few days but I also had this on my heart to share. 12 years old, middle school student, believer in Jesus Christ and owning your faith, funny man who is always wanting laughs from everyone around you, concerned about everyone and everything - you have so much of your grandma's in you and so much of you momma in you. It has been amazing to watch you grow into the young man that you are today. You have your silly moments for sure as we all do but a good laugh and smile is nothing to not let happen when life is so short and people are so full of drama and being something they are not these days just trying to fit into a certain circle or impress someone. You are genuine man and I am proud of you for that. You OWN your faith and your walk with Jesus in your life is going to be an amazing road for sure. As your earthly dad, I know I have and will continue to let you down but I do love you with all my heart and there is nothing I would not do for you. You are contagious to all those around you - that is why people want to hang with you. Its that smile and funny sense of humor that you have. Shaving cream on Madisons hand a few weeks ago is just that kind of fun that comes out of you.
The other day when we had some time at the gym and then got a bite to eat together - I asked you what you wanted for your birthday. You looked over at me with one of your smiles and I could see you had something on your heart to share - Dad's can tell when something is heavy on their childrens heart.... you told me that you wanted to have a small party but instead of getting gifts - you wanted your friends to give you gift cards so that you could give to a local family that is going through a hard time lately... give so that their children will have a Christmas. Those are things that 12 years old dont do - when they do - they are for sure something special. You get helping and serving people bud. I am so proud of the fact that it has happened early in your life. You understand giving back and serving God with your compassion for others. God is doing amazing things in you Kyle - He has walked close with you over your 12 years with heartbreak with losing both grandma's and a grandpa. Your foundation is for sure rock solid in Gods hands.
The pictures above are just a few of the SO many of the peeps you are doing life with. Great friends who have your back and you have theirs. That is an awesome place to be as you shine your light dear one to illuminate Gods love and grace to the dark areas of your world. This year at school has been a tough one starting out. Not many friends being in a new school and middle school being that age group where so many are making mistakes as they discover themselves, make new friends and begin to understand responsibility and some other big huge things that this life is going to test you on. I pray that you continue to faithful and trusting in God, that you continue to keep a close tight group of friends and that you never lose sight of who you are. You are God child before you are mine. I am so proud of you buddy.... I am already praying for your wife and your future ... you may already know her now or you may not but regardless - God is at the center of your life
IT SHOWS. May God grant me 50 more years to be your earthly dad. If I am proud - imagine how much God is proud of you.
I love you with all my heart son ..... everything I have in me and all I have is yours.
Happy Birthday bud.....
Daddy~
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Angel Tree - Salvation Army
This is a picture of my buddy Joe Bagley a few years ago. Once or twice a year during the Christmas season we all head down to the Christmas Center for the Salvation Army and serve the families there through their Angel Tree Program. What an exerience it is every year - especially for our families who come and serve together and our students who really get the concept that these families we are serving... the children would not otherwise get anything unless they were part of this program. Its an amazing evening for sure. Tonight, in honor of Joe and his family who served so passionatly to this outreach - we will once again head back to Charlotte and be a part of this. My dear friend Shelley makes all kinds of arrangements for us as a church to have our own time there and even spends a few hours of her own time helping us with directions and vision of what actually takes place there in that old Walmart. 1850 bikes for kids will be sent home to children - tons of donated and adopted Angels begin to fill the floor space... it is something to see. I plan on going back this year to check out the pickup days when the families come and get their gifts -many are in tears, many cannot even speak they are so overwhelmed with emotion and when they spin the big wheel to see if they win a bike - its like being on a game show and with each bike win - there is cheering throughout the building. I pray like crazy for this experience to really hit people, especially our children and our teenagers - they have so much and so much to be thankful for. Changed lives begin to shape on evening like this as we focus outward on others and more important things other than our selves and our struggles. I will post some follow up thoughts after tonight's experience.
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
3rd C.....
It has been a few days since I last logged in to finish up this "C" talk I am working through. Nothing short on excitement though. 56 students in our student ministry yesterday. That is exciting! Family and Student ministry meeting last night, College basketball game tonight with "MyKids" and then a service project with our middle and high school students and their families tomorrow night as we head to the Christmas Center to shop for the kids and adopt Angels through the Salvation Army. I am so very excited about this time together as it is such a humbling experience to really adopt these children and take ownership as the students shop for gifts for these families. Its personal and such a joy to see. I will post some of those experiences later in the week. But this brings me to my third "C" and its fitting because we are on the move and putting action to our faith. See faith is not just meant to be seen or heard. It is meant to be demonstrated. As director of the student ministry at church - I need to work harder at doing this and communicating more effectively. See this is half of the bigger picture and not just being and leading the students. So as we Celebrate where we are and where Gods has us, we Connect with others to help us on our walk to keep us focused and encouraged and we Contribute by being the hands and feet of Jesus to those around us. I can't be the light for Jesus in your world. You can't be that light in my world. We are all called to illuminate Gods love and grace where we are doing life. Christmas time is here and the days are winding down. I am not feeling ready this year mainly because Carol and Kyle both have birthdays in there before Christmas. Its hard to concentrate on both and still be in the spirit. Its the worlds vision of spirit I am talking about - giving is just a part of who I am. I am in constant prayer of opportunities to walk with people and help out where I can. If done for the right reasons - blessings can be felt, experienced and shared no matter what time of year it is. There is nothing better than sending a family a box wrapped in love with things in the box that screams - someone cares and not taking any credit for it at all. Man that is sweet......
Romans 12:
6-8If you preach, just preach God's Message, nothing else; if you help, just help, don't take over; if you teach, stick to your teaching; if you give encouraging guidance, be careful that you don't get bossy; if you're put in charge, don't manipulate; if you're called to give aid to people in distress, keep your eyes open and be quick to respond; if you work with the disadvantaged, don't let yourself get irritated with them or depressed by them. Keep a smile on your face.
9-10Love from the center of who you are; don't fake it. Run for dear life from evil; hold on for dear life to good. Be good friends who love deeply; practice playing second fiddle.
11-13Don't burn out; keep yourselves fueled and aflame. Be alert servants of the Master, cheerfully expectant. Don't quit in hard times; pray all the harder. Help needy Christians; be inventive in hospitality.
14-16Bless your enemies; no cursing under your breath. Laugh with your happy friends when they're happy; share tears when they're down. Get along with each other; don't be stuck-up. Make friends with nobodies; don't be the great somebody.
17-19Don't hit back; discover beauty in everyone. If you've got it in you, get along with everybody. Don't insist on getting even; that's not for you to do. "I'll do the judging," says God. "I'll take care of it."
20-21Our Scriptures tell us that if you see your enemy hungry, go buy that person lunch, or if he's thirsty, get him a drink. Your generosity will surprise him with goodness. Don't let evil get the best of you; get the best of evil by doing good.
What do you want your life to be about? Some of the things above are hard for sure - some just dont make sense at all but looking beyond the surface of things - there is a bigger picture. I look at the student ministry that I am involved with and that has so much of my heart and makes up so much of who I am. It never would have started if I didn't take that first step. Did I think 4 years ago that I would have this burn in my chest for our children and students back then? No way ... I would have never taken that step ... to scared... I may have thought I was nuts... Carol would have thought I went nuts. But here I am .... Celebrating what God has and will do in my life, Connecting with others and serving hard to Connect people together and then Contributing by giving so much back. My time, my energy, my thoughts and prayers..... and serving with my hands and feet as we reach out to others.
When all of this is clicking .... there is no bigger smile on my face and on my heart. The both show so much about who we are and what we are becoming.
Celebrate - Connect - Contribute
Love you all,
Lonnie~
Romans 12:
6-8If you preach, just preach God's Message, nothing else; if you help, just help, don't take over; if you teach, stick to your teaching; if you give encouraging guidance, be careful that you don't get bossy; if you're put in charge, don't manipulate; if you're called to give aid to people in distress, keep your eyes open and be quick to respond; if you work with the disadvantaged, don't let yourself get irritated with them or depressed by them. Keep a smile on your face.
9-10Love from the center of who you are; don't fake it. Run for dear life from evil; hold on for dear life to good. Be good friends who love deeply; practice playing second fiddle.
11-13Don't burn out; keep yourselves fueled and aflame. Be alert servants of the Master, cheerfully expectant. Don't quit in hard times; pray all the harder. Help needy Christians; be inventive in hospitality.
14-16Bless your enemies; no cursing under your breath. Laugh with your happy friends when they're happy; share tears when they're down. Get along with each other; don't be stuck-up. Make friends with nobodies; don't be the great somebody.
17-19Don't hit back; discover beauty in everyone. If you've got it in you, get along with everybody. Don't insist on getting even; that's not for you to do. "I'll do the judging," says God. "I'll take care of it."
20-21Our Scriptures tell us that if you see your enemy hungry, go buy that person lunch, or if he's thirsty, get him a drink. Your generosity will surprise him with goodness. Don't let evil get the best of you; get the best of evil by doing good.
What do you want your life to be about? Some of the things above are hard for sure - some just dont make sense at all but looking beyond the surface of things - there is a bigger picture. I look at the student ministry that I am involved with and that has so much of my heart and makes up so much of who I am. It never would have started if I didn't take that first step. Did I think 4 years ago that I would have this burn in my chest for our children and students back then? No way ... I would have never taken that step ... to scared... I may have thought I was nuts... Carol would have thought I went nuts. But here I am .... Celebrating what God has and will do in my life, Connecting with others and serving hard to Connect people together and then Contributing by giving so much back. My time, my energy, my thoughts and prayers..... and serving with my hands and feet as we reach out to others.
When all of this is clicking .... there is no bigger smile on my face and on my heart. The both show so much about who we are and what we are becoming.
Celebrate - Connect - Contribute
Love you all,
Lonnie~
Thursday, December 3, 2009
2nd C...
I have had a great couple days the last few days. Busy - but that is good. Trying to Celebrate all that God is doing in my life as well as those who I am doing life with. I got to enjoy a great college basketball game last night with some of my closest kids. I so much enjoy this time together, enjoying the crowd, dip n dots and popcorn and the smiles. Game didn't start till late but we did leave a little early so they would be able to handle tests and their regular school day and my work day. One thing we always do when we are on campus is to stop by the office - get a drink, a piece of candy and they always love enjoy checking out my office. On my desk and walls, I have lots of pictures and notes. So much to look at as my life is on display and there is no question as to where my heart is after just a minute or two. I came in this morning after a tough start, to find 2 handwritten notes on my desk. "Its going to be a happy day no matter what anyone says!" - "I Love you" with hearts and signatures. Man that just humbles me big time. It was a great reminder to Celebrate what is good in life even though there are some tough things that could drag us down and make us lose our Joy. It is so awesome to know that all I pour out - it is being poured IN somewhere. This brings me to my 2nd "C" today. "CONNECT". As a follower of Jesus were are not made to do this life alone. Being alone is a place that lets our minds and hearts wander into places that are not healthy. Sad and depresses - worst place for you is to be alone. You need to surround yourself with people who care and love you. Even if its one of those days that are tougher than normal, things are just not working out right or the kids are unhappy over something - we need to have someone in our life that can pick us up and move our spirit, attitude and outlook to a greener place. I know this is hard for some and just not possible every single day - Hey I get that. But by Connecting with others - it gives us the opportunities to change the outcome and the path we currently are on. Hey nothing like a close friend when we are feeling down right? Our Christian walk is no different. There is so much more to learn and experience when you are along side someone else who maybe has already been through what your going through and has the wisdom and the words to help us along or maybe its you who have been through some struggle and can reach out to them with the practical love of Jesus. Maybe its a great day and having someone Celebrate what God is doing in your lives is such a blessing! 2 lights shining and illuminating the dark places in this world are far better and stronger than being alone.
Romans 12:
Place Your Life Before God
1-2 So here's what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him. Don't become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You'll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what he wants from you, and quickly respond to it. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well-formed maturity in you.
3I'm speaking to you out of deep gratitude for all that God has given me, and especially as I have responsibilities in relation to you. Living then, as every one of you does, in pure grace, it's important that you not misinterpret yourselves as people who are bringing this goodness to God. No, God brings it all to you. The only accurate way to understand ourselves is by what God is and by what he does for us, not by what we are and what we do for him.
4-6In this way we are like the various parts of a human body. Each part gets its meaning from the body as a whole, not the other way around. The body we're talking about is Christ's body of chosen people. Each of us finds our meaning and function as a part of his body. But as a chopped-off finger or cut-off toe we wouldn't amount to much, would we? So since we find ourselves fashioned into all these excellently formed and marvelously functioning parts in Christ's body, let's just go ahead and be what we were made to be, without enviously or pridefully comparing ourselves with each other, or trying to be something we aren't.
So as we evaluate where we are today - there is reason to Celebrate and Connect. Christians should be the happiest people on the face of earth. We have each other and we know already what God has done for us. Lets team together and make this world a different place - one person, one family, one neighborhood, and one community at a time.
"Its going to be a happy day no matter what anyone says!" - Thank You!!! :)
Lonnie
Romans 12:
Place Your Life Before God
1-2 So here's what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him. Don't become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You'll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what he wants from you, and quickly respond to it. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well-formed maturity in you.
3I'm speaking to you out of deep gratitude for all that God has given me, and especially as I have responsibilities in relation to you. Living then, as every one of you does, in pure grace, it's important that you not misinterpret yourselves as people who are bringing this goodness to God. No, God brings it all to you. The only accurate way to understand ourselves is by what God is and by what he does for us, not by what we are and what we do for him.
4-6In this way we are like the various parts of a human body. Each part gets its meaning from the body as a whole, not the other way around. The body we're talking about is Christ's body of chosen people. Each of us finds our meaning and function as a part of his body. But as a chopped-off finger or cut-off toe we wouldn't amount to much, would we? So since we find ourselves fashioned into all these excellently formed and marvelously functioning parts in Christ's body, let's just go ahead and be what we were made to be, without enviously or pridefully comparing ourselves with each other, or trying to be something we aren't.
So as we evaluate where we are today - there is reason to Celebrate and Connect. Christians should be the happiest people on the face of earth. We have each other and we know already what God has done for us. Lets team together and make this world a different place - one person, one family, one neighborhood, and one community at a time.
"Its going to be a happy day no matter what anyone says!" - Thank You!!! :)
Lonnie
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
3C's
Wow it has been a busy day for sure. Going to take a few minutes here and unload a few things. Now is your chance to hit the browser and move on or you can stick with me and read on at your own risk. I am learning a lot lately - not so much in reading things but in the people who are in my life right now, as well as the opportunities that come forth that bring such incredible conversations. Not all of which are God centered in the middle of them, not because of me, but I do know there is purpose in them. Sometimes we have to focus a little harder to find God in those conversations, even when the person we are talking with doesn't know God. He or she may ... because of that conversation. It may be an opening to their hearts and minds as you listen with 100% attention and with laser focus on the stuggle or whatever the subject may be. Sometimes just being available to talk means the difference. God for sure is teaching me through that lately...and honestly - I am so cool with it. Teach me Lord.... keep showing me You in all that I am doing.
Yesterday I was in Romans 1:11-12 and I am still there today. I am just blown away by what God has to say about pouring yourself into others with Gods word and in return they pour back into you. In so many small, subtle and in many big ways - many are showing me Jesus. From the text messages, to the emails, smiles, comments on facebook and even in watching their actions and concerns for others ... its so wonderful to see some folks in my life "Owning" their faith and putting it into action. Especially from our young adults. I want to share that Kyle continues to bug me about a new list. See I put together a list a few weeks back with action steps that students can use to put their faith in action by doing little things that are nice. Like holding the door open for every person you see that day, helping a single mom, praying for a friend, writing a note of encouragment to someone who needs it, writing a bible verse on your notebook, or even making a testimony shirt and wearing it to school with Bible verses on it and kids signing it. Kyle did the entire list and was so excited that he wants more. There were other students that went with me to a home of a town neighbor and helped clean a horse stall out- yes we shoveled poop for 4 hours. Yes we were tired but we made a difference and it sure was said to us that it couldnt have been in more perfect timing for that family. I can look around me and see so many who are just glowing in what God is doing in their lives. I can see God using them supernaturally and within their sweet spot. I see their concern for others and their compassion for other classmates. I see them wanting to please mom or dad that they work hard for their grades and the things at home they do to help keep a home running. It means so much to me for "MyKids" to text me after school and ask me how my day was. It means a lot to me watching them care and be concerned for others. There is reason to celebrate. This bringing me to my first "C". There is reason to CELEBRATE in what God is doing in our lives - no matter how big or how small. If you are in a quiet season right now - step up your game. Get with another person or leader in the church and get involved in something new. Ask to lead a new volunteer spot and let God teach you something new, something about yourself and more importantly something new about Him. See God doesnt want us sitting at home on the couch, being complacent and comfortable. Far too many people watch their years go by striving and working hard to do just that. Make a difference, reach out and do some hard things, get involved with what is going on. If you need some refocus and having trouble finding something to celebrate in your life - then hold your breath awhile and enjoy breathing in when you cant hold it any longer. Life and air we breath is reason to celebrate! Even during the wait of a medical test there is hope and assurance and reason to celebrate because the hard stuff is done already. Jesus has already led the way.
I love the families God has put in my life. I love the people that come into my office and want to talk and pray. I love the students in my life that I get to invest in on Sundays and in every day of the week. I love "MyKids" who are my sons and daughters..... I love the fact that they are showing me Jesus and owning it as much as I am doing my best to show them Jesus.
Its reason to Celebrate ..........
Colossians 3:16-17
16 Let the message about Christ, in all its richness, fill your lives. Teach and counsel each other with all the wisdom he gives. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts. 17 And whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father.
Just blessed beyond reason to be a part in all that God is doing in my life as well as those around me. It is such a high calling and responsibility that makes life worth living and pouring into. Imagine all that can be done through a 12 year old who gets this now.... Exciting watching God use them. Exciting no matter how old really .... cause I am pretty old and its pretty exciting. :)
2nd C - tomorrow~
Celebrate loved ones,
Lonnie
Yesterday I was in Romans 1:11-12 and I am still there today. I am just blown away by what God has to say about pouring yourself into others with Gods word and in return they pour back into you. In so many small, subtle and in many big ways - many are showing me Jesus. From the text messages, to the emails, smiles, comments on facebook and even in watching their actions and concerns for others ... its so wonderful to see some folks in my life "Owning" their faith and putting it into action. Especially from our young adults. I want to share that Kyle continues to bug me about a new list. See I put together a list a few weeks back with action steps that students can use to put their faith in action by doing little things that are nice. Like holding the door open for every person you see that day, helping a single mom, praying for a friend, writing a note of encouragment to someone who needs it, writing a bible verse on your notebook, or even making a testimony shirt and wearing it to school with Bible verses on it and kids signing it. Kyle did the entire list and was so excited that he wants more. There were other students that went with me to a home of a town neighbor and helped clean a horse stall out- yes we shoveled poop for 4 hours. Yes we were tired but we made a difference and it sure was said to us that it couldnt have been in more perfect timing for that family. I can look around me and see so many who are just glowing in what God is doing in their lives. I can see God using them supernaturally and within their sweet spot. I see their concern for others and their compassion for other classmates. I see them wanting to please mom or dad that they work hard for their grades and the things at home they do to help keep a home running. It means so much to me for "MyKids" to text me after school and ask me how my day was. It means a lot to me watching them care and be concerned for others. There is reason to celebrate. This bringing me to my first "C". There is reason to CELEBRATE in what God is doing in our lives - no matter how big or how small. If you are in a quiet season right now - step up your game. Get with another person or leader in the church and get involved in something new. Ask to lead a new volunteer spot and let God teach you something new, something about yourself and more importantly something new about Him. See God doesnt want us sitting at home on the couch, being complacent and comfortable. Far too many people watch their years go by striving and working hard to do just that. Make a difference, reach out and do some hard things, get involved with what is going on. If you need some refocus and having trouble finding something to celebrate in your life - then hold your breath awhile and enjoy breathing in when you cant hold it any longer. Life and air we breath is reason to celebrate! Even during the wait of a medical test there is hope and assurance and reason to celebrate because the hard stuff is done already. Jesus has already led the way.
I love the families God has put in my life. I love the people that come into my office and want to talk and pray. I love the students in my life that I get to invest in on Sundays and in every day of the week. I love "MyKids" who are my sons and daughters..... I love the fact that they are showing me Jesus and owning it as much as I am doing my best to show them Jesus.
Its reason to Celebrate ..........
Colossians 3:16-17
16 Let the message about Christ, in all its richness, fill your lives. Teach and counsel each other with all the wisdom he gives. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts. 17 And whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father.
Just blessed beyond reason to be a part in all that God is doing in my life as well as those around me. It is such a high calling and responsibility that makes life worth living and pouring into. Imagine all that can be done through a 12 year old who gets this now.... Exciting watching God use them. Exciting no matter how old really .... cause I am pretty old and its pretty exciting. :)
2nd C - tomorrow~
Celebrate loved ones,
Lonnie
Monday, November 30, 2009
An awesome display ....
Monday already. How did that happen so fast? I guess time speeds up somehow when you are having fun. The last 4 days sure did go fast. I have to say that I fully enjoyed some down time and unplugging from things but also plugging IN to some people. I turned my phone off until last night, I unplugged the computer until last night and I pretty much didn't watch much tv - even with football on yesterday. I did watch a little of the Chargers game before CBS turned it to another game. Why do they do that? Anyways, time at the cabin was awesome. Cold nights and warm sunny days all spent with family and extended family. I wish in a way that the cabin could be a little bigger only because that would mean more room to invite more but I am not complaining because it is such a blessing to have a place and to open it up to others to enjoy. We sure had some laughs and I fully enjoyed spending some time with "MyKids". One of the big things for me in my life and in my walk is to always have a place out front for the Lord to do His thing. I let Him lead, I let Him shine and I pray all the time for Him to be able to use me and by Him using me it shows in those around me. I love it when the opportunity is opened for me to really talk with others - especially "MyKids" or their parents. I love it when the light bulb goes off and they get something they wouldn't otherwise get if God was not revealed. Maybe its a conversation, maybe its an example that was provided, maybe it was such a random thing that took place like eating breakfast at waffle house - but God was clearly in focus. It is all this extra pouring into that I know that I am living in the overflow that God has given me. I am not keeping it for myself.... no way - it is too sweet to keep for myself. I want to make a difference in those around me. I tell them all the time I love them not because I like sharing my heart - which I do - but because no one knows when our time will come and I want them to know - they come before me... they matter to me, I care about them and they have my full attention. What the bleep am I trying to say here..... I think I am chasing a rabbit but I do know that its such a wonderful experience when someone you have been pouring so much into and praying so hard for, finally makes the efforts so worth it. When they in turn reach out and realize what is going on.... God is behind it all. I wish I could have a bigger impact - especially some others who are close to me but yet have yet to see what I am all about.
There is a verse in a song by Mercy Me - "In the blink of an eye"
Sometimes I feel disappointed
By the way I spend my time
How can I further Your kingdom
When I'm so wrapped up in mine
This morning I woke up with a passage on my heart. I got up and went to look it up because to be honest, I didn't know what it was - I have to say that my memory is not the greatest...so I won't be blasting out scripture but give me a few minutes....
Romans 1:11
8-12I thank God through Jesus for every one of you. That's first. People everywhere keep telling me about your lives of faith, and every time I hear them, I thank him. And God, whom I so love to worship and serve by spreading the good news of his Son—the Message!—knows that every time I think of you in my prayers, which is practically all the time, I ask him to clear the way for me to come and see you. The longer this waiting goes on, the deeper the ache. I so want to be there to deliver God's gift in person and watch you grow stronger right before my eyes! But don't think I'm not expecting to get something out of this, too! You have as much to give me as I do to you.
You know what is amazing about this scripture? I shared this Saturday night during our movie time - not word for word just the part that - Above all else, I value our friendship and the fact that I can do my best to show them Jesus but also because they show me Jesus.
I so much value the fact that I am there for them, to lead them, encourage them, to be the best role model I can be, to show them Jesus through my heart but I in return get encouraged, often times are lead by them, are there for me in SO many ways and more importantly - they show me Jesus.
I fully believe this is what we all should be doing. There is so much to learn through each other and when God is at the center of our lives, our relationships, our thoughts and actions ... God reveals himself in the details.
I continue to pray that He uses me to impact those around me with His intentions and with His heart. I''ll share more about the 3C's over the next few days.
With all my heart loved ones ...
Lonnie~
There is a verse in a song by Mercy Me - "In the blink of an eye"
Sometimes I feel disappointed
By the way I spend my time
How can I further Your kingdom
When I'm so wrapped up in mine
This morning I woke up with a passage on my heart. I got up and went to look it up because to be honest, I didn't know what it was - I have to say that my memory is not the greatest...so I won't be blasting out scripture but give me a few minutes....
Romans 1:11
8-12I thank God through Jesus for every one of you. That's first. People everywhere keep telling me about your lives of faith, and every time I hear them, I thank him. And God, whom I so love to worship and serve by spreading the good news of his Son—the Message!—knows that every time I think of you in my prayers, which is practically all the time, I ask him to clear the way for me to come and see you. The longer this waiting goes on, the deeper the ache. I so want to be there to deliver God's gift in person and watch you grow stronger right before my eyes! But don't think I'm not expecting to get something out of this, too! You have as much to give me as I do to you.
You know what is amazing about this scripture? I shared this Saturday night during our movie time - not word for word just the part that - Above all else, I value our friendship and the fact that I can do my best to show them Jesus but also because they show me Jesus.
I so much value the fact that I am there for them, to lead them, encourage them, to be the best role model I can be, to show them Jesus through my heart but I in return get encouraged, often times are lead by them, are there for me in SO many ways and more importantly - they show me Jesus.
I fully believe this is what we all should be doing. There is so much to learn through each other and when God is at the center of our lives, our relationships, our thoughts and actions ... God reveals himself in the details.
I continue to pray that He uses me to impact those around me with His intentions and with His heart. I''ll share more about the 3C's over the next few days.
With all my heart loved ones ...
Lonnie~
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
What a great night last night. 55+ students, friends and family members packed into AMC Concord Mills last to see "The Blind Side". What a grea time together as parents were excited to see a good movie, students together hanging out and a great message to boot. Already looking forward to the next movie outing in January. Hope to make that even a bigger event and time well spent.
We are headed to the cabin tonight until Sunday. Looking forward to some down time for sure. I probably wont be posting much here at "TheWalk" but hopefully filling up in other areas. I should be able to finish the current book I am reading...Simple Youth Ministry as well as get a good chunk done in Think Orange.
Looking forward to our extended family and "MyKids" to come Thursday evening. Really excited about it all ...so much to be thankful for.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone. Be safe and more importantly - be blessed.
In peace and love,
Lonnie~
We are headed to the cabin tonight until Sunday. Looking forward to some down time for sure. I probably wont be posting much here at "TheWalk" but hopefully filling up in other areas. I should be able to finish the current book I am reading...Simple Youth Ministry as well as get a good chunk done in Think Orange.
Looking forward to our extended family and "MyKids" to come Thursday evening. Really excited about it all ...so much to be thankful for.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone. Be safe and more importantly - be blessed.
In peace and love,
Lonnie~
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
The Blind Side....
I was up early this morning in excitement. I have been waiting on this movie for the past few months now to come to the movie screens. It is not something I do often with waiting for a movie to open but this one is different. View the trailer on YouTube here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=khtBvQdxta4
Sandra Bullock and Tim McGraw are the big names in the film and should draw a lot of viewers. I hear nothing but good things about it. Our Student ministry, The Flood, from Rocky River Church will be out big tonight. 7pm AMC Concord Mills. Its not a closed event which means - INVITE YOUR PEEPS!! All are welcome to come and enjoy some time together and watch a great film .... and eat some popcorn!
I love the title of the movie - the blind side - because in football - this position is one of the most regarded positions on the field next to the QB. See this guy has the job of protecting his QB because its the side that the QB can't see the hit coming. Its the one that if the assignment is not executed ... serious bad things happen. Life is much like that - our blind side. We don't see it coming... that sickness, layoff or whatever it may be.
Can't wait for this evening.... come join us!
Lonnie~
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=khtBvQdxta4
Sandra Bullock and Tim McGraw are the big names in the film and should draw a lot of viewers. I hear nothing but good things about it. Our Student ministry, The Flood, from Rocky River Church will be out big tonight. 7pm AMC Concord Mills. Its not a closed event which means - INVITE YOUR PEEPS!! All are welcome to come and enjoy some time together and watch a great film .... and eat some popcorn!
I love the title of the movie - the blind side - because in football - this position is one of the most regarded positions on the field next to the QB. See this guy has the job of protecting his QB because its the side that the QB can't see the hit coming. Its the one that if the assignment is not executed ... serious bad things happen. Life is much like that - our blind side. We don't see it coming... that sickness, layoff or whatever it may be.
Can't wait for this evening.... come join us!
Lonnie~
Monday, November 23, 2009
A few days to reflect....
This past weekend has been an amazing one for sure. Friday night a lot of folks from church got together and had a bonfire from all the woods signs and stuff from the pumpkin patch and haunted trails. It for sure was a great time to hang out and enjoy some outside time. Saturday, after the gym I got to spend some special moments with one of "MyKids" over a muffin and a Diet Dr. Pepper. We got to enjoy some talk and shared a few things as we sat trying to be "Fancy" while we ate with our pinkies out. We then made a batch of cookies of a local family and 5 of us delivered it to them Sat afternoon. We then found out how desperate this family was and we went into action. She was in tears and said she did not know where else to turn to. We showed up in Gods perfect timing. I got to see 4 almost teenagers and myself shovel a barn full of wasted hay, horse crap and who knows what else.... to make a clean stall for their 2 horses. We then went and got some McDonalds and then brough back the 4 kids happy meals. The awesome part of all this is not watching these kids put their faith into action, which is SO flipping cool, but to see them invite this family to church the next morning and them walking through the doors yesterday. That is illuminating a light to the dark places in our world. That is the sharing of Gods love in practical ways. It was awesome yesterday in youth group as I asked them to stand and share a little of their experience. We will be serving this family again very soon. Yesterday had a great day at church. Awesome message in being thankful in everything. We all got together after church for our Thankgiving meal. Great meal was put together for sure! Enjoyed the conversations and smiles. Last night our rock group got together and got in our pj's and watched "Saving God." Awesome movie for sure... a big twist at the end that was unexpected and some tears were flowing. I do have to say we can eat some popcorn!! Awesome time together for sure.....Tomorrow night we should have a huge turnout for movie night - Our student ministry is headed to see "Blind Faith". Should be a great time together with a movie that has a great message! Totally pumped for this time together.
So whats up with the picture? Yes that is me and my momma. I was like 15 maybe ... dork huh? yeah well ... I guess we all get better looking with age. Funny seeing me with hair.... but figuring I could share a picture of mom and I when I was small and all but leading students ... well maybe they can relate better to a picture of me when I was their age. I have so much I would make time to talk to mom about today. I would wear the porch swing out for sure with all we could talk about. I know there are things in life that only mom would understand. I miss those moments. I miss her little things... her laugh, her biscuits and gravy, I miss her always serving example to others. I guess in many ways YEARS of watching her serve others has rubbed off on me. It reminds me that even if those in my life that dont get it... maybe they dont get me so much ... maybe that is right now and one day maybe they will. Some do though...... and thats enough to keep pouring out and doing what each of us are called to do as a follower of Jesus. I am thankful for my moms example. Even though then I didn't understand it like I do now.... It is all in perfect timing. This is a week of reflecting for me.... being thankful and grateful in all things.
Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have in life to enough.
I want to share Psalm 107 today. It is wonderfully written and puts everything into perspective.
Psalm 107 1-3 Oh, thank God—he's so good! His love never runs out. All of you set free by God, tell the world! Tell how he freed you from oppression, Then rounded you up from all over the place, from the four winds, from the seven seas. 4-9 Some of you wandered for years in the desert, looking but not finding a good place to live, Half-starved and parched with thirst, staggering and stumbling, on the brink of exhaustion. Then, in your desperate condition, you called out to God. He got you out in the nick of time; He put your feet on a wonderful road that took you straight to a good place to live. So thank God for his marvelous love, for his miracle mercy to the children he loves. He poured great draughts of water down parched throats; the starved and hungry got plenty to eat. 10-16 Some of you were locked in a dark cell, cruelly confined behind bars, Punished for defying God's Word, for turning your back on the High God's counsel— A hard sentence, and your hearts so heavy, and not a soul in sight to help. Then you called out to God in your desperate condition; he got you out in the nick of time. He led you out of your dark, dark cell, broke open the jail and led you out. So thank God for his marvelous love, for his miracle mercy to the children he loves; He shattered the heavy jailhouse doors, he snapped the prison bars like matchsticks! 17-22 Some of you were sick because you'd lived a bad life, your bodies feeling the effects of your sin; You couldn't stand the sight of food, so miserable you thought you'd be better off dead. Then you called out to God in your desperate condition; he got you out in the nick of time. He spoke the word that healed you, that pulled you back from the brink of death. So thank God for his marvelous love, for his miracle mercy to the children he loves; Offer thanksgiving sacrifices, tell the world what he's done—sing it out! 23-32 Some of you set sail in big ships; you put to sea to do business in faraway ports. Out at sea you saw God in action, saw his breathtaking ways with the ocean: With a word he called up the wind— an ocean storm, towering waves! You shot high in the sky, then the bottom dropped out; your hearts were stuck in your throats. You were spun like a top, you reeled like a drunk, you didn't know which end was up. Then you called out to God in your desperate condition; he got you out in the nick of time. He quieted the wind down to a whisper, put a muzzle on all the big waves. And you were so glad when the storm died down, and he led you safely back to harbor. So thank God for his marvelous love, for his miracle mercy to the children he loves. Lift high your praises when the people assemble, shout Hallelujah when the elders meet! 33-41 God turned rivers into wasteland, springs of water into sunbaked mud; Luscious orchards became alkali flats because of the evil of the people who lived there. Then he changed wasteland into fresh pools of water, arid earth into springs of water, Brought in the hungry and settled them there; they moved in—what a great place to live! They sowed the fields, they planted vineyards, they reaped a bountiful harvest. He blessed them and they prospered greatly; their herds of cattle never decreased. But abuse and evil and trouble declined as he heaped scorn on princes and sent them away. He gave the poor a safe place to live, treated their clans like well-cared-for sheep. 42-43 Good people see this and are glad; bad people are speechless, stopped in their tracks. If you are really wise, you'll think this over— it's time you appreciated God's deep love.
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Did you mean me?
The last few days this song has really spoken to me. I reflect on so much these days - I guess that is what people do when they start getting older or maybe its just what I am doing and can't believe what is happening to me. All in a good way because I never thought I would be doing what I do and putting my time, energy and passion into something so much bigger than myself and so much more important. I mean come on, God using me like this? It was a special moment last night when Kyle HAD to go to bible study last night. It was a special moment when one of "MyKids" asked me to take her to school for a team building function and "PLEEEEASE" in that little tone came out... man those are special moments indeed.
Todd Agnew - "Did you mean me?"
I've heard these stories all my life
Every Sunday morning I met Jesus at the feltboard
I've heard these stories so many times
Of how and why You died And how I can live
But You said all sins can be forgiven
But when You said that did You mean me? Did You mean me?
You said that we could be more like You
But did you know what I'd do How I'd fall so short?
And You said confession leads to healing
Do you see I'm here and kneeling And I'm still not well
But You said that faith can move a mountain
But when You said that did You mean me? Did You mean me
When You said we were made in Your image?'
Cause I don't see much of You in this reflection
Did you mean me
When you said we would do even greater things?'
Cause I don't see anything that I have to offer You
Did You mean me?
Yes He meant you.... He meant me. On purpose and intentional. The last week or so I have been reading the word "Illuminate" a lot. Its a great word with a great meaning. One that means to bring light to a dark place. I tell "MyKids" every chance they get to shine ...cause for some and they know who they are, are really bright these days. Proud of them as they take their faith and shine into their dark world. This past Sunday I challenged our students with a list of things they could do to serve others. In small ways to help experience God and not wait for the big event like camp and Christmas and all. Every day ... exercise their belief, the God they say they trust in and experience Him in their daily walk. I can't wait to hear some of their stories. I know Kyle is checking off his list every day with such excitement. He told me last night I should do this again with a different set of ideas. I think I may just do that..... :)
Busy couple of days ahead. Going to see on of "MyKids" wrestle his first match this afternoon. I did that for many years so it will be exciting as I relive my own wrestling matches. Panthers game tonight, tomorrow YCI at the middle school - Carol is coming this week so that will be cool for her to experience what God is doing on Friday mornings with those students and the leaders there. Tomorrow night we are going to the bonfire on the church land. Saturday morning I am taking 2 of "MyKids" to a neighbor that we helped over the summer during Thirst Camp. We are going to check in with her and see if there is anything we could do for her before the Christmas holiday. Hope she has a good list for us to tackle...... Then it will be count down for Thanksgiving!
Peace,
Lonnie~
Todd Agnew - "Did you mean me?"
I've heard these stories all my life
Every Sunday morning I met Jesus at the feltboard
I've heard these stories so many times
Of how and why You died And how I can live
But You said all sins can be forgiven
But when You said that did You mean me? Did You mean me?
You said that we could be more like You
But did you know what I'd do How I'd fall so short?
And You said confession leads to healing
Do you see I'm here and kneeling And I'm still not well
But You said that faith can move a mountain
But when You said that did You mean me? Did You mean me
When You said we were made in Your image?'
Cause I don't see much of You in this reflection
Did you mean me
When you said we would do even greater things?'
Cause I don't see anything that I have to offer You
Did You mean me?
Yes He meant you.... He meant me. On purpose and intentional. The last week or so I have been reading the word "Illuminate" a lot. Its a great word with a great meaning. One that means to bring light to a dark place. I tell "MyKids" every chance they get to shine ...cause for some and they know who they are, are really bright these days. Proud of them as they take their faith and shine into their dark world. This past Sunday I challenged our students with a list of things they could do to serve others. In small ways to help experience God and not wait for the big event like camp and Christmas and all. Every day ... exercise their belief, the God they say they trust in and experience Him in their daily walk. I can't wait to hear some of their stories. I know Kyle is checking off his list every day with such excitement. He told me last night I should do this again with a different set of ideas. I think I may just do that..... :)
Busy couple of days ahead. Going to see on of "MyKids" wrestle his first match this afternoon. I did that for many years so it will be exciting as I relive my own wrestling matches. Panthers game tonight, tomorrow YCI at the middle school - Carol is coming this week so that will be cool for her to experience what God is doing on Friday mornings with those students and the leaders there. Tomorrow night we are going to the bonfire on the church land. Saturday morning I am taking 2 of "MyKids" to a neighbor that we helped over the summer during Thirst Camp. We are going to check in with her and see if there is anything we could do for her before the Christmas holiday. Hope she has a good list for us to tackle...... Then it will be count down for Thanksgiving!
Peace,
Lonnie~
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
A simple post....
I think my eyelids even hurt. Dang I am sore everywhere! Yesterday I had off from work and spent a good portion of my time off yesterday taking down a tree and working on our church land taking down the giant tent that we used for our Sunday services back in October. It was time well spent investing in the right places. Last night I got to take Kyle and Morgan over to the big Y and do some swimming. We even checked out the hot tub and steam room. That I just don't get - how do you stay in that thing its like flippin as hot as the sun in there. Anyways, I couldn't even take a breath in there so I got out of there pretty fast. Kyle got to do some rock wall climbing...he is really good at that. Morgan and I got to spend some time playing some ping pong. Its been years since doing that and we had some good laughs for sure as the ball was hitting off the lights in the ceiling, the walls, pool table, and a host of other INBOUNDS objects. It has me thinking today that I am still a kid at heart. Yeah, I know I am old and serious when I need to be but how does people turn into grumpy old folks? Life is meant to be lived and having some fun along the way is awesome. It SHOULD be that way right?
My buddy Tobin who used to live in Charlotte a few years ago is a pastor in Maine for a church up there. I always thought man ... this guy is weird doing all this kid stuff and always hanging around students and investing SO much into their lives and families... and today I find myself investing in those same things. Hey T - I appreciate you man and I get it bro!
Every day I try my best to share the joy that is in my heart with others. Some days there is not much to share, or is taken the wrong way and some days there is an overflow. So many people live their lives wanting the next thing, searching and seeking for something that is fulfilling and gives them purpose. I have to tell you that for me that search has been over for a few years. Jesus has filled that in my life. If that makes me someone who raises my family with views that I am brainwashing them or misleading them - let me ask you... do you have something in your life that you have passion for? Is that some thing that you would be willing to risk everything over? Does that passion make you come alive and want to give it to others?
Proverbs 22:6 Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.
I want to give what I have in my heart to my family, their family, "MyKids" and all those around me because it is that important. It is that passion and it is worth dying for. So many today are raising their children in the ways of the world. Letting them decide right from wrong or what is acceptable or not. They let the kids decide if God is part of their life or even if He excists or not. Just grow up being good enough and it will all work out. God has clearly given us the instructions on a better, more fulfilling life with all the purpose imaginable. You matter to Him even if you dont feel you matter to anyone. Life may be hard, a loss of a parent, a divorce, or some other thing that has you feeling trapped and alone today- There is someone who cares and loves you regardless and let me be clear here loved ones - He has something to tell you about your life and your future if you let Him be a part of that. Like a baby who needs milk in the early years of life - so too does God feed you spiritually as you mature. Step by step showing you the way. Hard things are not as hard as they could be anymore. There is purpose in those hard and tough places. There is also such joy when things are great.....
Today I got to give blood at the Red Cross. Its something I have been doing for years. I especially love it when they have that machine available and I can give those special parts of my blood to cancer folks. Its a life giving thing for someone for sure. I was asked today what I did for a living while on the bus as the wonderful Red Cross lady stuck me with the needle. I told her I worked here at the university and that I have one child but many who are like "MyKids". She asked me what that meant. I told her "MyKids" are those that I lead on Sundays in our student ministry at church and those who I have the privedge to being doing life with who are like my sons and daughters. She got to tell me about her hometown church in Atlanta and that she has 2 kids. She told me that I sound like such an easy person to talk with and the kids must just adore you. Dang that makes my heart full of joy. I do ...... I do. There is no other greater calling and purpose in life than investing our time into the next generation. Especially when we are humbled enough to love them and serve them all the while helping them navigate through life regardless of where life has them right now. God has great things in store for them and will use those who give their lives to Him.
Its not all about you ........ sooner you learn that in life .. the sooner you can get busy living. Living the way we were created to live. With purpose, meaning and living ALIVE.
Yeah, I am a kid at heart.... its pretty simple because of what Jesus has done for me. I wear it everyday on my sleeve.
Lonnie~
My buddy Tobin who used to live in Charlotte a few years ago is a pastor in Maine for a church up there. I always thought man ... this guy is weird doing all this kid stuff and always hanging around students and investing SO much into their lives and families... and today I find myself investing in those same things. Hey T - I appreciate you man and I get it bro!
Every day I try my best to share the joy that is in my heart with others. Some days there is not much to share, or is taken the wrong way and some days there is an overflow. So many people live their lives wanting the next thing, searching and seeking for something that is fulfilling and gives them purpose. I have to tell you that for me that search has been over for a few years. Jesus has filled that in my life. If that makes me someone who raises my family with views that I am brainwashing them or misleading them - let me ask you... do you have something in your life that you have passion for? Is that some thing that you would be willing to risk everything over? Does that passion make you come alive and want to give it to others?
Proverbs 22:6 Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.
I want to give what I have in my heart to my family, their family, "MyKids" and all those around me because it is that important. It is that passion and it is worth dying for. So many today are raising their children in the ways of the world. Letting them decide right from wrong or what is acceptable or not. They let the kids decide if God is part of their life or even if He excists or not. Just grow up being good enough and it will all work out. God has clearly given us the instructions on a better, more fulfilling life with all the purpose imaginable. You matter to Him even if you dont feel you matter to anyone. Life may be hard, a loss of a parent, a divorce, or some other thing that has you feeling trapped and alone today- There is someone who cares and loves you regardless and let me be clear here loved ones - He has something to tell you about your life and your future if you let Him be a part of that. Like a baby who needs milk in the early years of life - so too does God feed you spiritually as you mature. Step by step showing you the way. Hard things are not as hard as they could be anymore. There is purpose in those hard and tough places. There is also such joy when things are great.....
Today I got to give blood at the Red Cross. Its something I have been doing for years. I especially love it when they have that machine available and I can give those special parts of my blood to cancer folks. Its a life giving thing for someone for sure. I was asked today what I did for a living while on the bus as the wonderful Red Cross lady stuck me with the needle. I told her I worked here at the university and that I have one child but many who are like "MyKids". She asked me what that meant. I told her "MyKids" are those that I lead on Sundays in our student ministry at church and those who I have the privedge to being doing life with who are like my sons and daughters. She got to tell me about her hometown church in Atlanta and that she has 2 kids. She told me that I sound like such an easy person to talk with and the kids must just adore you. Dang that makes my heart full of joy. I do ...... I do. There is no other greater calling and purpose in life than investing our time into the next generation. Especially when we are humbled enough to love them and serve them all the while helping them navigate through life regardless of where life has them right now. God has great things in store for them and will use those who give their lives to Him.
Its not all about you ........ sooner you learn that in life .. the sooner you can get busy living. Living the way we were created to live. With purpose, meaning and living ALIVE.
Yeah, I am a kid at heart.... its pretty simple because of what Jesus has done for me. I wear it everyday on my sleeve.
Lonnie~
Monday, November 16, 2009
A difference~
What a difference a week makes. Was totally pumped to be at church yesterday. Pastor Jimmy preached an awesome message and in with the students - Pastor Travis delivered a great message as well. I got to open with announcements and pray for all of us before Travis took the stage but I also did something we had not done in over a year and that was pass out a bucket of candy which was a big hit with the students. I also got approval from one of our first time students yesterday to be my go to guy to pass the candy out. He personally got to say hello to everyone in the room - all 44 students. I asked him afterwards if that was ok - he said "yeah man! Can I do that next week also?" I have a feeling he may be back :) - I also had 2 of "MyKids" tell me yesterday I did a good job and that means a lot to me. Rock Group last night was also a strong message which I will share at another time but as I think about that from yesterday, I can't help but to think about all the people in my life that I would call - closer than a brother. This also means ladies too - so I will change it a little. They are closer than a brother and sister. This doesn't mean that I am not close to my brothers, I have 2 of them, one older and one younger - do I wish I was closer to them? Yes absolutely. Do I love them? Yes absolutely. I am just saying.....
I posted a question a few days ago on my FaceBook page that has really led me to a few great conversations, not only with a few of "MyKids" but also some of our students. The question I posted was - "Is it better to pick your friends or is it better to have your friends pick you?"
There have been some key points talked about for both sides of the question for sure but I will let you answer that question for yourself but I do really want to share what a friend is. The Bible has a few things to say about friendship.
Proverbs 27:17 As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.
Proverbs 19:4Wealth brings many friends, but a poor man's friend deserts him.
Proverbs 19:7 A poor man is shunned by all his relatives— how much more do his friends avoid him! Though he pursues them with pleading, they are nowhere to be found.
John 15:14 You are my friends if you do what I command.
John 15:15 I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.
1 John 4:7 Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.
The bible is packed with examples of friendship. Jesus picked his 12 friends that He poured into. He did life with them. He took them places. They ate together. They traveled and stayed in hotels together. Well not really hotels, but places to rest, usually in the homes of friends. They went boating together. Climbed mountains together. They went to church together... they also got kicked out of places together. They shared together and shared their families together. See the big thing here is relationships. I am blessed to be doing life with some awesome families. I am blessed to be close enough to some very special to me students who I love like my own children. They breath into me and I breath into them.
I have to say that the only reason why I have so many awesome people in my life is because of the relationship I have with Jesus. It all starts with Him. If I was only calling myself a Christian or if I never knew Jesus at all - I would never be in a place to have gotten to know these wonderful people in the first place. I would never be allowed to be this close or my walls would be never to let them in. My focus would have been all about me and what my needs were and always wanting something from them. We become who we hang out with. So chances are the friends I would be hanging out with would be just like me. They would always be wanting something from me and their focus would always be on them. These things make for terrible friendships.... and ones that no matter how hard you try or what you do.. it will never be enough.
A true friend puts their needs aside and attends to your needs. A true friend comes to your side when things are falling down.
Proverbs 17:17 A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. This paints a wonderful picture of what a friend really is. It means that when a friend is down - we get in the game. We are born to help and get involved. Its easy to have friends when everything is going well. Money rolling in, face with smiles out front of everything but when things start to struggle. Its your true friends that stick to your side.... ready to do whatever it is to do battle with you. I learned this a few weeks back with a very difficult decision. There is nothing more powerful than a friend reaching out in hugs, offering a shoulder, lifting prayers, and saying - I am with you where ever you go. "MyKids" are no exception there.... those words mean so much to me. What a difference a "Friend" makes in our lives. I bet you could use a few of these in our lives can't we? Build that relationship with Jesus - Start there and they will come.
In Christ,
Lonnie
Lord I thank You for your friendship. You are always there as our example in a BFF. In a day where we are all looking for instant gratification and comfort with dating someone or being seen with someone - help us to know You more personally Lord. Help us know who we really are and what You see us as. Our perfect father and our best friend. One that never changes and is always there to listen and guide us in the ways that are true and good. You have our best intentions at heart. When we can finally see, believe and live who we really are - then life will take on a new meaning. We will become different because we will know we are powerful and beautiful because that is what you created .... we are in Your image and You surely don't make junk Lord. Lord we thank You today and may we give ourselves a chance to see things and people with Your eyes Lord. Give us the strength to take a stand today - for You and show the world we are really yours. Help us understand the true meaning of friends Lord.
I pray all this in Your sons mighty and perfect name in Jesus.
Amen
I posted a question a few days ago on my FaceBook page that has really led me to a few great conversations, not only with a few of "MyKids" but also some of our students. The question I posted was - "Is it better to pick your friends or is it better to have your friends pick you?"
There have been some key points talked about for both sides of the question for sure but I will let you answer that question for yourself but I do really want to share what a friend is. The Bible has a few things to say about friendship.
Proverbs 27:17 As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.
Proverbs 19:4Wealth brings many friends, but a poor man's friend deserts him.
Proverbs 19:7 A poor man is shunned by all his relatives— how much more do his friends avoid him! Though he pursues them with pleading, they are nowhere to be found.
John 15:14 You are my friends if you do what I command.
John 15:15 I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.
1 John 4:7 Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.
The bible is packed with examples of friendship. Jesus picked his 12 friends that He poured into. He did life with them. He took them places. They ate together. They traveled and stayed in hotels together. Well not really hotels, but places to rest, usually in the homes of friends. They went boating together. Climbed mountains together. They went to church together... they also got kicked out of places together. They shared together and shared their families together. See the big thing here is relationships. I am blessed to be doing life with some awesome families. I am blessed to be close enough to some very special to me students who I love like my own children. They breath into me and I breath into them.
I have to say that the only reason why I have so many awesome people in my life is because of the relationship I have with Jesus. It all starts with Him. If I was only calling myself a Christian or if I never knew Jesus at all - I would never be in a place to have gotten to know these wonderful people in the first place. I would never be allowed to be this close or my walls would be never to let them in. My focus would have been all about me and what my needs were and always wanting something from them. We become who we hang out with. So chances are the friends I would be hanging out with would be just like me. They would always be wanting something from me and their focus would always be on them. These things make for terrible friendships.... and ones that no matter how hard you try or what you do.. it will never be enough.
A true friend puts their needs aside and attends to your needs. A true friend comes to your side when things are falling down.
Proverbs 17:17 A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. This paints a wonderful picture of what a friend really is. It means that when a friend is down - we get in the game. We are born to help and get involved. Its easy to have friends when everything is going well. Money rolling in, face with smiles out front of everything but when things start to struggle. Its your true friends that stick to your side.... ready to do whatever it is to do battle with you. I learned this a few weeks back with a very difficult decision. There is nothing more powerful than a friend reaching out in hugs, offering a shoulder, lifting prayers, and saying - I am with you where ever you go. "MyKids" are no exception there.... those words mean so much to me. What a difference a "Friend" makes in our lives. I bet you could use a few of these in our lives can't we? Build that relationship with Jesus - Start there and they will come.
In Christ,
Lonnie
Lord I thank You for your friendship. You are always there as our example in a BFF. In a day where we are all looking for instant gratification and comfort with dating someone or being seen with someone - help us to know You more personally Lord. Help us know who we really are and what You see us as. Our perfect father and our best friend. One that never changes and is always there to listen and guide us in the ways that are true and good. You have our best intentions at heart. When we can finally see, believe and live who we really are - then life will take on a new meaning. We will become different because we will know we are powerful and beautiful because that is what you created .... we are in Your image and You surely don't make junk Lord. Lord we thank You today and may we give ourselves a chance to see things and people with Your eyes Lord. Give us the strength to take a stand today - for You and show the world we are really yours. Help us understand the true meaning of friends Lord.
I pray all this in Your sons mighty and perfect name in Jesus.
Amen
Friday, November 13, 2009
What a week ...
Yes faith moves mountains. It has been a long week for sure but a week that was surrounded and immersed in prayer. That is what makes it a great week. Friday today - looking forward to Sunday.
Tonight I am taking some of "MyKids" to the UNC Charlotte mens basketball game. It will be time well invested with fun, smiles, dip n dots and friendship. I take this role very seriously as I reach out to the students in my life. God has entrusted them to me and for me - there is NO higher calling. Yes sometimes its messy and teenagers from 11 - 17 are at the most complicated times of their lives. Emotions and body changes and in between somewhere with not being a child or an adult can really take its toll. I realized something yesterday - when we get to college and beyond, it is not so much us that is complicated anymore. We are who we are but the complicated part is the lives we are leading. Studies, decisions, friends, dating, marriage and raising a family... those are all complicated things.
So as I continue to reach out to my students and their families... I can't help but to be thankful. Thankful that they call on me and reach out to me as much as I do to them. Doesn't matter if its a phone call, a text message, a facebook comment or a hug at church that sends a message - hey we need to talk. Its all good ....... humbling for sure.
Teenagers need relationships with godly adults. Teenagers see very little consistency in this world, and they need to be confronted with the consistency of Christ through adults who love Jesus and who also love them.
I am so thankful for the other leaders in my life and at church who are serving God with me and who are setting this example and being authentically available to our young people.
Jesus poured himself into the relationships of his disciples. He could have chosen any way He wanted to get the message to generations of people .... but he chose to do so through
~ Relationship~
What a week it has been.......
Gods peace and happy Friday everyone,
Lonnie~
Tonight I am taking some of "MyKids" to the UNC Charlotte mens basketball game. It will be time well invested with fun, smiles, dip n dots and friendship. I take this role very seriously as I reach out to the students in my life. God has entrusted them to me and for me - there is NO higher calling. Yes sometimes its messy and teenagers from 11 - 17 are at the most complicated times of their lives. Emotions and body changes and in between somewhere with not being a child or an adult can really take its toll. I realized something yesterday - when we get to college and beyond, it is not so much us that is complicated anymore. We are who we are but the complicated part is the lives we are leading. Studies, decisions, friends, dating, marriage and raising a family... those are all complicated things.
So as I continue to reach out to my students and their families... I can't help but to be thankful. Thankful that they call on me and reach out to me as much as I do to them. Doesn't matter if its a phone call, a text message, a facebook comment or a hug at church that sends a message - hey we need to talk. Its all good ....... humbling for sure.
Teenagers need relationships with godly adults. Teenagers see very little consistency in this world, and they need to be confronted with the consistency of Christ through adults who love Jesus and who also love them.
I am so thankful for the other leaders in my life and at church who are serving God with me and who are setting this example and being authentically available to our young people.
Jesus poured himself into the relationships of his disciples. He could have chosen any way He wanted to get the message to generations of people .... but he chose to do so through
~ Relationship~
What a week it has been.......
Gods peace and happy Friday everyone,
Lonnie~
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Decisions are sometimes difficult
Being 43 means we are supposed to make adult decisions. It means putting childish things aside and our life reflects the amount of faith we have. Does faith dictate that decision making skills we have today? I hope so because for me, its the bottom line in my life. Its the foundation in the choices I make even when those choices are tough ones. Do I trust my faith in Jesus enough to know that when I do have to make a decision in life - especially when it affects others - has that choice been prayed over, have you seeked Gods heart in it, and have I clearly heard from God in what He would want me to do?
This past week has been a tough week for me. I can't recall a tougher week since the week that my mom passed back in 2006. It was a week full of doubts, questions, seeking Gods will over my own, decisions knowing it would affect SO many other people, people that I love with all my heart and all the students and kids that I have grown to love over the past few years and who I have invested so much into. They are very much a major part in who I am today....
I am finally thankful and at peace with having made my decision. Many, especially some of my closest "kids" who cried last week when we talked through all this was smiling and crying tears of joy yesterday when I got to share the news with them. I am at peace and I slept last night even though I was on the couch because everyone is sick at the house ... I slept peacefully.
I remember doing a Rock Group study a few months ago from Luke 24. I would like to share that story here this morning. This is a story of 2 men, probably Jesus' disciples, walking home along the road coming from the place where Jesus was just killed.
Luke 24: 13
Now that same day two of them were going to a village called Emmaus, about seven miles[a] from Jerusalem. 14They were talking with each other about everything that had happened. 15As they talked and discussed these things with each other, Jesus himself came up and walked along with them; 16but they were kept from recognizing him.
17He asked them, "What are you discussing together as you walk along?"
They stood still, their faces downcast. 18One of them, named Cleopas, asked him, "Are you only a visitor to Jerusalem and do not know the things that have happened there in these days?"
19"What things?" he asked.
"About Jesus of Nazareth," they replied. "He was a prophet, powerful in word and deed before God and all the people. 20The chief priests and our rulers handed him over to be sentenced to death, and they crucified him; 21but we had hoped that he was the one who was going to redeem Israel. And what is more, it is the third day since all this took place. 22In addition, some of our women amazed us. They went to the tomb early this morning 23but didn't find his body. They came and told us that they had seen a vision of angels, who said he was alive. 24Then some of our companions went to the tomb and found it just as the women had said, but him they did not see."
25He said to them, "How foolish you are, and how slow of heart to believe all that the prophets have spoken! 26Did not the Christ[b] have to suffer these things and then enter his glory?" 27And beginning with Moses and all the Prophets, he explained to them what was said in all the Scriptures concerning himself.
28As they approached the village to which they were going, Jesus acted as if he were going farther. 29But they urged him strongly, "Stay with us, for it is nearly evening; the day is almost over." So he went in to stay with them.
30When he was at the table with them, he took bread, gave thanks, broke it and began to give it to them. 31Then their eyes were opened and they recognized him, and he disappeared from their sight. 32They asked each other, "Were not our hearts burning within us while he talked with us on the road and opened the Scriptures to us?"
33They got up and returned at once to Jerusalem. There they found the Eleven and those with them, assembled together 34and saying, "It is true! The Lord has risen and has appeared to Simon." 35Then the two told what had happened on the way, and how Jesus was recognized by them when he broke the bread.
I just love this story. 2 men rejected in all their hopes and dreams. All their lives they have heard about their savior and king that would come and rescue their people. Its like a bedtime story that you just love when you are a kid when mommy or daddy lays with you in bed before bedtime. Its stories that you just hold close to your heart and after years of them growing up with these stories had it right in front of them. It was personal and it was true. But then it all crashed and all hope and dreams went with it. So many of us live our lives in this fashion. We have struggles and difficult things we face. We focus on the problems and in a lot of cases - we become those struggles. It defines us. Just as these 2 men walking along the road with all hopes and dreams shattered - Jesus appears to them and they don't recognize him. He encourages them and gives them hope once again. When they finally realize it - he is gone but they are left changed. They are left knowing the fact that Jesus is with them always - every step of the way.
I have to say that nowhere in my walk last week did I not feel the presence of Jesus. No matter how much I struggled or how hard it weighed me down ...I felt Jesus the entire time. The decision was made and I know without a doubt I have made the right decision but also not my will in it - but Gods will.
If you are struggling today with something. Students if you are having issues in school with friends, bad influences, teachers or issues at home..... know that God is with you. He is walking along side and like these 2 men - there is someone you can lean on to help carry your burdens. Never let the devil have a foothold in your thinking .... he will get you alone and that is where the most damage and deception is done. Grab a good trusted friend, grab a leader at your church or someone else that you have a good trusted relationship with and get them involved.
Jesus is in your walk. He is along the side of the road right with you in your walk. Let Him carry you for a little while - if you ask Him for a mile ... He will give you 2.
Lord thank You for this day. Thank You for your loving hands and your patience with me the last week. I especially thank You for the people, the families and especially "MyKids" who prayed for me, who lifted me and my family in prayer and in comfort and especially for the encouragement that no matter what - they had my back and would walk with me - would walk with my family because that is what we are ... family. Lord thank You for my church who has given me the foundation to my faith by teaching me about You. Thank You Lord Jesus for being our heavenly Father who knows what is best in all things and for loving us the way You do. May we honor You and bring You glory in all we do. I pray for the person who is struggling with something today. I pray You walk along side of them Lord and reveal yourself to them in a new and exciting way. I pray for those around them Lord in their life who would help pick up their burdens and carry the cross for them. Help us not be alone in our struggles. I pray all this in your sons mighty name in Jesus,
Amen
This past week has been a tough week for me. I can't recall a tougher week since the week that my mom passed back in 2006. It was a week full of doubts, questions, seeking Gods will over my own, decisions knowing it would affect SO many other people, people that I love with all my heart and all the students and kids that I have grown to love over the past few years and who I have invested so much into. They are very much a major part in who I am today....
I am finally thankful and at peace with having made my decision. Many, especially some of my closest "kids" who cried last week when we talked through all this was smiling and crying tears of joy yesterday when I got to share the news with them. I am at peace and I slept last night even though I was on the couch because everyone is sick at the house ... I slept peacefully.
I remember doing a Rock Group study a few months ago from Luke 24. I would like to share that story here this morning. This is a story of 2 men, probably Jesus' disciples, walking home along the road coming from the place where Jesus was just killed.
Luke 24: 13
Now that same day two of them were going to a village called Emmaus, about seven miles[a] from Jerusalem. 14They were talking with each other about everything that had happened. 15As they talked and discussed these things with each other, Jesus himself came up and walked along with them; 16but they were kept from recognizing him.
17He asked them, "What are you discussing together as you walk along?"
They stood still, their faces downcast. 18One of them, named Cleopas, asked him, "Are you only a visitor to Jerusalem and do not know the things that have happened there in these days?"
19"What things?" he asked.
"About Jesus of Nazareth," they replied. "He was a prophet, powerful in word and deed before God and all the people. 20The chief priests and our rulers handed him over to be sentenced to death, and they crucified him; 21but we had hoped that he was the one who was going to redeem Israel. And what is more, it is the third day since all this took place. 22In addition, some of our women amazed us. They went to the tomb early this morning 23but didn't find his body. They came and told us that they had seen a vision of angels, who said he was alive. 24Then some of our companions went to the tomb and found it just as the women had said, but him they did not see."
25He said to them, "How foolish you are, and how slow of heart to believe all that the prophets have spoken! 26Did not the Christ[b] have to suffer these things and then enter his glory?" 27And beginning with Moses and all the Prophets, he explained to them what was said in all the Scriptures concerning himself.
28As they approached the village to which they were going, Jesus acted as if he were going farther. 29But they urged him strongly, "Stay with us, for it is nearly evening; the day is almost over." So he went in to stay with them.
30When he was at the table with them, he took bread, gave thanks, broke it and began to give it to them. 31Then their eyes were opened and they recognized him, and he disappeared from their sight. 32They asked each other, "Were not our hearts burning within us while he talked with us on the road and opened the Scriptures to us?"
33They got up and returned at once to Jerusalem. There they found the Eleven and those with them, assembled together 34and saying, "It is true! The Lord has risen and has appeared to Simon." 35Then the two told what had happened on the way, and how Jesus was recognized by them when he broke the bread.
I just love this story. 2 men rejected in all their hopes and dreams. All their lives they have heard about their savior and king that would come and rescue their people. Its like a bedtime story that you just love when you are a kid when mommy or daddy lays with you in bed before bedtime. Its stories that you just hold close to your heart and after years of them growing up with these stories had it right in front of them. It was personal and it was true. But then it all crashed and all hope and dreams went with it. So many of us live our lives in this fashion. We have struggles and difficult things we face. We focus on the problems and in a lot of cases - we become those struggles. It defines us. Just as these 2 men walking along the road with all hopes and dreams shattered - Jesus appears to them and they don't recognize him. He encourages them and gives them hope once again. When they finally realize it - he is gone but they are left changed. They are left knowing the fact that Jesus is with them always - every step of the way.
I have to say that nowhere in my walk last week did I not feel the presence of Jesus. No matter how much I struggled or how hard it weighed me down ...I felt Jesus the entire time. The decision was made and I know without a doubt I have made the right decision but also not my will in it - but Gods will.
If you are struggling today with something. Students if you are having issues in school with friends, bad influences, teachers or issues at home..... know that God is with you. He is walking along side and like these 2 men - there is someone you can lean on to help carry your burdens. Never let the devil have a foothold in your thinking .... he will get you alone and that is where the most damage and deception is done. Grab a good trusted friend, grab a leader at your church or someone else that you have a good trusted relationship with and get them involved.
Jesus is in your walk. He is along the side of the road right with you in your walk. Let Him carry you for a little while - if you ask Him for a mile ... He will give you 2.
Lord thank You for this day. Thank You for your loving hands and your patience with me the last week. I especially thank You for the people, the families and especially "MyKids" who prayed for me, who lifted me and my family in prayer and in comfort and especially for the encouragement that no matter what - they had my back and would walk with me - would walk with my family because that is what we are ... family. Lord thank You for my church who has given me the foundation to my faith by teaching me about You. Thank You Lord Jesus for being our heavenly Father who knows what is best in all things and for loving us the way You do. May we honor You and bring You glory in all we do. I pray for the person who is struggling with something today. I pray You walk along side of them Lord and reveal yourself to them in a new and exciting way. I pray for those around them Lord in their life who would help pick up their burdens and carry the cross for them. Help us not be alone in our struggles. I pray all this in your sons mighty name in Jesus,
Amen
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