A Passionate Heart.....

Today is the last day of the month of January. Where is time going so fast? Does it continue to race by the older we get? The month of February will be a hard emotional month for me and many in my family. I am preparing myself for some days of emotion and some days of pure joy for my mom. As Feb 23rd approaches, I am praying that God reveals to me what I should do that day - how should I honor my mom or go and be with my family - especially my dad. I am sure I will be blogging more on the subject as time draws near but as I look back over the last year since mom left - its been almost like being frozen in time. It seems so long ago but yet it seems like yesterday. If I think long enough or remember something from that time, emotion is easy to find me. I never considered myself an emotional kind of guy - I was always taught the guys don't cry and we have to be tough. I valued that growing up and into my young adult years but I look at it now as silly in a way since mom left. I wear my emotion on my sleeves and I look for opportunities to love on people - love on my family and love on the people in my life. I accept people for who they are and where they have come from. I want to sit and listen - to lend a hand and to share this things called life. I guess in a way God has humbled me since mom left to love people. I never considered myself a people person since I am kind of shy, don't like speaking in crowds and I am comfortable in the back of the room instead of being out front way out in the open. I have changed some and have grown out of my shell so to speak. Being that most of my family is far away - 2 hours drive - how I don't get to see them everyday and when I do see them - do they see a changed person? Do they see a difference in me - do they see Jesus in my heart? I know many in my family are struggling, looking for Jesus to give them the miracle to set their lives straight and make it better - easier and more fulfilling than it is now. How some of them have made decisions in life that has brought them to the place they find themselves today. I truly believe that each person has 2 or 3 BIG things happen in their lives that truly and honestly change a person. I think my mom was one of mine - the other has been accepting Jesus. My heart has a passionate side to it now - a passionate side for Jesus. A side that I want to make a difference, I want to sit and listen, I want to pray and show them that Jesus is the answer - to lean when we can't do it ourselves. I prayed after my mom left that God would continue to use me and give me direction. I did not want to slide back into myself after such an emotional experience with my mom. God truly delivered me through that time and continues to deliver me through it. He grabbed me by the hand and walked with me every step of the way -showing me I can do it when I didn't think I could. My Prayers of Jabez will be 1 year old this coming month. Its my journal that I have been keeping - of prayers and praise - prayers lifted for my family, friends and special people - for circumstances and for God to reveal himself to those in my life. SO many heart felt prayers - I know that we all have busy days and making time for this and that is very hard because we just run out of gas. There is not enough time in a day sometimes. Writing in my Jabez makes me sit and spend time with Jesus. It is special time and alone time. Its not sitting in bed half asleep trying to read a page in the bible - its not praying as I am driving to work- its not praying and asking God for help when I am sitting at the pizza place. Its a passionate time for me to sit and talk out things with our Lord. He listens to everything and he knows my heart - my intentions if they are not true - He knows my struggles and my hang ups even before I admit them and give them to Him. Jesus has put me on a new course in this life and one that I will never look back on my old self and my old ways. I know I can do what God places on my heart because He walks with me. As I sit at night and pray with my son - I think about the missed opportunities that I missed out on with praying with my mom. Living this life as I am right now with my mom. How proud she would have been to see this - to live this with me. She reconfirmed her faith and rededicated her life to Jesus one special Saturday morning at our church office with my pastor and friend. As she sat at the table - she spilled so many things, so many heartaches, so many worries and cried and cried. I will never forget that day as long as I live. See friends momma was making preparations and took responsibility for herself. Maybe I have some of that passion in my heart today -not only for Jesus but for you as well. No matter what you have going on in life today, right now, if its a drug addiction, an affair, a divorce, a problem with a teenager, your job, no job, a boss, a parent or sister that you had a fight with, no matter what it is in life - Jesus can set you free and give you direction - He can give you hope - He can give you a heart that has passion and forgiveness. We are not alone - and we don't have to struggle in this life alone - ONE DAY WE ARE GOING TO GET OUT OF THIS DUMP - and be with Jesus - I will get to see my mom again. This is the passion and the truth that will rise you above where you are today.
Jesus before he was taken and crucified - he prayed for himself, for his disciples and for me and you:
John 17:20
20"My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, 21that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me. 22I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one: 23I in them and you in me. May they be brought to complete unity to let the world know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me. 24"Father, I want those you have given me to be with me where I am, and to see my glory, the glory you have given me because you loved me before the creation of the world. 25"Righteous Father, though the world does not know you, I know you, and they know that you have sent me. 26I have made you known to them, and will continue to make you known in order that the love you have for me may be in them and that I myself may be in them."

God has picked you even before we picked Him. I pray you have spent some time today with Jesus - A passionate heart will begin to open like a flower in the spring time - with beauty and glory in the morning sun. Email me if you need prayer in your life. Serving what an honor...
lrbatema@gmail.com
randy~

A gym in not just - a gym.....

Working on a college campus has many great benefits - some greater than others. Many that know me know I am a gym person and have spent much time over the years in this gym and that gym. For 11 years almost I have been going to the gym here at UNCC except the last 6-7 months due to some health issues but have recently signed back up and have slowly started to get my feet under me again. This past weekend my wife and I were invited by a dear friend of ours to tour the new YMCA facility near our home. I have to say I was impressed with the operation and my wife and I are still in discussions on how we could fit this into our lives, our schedules and the added expense each month to join. It has many good points to consider with fancy new machines - tv displays on almost all the machines - its quiet!!! and one can get a work out in when one chooses to work out instead of hanging out. Like the majority of college campus gyms - working out is sometimes not in the gym - in the gym with young folks - there is so much more going on! With the 8 tv's to choose from - not one of them had any thing worth watching. The music was so loud and my Ipod was blasting so loud my ears are still ringing just trying to block out the noise! Kids today listen to some really bad music - I am all find and dandy with musicians making music - selling albums and making videos - make as much money as you can - this is america and this is what makes america great. I am apalled at what MTV, VH1, BET and a handful of other tv channels show on their networks - even the commercials from Victoria Secret to Hanes underwear. I wont go into details but I bet if you have a teenager they are watching these channels. Just so you know - Directv has a channel package that you can order that is the family package - you wont find it advertised and it does not have these channels. FYI in case this bothers you as much as it does me- anyways - As I am trying to focus on my workout and listen to my Ipod and the sermon playing (ok I admit it!) - I have done this before on many occasions with thinking about the kids in the gym with me. Where they are from, what kind of parents do they have, what kind of values do they have, who is away from home for the first time and who are from here... I have many questions and my mind sometimes starts to think in OT. I think about the message that these TV shows are giving to our young people - my son in the not far off future, he and I will be having the "big talk" together. I am not ready to go there yet but I have to be with todays society. I need to start focusing on what to do, what to say and how to say it. Plant the seed and let him hear from my wife and I the truths and values we want him to have. Gods values - its the only way to really give him the truth and protect him spiritually and physically. I have many in my family and my friends - who have kids a little older than my son - some teenagers in middle school. I wonder if they took the time to talk - to show their children they ALWAYS have a line of communication open. Who else will teach our children these important issues - let them find out on their own, let their friends explain it to them, society for that matter? Scary stuff if this is the route you are chosing. I think my wife and I are a hands on type of parents - who are open for discussion - we talk through issues and we always come to an agreement on how best to handle things in life - in our marriage and in our decisions. Team work - We have some friends who are single with family and I am just amazed at the strength and determination in just making it day by day. No time off and no rest for the weary! Parenting is no easy task - there is no manual for the right and wrongs - funny how this all comes from a day at the gym. Young people - they are the next generation of Jesus desciples - its our job to train our children - raise them with godly principles and attending church - gaining values and self asteem. Praying for our children and families and having our children see the love in our hearts for our great king. I know many families around me are struggling - many are working on things them selves and nothing changes over the years- same ol' story year after year. Same ol' complaints, worries and struggles. As our children grow - our worry will be more- my son will be driving soon, his acceptance with a girl friend, sex, peer pressure from classmates - pressure from drugs, and fitting in. The pressures are real and we as parents have a comittement to work hard and do the best job we can in raising our children. No place to turn - dont know what to do?

Let me share Psalm 69 with you:
13 But I pray to you, O LORD, in the time of your favor; in your great love, O God, answer me with your sure salvation.
14 Rescue me from the mire, do not let me sink; deliver me from those who hate me, from the deep waters.
15 Do not let the floodwaters engulf me or the depths swallow me up or the pit close its mouth over me. 16 Answer me, O LORD, out of the goodness of your love; in your great mercy turn to me. 17 Do not hide your face from your servant; answer me quickly, for I am in trouble.

Lead your families friends with Gods love and in His grace - we are in this for the long haul and with each passing day there are missed opportunities to impact our children. Set a good example and lead them - show them what marriage is about, what loving their mother or father is all about, set the example and lead.
Funny how all this can come from a "Day at the Gym".

I will let you know how the "Y" works out or if I stay on the front lines with the students. Continue to pray for families......

Randy~

The Waiting game.....

We are cold here in NC! 17 this morning - no power at the house - couldn't get the garage door open so my wife had to drive me in to work. My son's school did not have power until after the kids got there and they had a plan to move the children to another school. It has been an interesting morning. While all these non routine things are happening, I am thinking, Lord - what's with the changes this morning - are You testing me to make sure I can think on my feet? Lucky for me - we had the coffee made already!
Yesterday at church my wife and I attended our small group leadership meeting. Our church is revamping the small group system and our group has had some lengthy discussions concerning the direction, the future, the expansion and the meaning of small groups. I think about the blessings that this group has brought to my family over the last few months that we have been meeting. This is our first time even being a part of a small group/bible study - and so far it has been pretty darn awesome. Our children are getting to know each other and have made friendships - the parents have made friendships that I think will last a lifetime because God is at the center of this group. So what does a small group do - what is the reason for one? As I posted before - being a disciple is more than just showing up on Sunday and then doing your thing the rest of the week - back on Sunday routine. A small group gets together and learns the word of Jesus together - they play together - they work out problems together - they study together - they cry and share joy together. Its about a team that is doing life together all under the guidance of being more like Jesus. We are accountable to each other and we are there for each other. As a church grows - a pastor cannot continue to be that personal, come to the rescue for everyone kind of leader. This is where the small group comes in - and this group leans on each other - helps each other and thus becomes the church. Its the churches support system as it grows. The church teaches you Gods word - connects you with a small group family - trains us to be leaders and then sends us out - to start new small groups. A great church can be known for its preacher - for its music but a GREAT church is known for its people - and how the people love each other. That is what will set apart one church from another. Jesus had his 12 disciples - our first small group. They lived together - played together - worshipped and learned together. They spent 3 years together learning from Jesus - and then they were sent out to spread the good news. We have an excellant model to look at with our first small group. I know many of you have never taken this leap of faith to join a small group/serve in a ministry at church/to attend bible school before or after services at church. We send out children to childrens church or whatever your church calls it - but we forget about ourselves. Maybe thinking we don't need it - or the worship service is enough. Afraid maybe to step forward because of the commitment. Friends - its life changing - being a Christian is not about Sunday mornings and the rest of the week is yours - its about the entire week - fitting God in every day - finding God in everything you do - asking God to show you things and to answer your questions. Every day is a blessing - real friendships can be made in this life - lasting friendships because of Jesus. He did not make us to do life alone - He did not make us to bless just US on Sunday mornings. Accepting Jesus is life transforming -
James 4: 6-10 gives us an the inside look~
-6You're cheating on God. If all you want is your own way, flirting with the world every chance you get, you end up enemies of God and his way. And do you suppose God doesn't care? The proverb has it that "he's a fiercely jealous lover." And what he gives in love is far better than anything else you'll find. It's common knowledge that "God goes against the willful proud; God gives grace to the willing humble."
7-10So let God work his will in you. Yell a loud no to the Devil and watch him scamper. Say a quiet yes to God and he'll be there in no time. Quit dabbling in sin. Purify your inner life. Quit playing the field. Hit bottom, and cry your eyes out. The fun and games are over. Get serious, really serious. Get down on your knees before the Master; it's the only way you'll get on your feet.
As I have been walking with Jesus the last 2 years of my life. I know I have been on my knees in real heartbreak - real pain and the lowest of the low. Its then that God picks us up - shakes the dirt off of us and breathes His light into our bodies. We are made new - forgiven and loved - accepted as we are into the family - God's family. A place in heaven for eternity. Jesus can do this for you. Just get on your knees and ask Him - rise a new person. God has been waiting on you... What are you waiting on? Waiting to figure it all out yourself? The wait might be too late.........
lrbatema@gmail.com
Randy~

Many of you know I was out of town the last couple days. Had a good time serving my cousin on Friday and helping her with her new home. I love spending time with her even though I have to be on my guard from a flying phone or dell box - she does make me smile and it was great getting some things done for her. I dont mind getting dirty - being attacked by Camel Crickets and getting spider webs in my hair - (yea ok little exageration since I dont have hair) - but its all good as we say! Sometimes the love of family - takes us places we would not otherwise go :)

My time with my dad Friday night was special and I felt God during this time leading many of those conversations. I am still unsure where my dad is with God but I know its further along than this time last year. He has had some hard days but he is inching forward and is making progress. I am proud of him and so glad I went up to spend the evening with him. We had a good supper Friday night and a good ol fasioned breakfast Saturday morning with my brother included. Dad I know you are still hurting and most of us dont know exactly how you feel because we have never lost a spouse and many times people dont know what to say - But do know - we love you. Nothing we could do and nothing we could say would take away the pain of losing mom but God is the comfort of all comfort and for those of us who are hurting and have put our faith in Jesus - we have hope and a promise that God will walk with us during those deep hurtful times. Getting ready now for tonights Rock group - so have to study a little now.......
Peace,
Randy~

Heavenly Birthday....

Good morning everyone - I tried to stay awake last night so that I would have the honor of putting this on here first thing this morning. But as the sun rose this morning - as beautiful as it is - I stepped outside to get a fresh breath of air. It's cold outside and it brings me back to a time in my life that I love to think back on. It was those days that my wife and I traveled to her parents house in Tupper Lake NY. It was those years of traveling back and forth battling the COLD - Skiing, having a weekend away, going out to eat at the Dancing Bear Lounge in Saranac Lake - Carol's mom coming out of the bedroom with her half glass of Pepsi and it frozen in the glass. See this is where it all started - some of ya'll who know us and are close to my wife and I, know we sleep with the windows open in the winter. This is not Upstate NY - but it does get cold here in Charlotte - and with a bald head -(mine) it makes it colder! These are such fond memories -memories of ROAD TRIP with skiis on the top of the car, driving sometimes 9 hours fighting the snow- memories of spending a week on the Mary Lou in Baltimore and Tilghman Island -(probably the best vacation we had ever had!) spending the weekend at Burlington Vermont on the boat - at Skip Jake Cove in SC - so many good memories shared as a family. Today is Mary Lou's birthday - I can say I know now how much my wife and her family miss their mom. I miss mine too - and I miss Mary Lou. She was a class lady and I have so many awesome memories. Mary Lou I pray you are enjoying a heavenly breakfast feast this morning with my mom. We miss you - we all miss you. I can honestly say that I know how my wife feels today with missing her mom. I am walking with you honey - right by your side - because I know how you feel and how your heart is broken. Mary Lou has been gone a few more years than my mom but the pain and hurt is still the same. Think upward loved ones and know one day - we will get to see them again. Jesus gives us that hope and promise. I love you all. Happy birthday Mary Lou - your still a class A lady in my books.
Randy~

Walking in Comfort.......

I am excited about today - I am off after work to serve my cousin this evening and help her move some stuff into her new home. I am looking forward to some good conversation tonight with her and its always refreshing when I am with her because God is always a part of our talks. Not that my home life is not that way, my family pray all the time and God is throughout our home, but its nice to open the doors to a new avenue and share something with someone who is close to me - whom I love and my family loves with open hands, open hearts, no strings attached, no agenda, no repayment - just honest godly- love taking place. I am then off to my dads house tomorrow evening to take care of some things. I pray God leads all these conversations and whatever happens - its in His hands. Details.... given to Him.
I think about my time at my mom and dads tomorrow- its hard for me to just say "dads" because it will always be "mom & dads" when I come to visit. My mom and dad were always a pair - always together and they got their identity from each other. As my dad goes through his life now - he will be searching for himself because momma made up who he really was. Part of him has died along with my mom - and I know he will always walk with her in his heart even though there will be good times ahead along with the hard ones. I think about the lives that are left after momma has left and how we all have just went on in life, maybe not thinking about our own mortality and our time in the sun so to speak. But truthfully we all will have our moment - will we get the chance to say goodbye to our families? Will be get the chance to tell them you love them and it was an honor to be their dad, mom, sister, nephew, neice, grandmother, brother or friend? Some of us won't get that chance - to come to peace with each other. Friends the time is now - don't cheat yourself and others out of something so special and so rewarding to those who will continue on in life. I think about these families, especially one this morning with one that is close to me - who the dad is all about making a name for himself, building a business, making money, MR. Important - you know the type because we all know someone who is working too hard or caught up in work - he is away working more than he is home with his family. His family is growing, young children who missed out on their daddy seeing them walking for the first time, saying dadda - diapers (LOL) and even in their teen years when they need direction and guidance from a father who loves them. Daughters who learn what a real man is about by the relationship they have with their dads. How a daughter and son should look up to a dad (and mom) and want to be "just like them". Since momma has left - I have went through many shape changes - I evaluate myself all the time and tell my family I love them because we are a team and I wan't nothing being less than what it should be. I want to be better, stronger, the encourager and LOVE more than I ever have because we never know when our time will come to answer Gods call. I want this for everyone around me!! I don't know if I will get the chance to tell my family, on my (body) death bed how much I love them, I will see you again and how proud of them I am. I might not get the chance to tell them that God only gives each of us so much time here - invest it wisely and invest it in each other Just like Jesus told His disciples to do after He was gone. Why can't we live our lives today, like we would be living on our death bed. There is a song by Tim McGraw - "live like you were dying"- has so much meaning to me. Why can't we live today so that during that most important time - we wont have these regrets? I think during that time while we are saying our goodbye's and loving our family and friends for the last time here on earth - I think God comes with a camera - a digital camera to snap for us. A moment in time ..... a snapshot of comfort for us while we are in heaven and for those we left behind. Wouldn't that be really cool? While the rest of us goes on in life - God has given us His word and He is the God of all comfort.
Gods promises - 2 Corinthians 1:
God Offers Comfort to All 3 All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. 4 He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us. 5 For the more we suffer for Christ, the more God will shower us with his comfort through Christ. 6 Even when we are weighed down with troubles, it is for your comfort and salvation! For when we ourselves are comforted, we will certainly comfort you. Then you can patiently endure the same things we suffer. 7 We are confident that as you share in our sufferings, you will also share in the comfort God gives us.
Let us walk together dear brothers and sisters - lets put down those things that are tied around our necks that keep us down, holding us back, keeping the grave clothes on - and ask Jesus to comfort our heart. Reach out to each other and offer help, comfort, and encouragement. The biggest blessing is when we do this and those we are blessing do not ask for it. Many times people won't ask! - too proud, embarrassed, don't know what to ask for - so they suffer being alone with their struggles. I think about mom sometimes at night, especially when I am up at our cabin and I walk out on the deck at night and there are thousands and thousands of stars. How little I feel - how little I know - what mom knows now and what she must be seeing. I talk with her and I feel her because God gives me that comfort I need to press on doing His work and also moms. Mom lives in me just like Jesus lives in me. I am so small compared to these big things - less of me and more of Jesus! Less of me in my relationships and more of Jesus. Less of me in my marriage and more of Jesus. Less of me in my friends and more of Jesus. Call Him - give Him the details and He will handle them for you. I think how my soul has opened wide open since mom left - how God has filled it with His son and how He has filled it with YOU. No matter what happens to me in this life - I will always know - my little talk with each of you, in case I don't get the chance to tell you on my last day here on earth, on my (earthly) death bed - You will know it in your hearts how much I love you. Rise to the occasion - lead your families with Jesus at the wheel and enjoy your families now - hearts wide open - setting good godly examples by teaching your children - your love for our God - and pass that generational blessing along! Its time for a change....... just like the seasons. God will take notice friends, just ask Him to. Lets walk together....... Jesus will provide the way.....

Randy~

Stand with me.......

I have been reading the Chronicles of John that I got for Christmas. Its been a slow read so far with everything going on and I have made it a point to read it slow and understand the story of John - as it reads in the bible. So far the book seems to be right on target with the words in the bible and then reading a chapter or 2 and getting the story to go with it - I have to share that the words and the story have come to life. Let me share something with you that I have been going back and forth on and thinking about this time. John 13:

3Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God; 4so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist. 5After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples' feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him.
6He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, "Lord, are you going to wash my feet?"
7Jesus replied, "You do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand."
8"No," said Peter, "you shall never wash my feet." Jesus answered, "Unless I wash you, you have no part with me."
9"Then, Lord," Simon Peter replied, "not just my feet but my hands and my head as well!"
10Jesus answered, "A person who has had a bath needs only to wash his feet; his whole body is clean. And you are clean, though not every one of you." 11For he knew who was going to betray him, and that was why he said not every one was clean.
12When he had finished washing their feet, he put on his clothes and returned to his place. "Do you understand what I have done for you?" he asked them. 13"You call me 'Teacher' and 'Lord,' and rightly so, for that is what I am. 14Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another's feet. 15I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. 16I tell you the truth, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him. 17Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.
Now imagine a king - washing your feet - or doing anything at all with you for that matter. Disciple: 1 : one who accepts and assists in spreading the doctrines of another: as a : one of the twelve in the inner circle of Christ's followers according to the Gospel accounts b : a convinced adherent of a school or individual - a student basically is what this is saying. So here they are - and Jesus is washing their feet. Talking personally with each of them and giving them instructions and encouragement. I think about those in my life now who are hurting. My momma left to be with our Lord and that has left a giant hole in our family - in my dad's life and in my aunts life. How can someone comfort them and let them know we care and love them unless we get down with them and walk beside them. Its a place where we can't walk ahead of them - behind them or to the side of them but we have to walk with them. Its the only way we can provide anything of meaning to those around us who are hurting and struggling with things. Jesus is the Lord of all comfort and all the comfort we need is placed with Him. Jesus suffered everything for us - if you have been abused, hurt, beaten, neglected, left alone and abanded - Jesus knows your pain. He took all that with Him when He died on that cross. But there are also times we all must reach out and give these folks a helping hand, a smile, a word of encouragement and the only way we can do that is by walking with them. The sign of a great church is not how good the message is or how good the music is or what the building looks like - its all about how the people love each other. I think family is no different and a church is very much a family. My small group is very much a family - and the people I know are very much my family. We are all part of the family of God. All are welcome and all are not judged in where they walk today. We are all at a place for a reason - everything God does has a reason. Why you ask does bad things happen? Remember this is a sinful world and sin, hurt, pain and all the other bad things that happen to people are here - Christians are not immuned to any of it but we do go through these things differently because Jesus is with us. I pray that you can encourage someone today - help them along in their journey - bring them closer to Jesus - or just stand with them and help them with their struggles and hurts. I love you not because you love me - but Jesus has given me my heart to love you. Its part of being a disciple - not just a Sunday morning, once a week Christain and see you next week. Its a walk that takes us on a journey that changes your life. Encourage someone today - call them, email them, pray with them, stand beside them and feel what they are feeling. I bet you know someone right now who could use it. Be a blessing to others - God did not intend to just bless us - be a blessing to someone. It just might open your eyes and change your life.
I love you - because God has given me - life....
Randy~

True Character ....2

So this bring me to the point of - Where do you stand? Do you go through your week as your normal old self or has Jesus inspired you to do more, to be more and to live more? Making a difference in someones life has been an eye awakening experience for me and my family this past year. Mainly because we expect nothing in return - especially when we are helping those we love who can't repay us, those who we serve we don't know and those who could repay us - but we choose not to accept anything. I am working right now on a computer from a friend of my wife's - I know the question will come up with concerning payment for my services. I have been praying about this and I know in my heart never at any one moment have I thought about charging them - even if I did - I would give it to the offering basket on Sunday. But I am going to take a leap of faith and invite her and her family to church. A few posts before this one - I mentioned inviting people to church and how the excuses come when they choose not to go with us. I pray there won't be an excuse from them - I am preparing myself for a "Yes" and let God handle the details. I am sure the music will have to be just right, the service message will have to be just right - the right look with the people that they are after. So many things come into play to get people to come back. But then again - it may just be the way God wanted this to work. How I, little ol' sinful me, taking part in making the way to bring someone to church. God knows what will happen here and its with Him I leave the details. See this is living the church outside of the church. This is living the week one day at a time like it is Sunday! If you're going to church - AWESOME - but I pray you are engaging in what is happening around you. That you are getting the message that God loves YOU - gave all for you. If you have been following Jesus for years and not going to church now for whatever reason - I pray that Jesus makes your spiritual life a little uncomfortable so that it moves you into seeking out a place to experience Jesus on Sunday mornings, to surround yourself with Jesus following people - to raise the bar on your life and bring it to a new level. If you stay in a place long enough - you become the surroundings. If your in a place in your life right now where everyone is complaining, everyone wants something from you, God is hard to find or getting harder and harder to find, the month is longer than the paycheck, work is tough and you are at your whits end - I pray Jesus moves in your heart - Experience God like never before or renew that fire you once had. The doors will open and blessings will pour out onto you. If you can't find an awesome church to experience this life transformation I am trying to explain here - let me know - I have a place for you. No drive is long enough - when you can experience Jesus like this in your life. Hey if you email me and want to come - my treat for Bojangles after church - we can talk about in person. Deal or no deal? I do believe Bojangles will be in heaven.........
I can't serve you if I didn't love you. I have given it some thought the last few months - that Pastors have such a hard job - I appreciate everything they do! They wear so many hats! Its a job they love with a burning desire - teaching us Gods word and loving people - their congregation - the people God has trusted them with. If a Pastor does not love his congregation - he cannot serve them. Serving.... it breaks down the walls, humbles us and allows us to experience Love the way God wanted us to experience it. No agenda, no hidden rules - just love with compassion, mercy, forgiveness and trust. Just the way God loves you...... Just the way my mom loved you.
Email me - lrbatema@gmail.com
Randy~

True Character......

I am going to change a gear here with this post today. I have lots to share but will do my best to get a point across and make it clear. Well maybe as clear as mud to some so lets see how it goes - Shall we?
Matthew 5:
Salt and Light 13"You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled by men.
14"You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. 15Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.
As we all go about our daily lives - each of us face decisions almost every moment. On Sunday we go to church, praise, learn and fellowship with those around us. Do we take this filling of our cup - that God has blessed us with on Sundays through the rest of the week? Do we slide back into our normal lives only to make it to the next weekend - the next Sunday and then to repeat the process? Put the church clothes back on and the church face again and again.... I think back when my mom was sick and with my heart breaking, I think about what was God doing? What was it that He wanted us all to see and learn? Something good has to come out of something so bad - so wrong - and so unfair. See mom was a child of God's - He was bringing her closer to Him and changing her character - to be more like His. God wanted us who knew mom - who was around mom and loved mom to see Him through her. Mom was glowing when I spoke to her about heaven - how Jesus would be right there for her when she gave up her spirit. She wanted more than anything for everyone she was leaving to be ok - to know Jesus and accept Him so that she would see each of us again. She made me write on a napkin - I PROMISE. This is how important it was for her to know she would see us all again. I know that when my time comes - Mom will be right behind Jesus- accepting me with arms wide open just like she did in life. She will again get to serve me, in my needs and in the things my heart needs. No matter what I ever did in this life, mom was forgiving and loving. Her character was much like Jesus - she served us all. She loved us all - above her own self and her own needs. There were no ties to her serving - just the love in her heart. I know this is the message that God wants us all to know - to serve those around us with nothing but love in our hearts. I serve those around me because I want to make a difference - I want to share the love I have for Jesus - for them - so that they may see Jesus in me. So that they may turn and share this with someone in their life. A blessing, that flows..... Its His light I walk with - this light has become part of my character. I serve those around me with no agenda - nothing in secret - wanting nothing in return except their love and friendship. I bet there is someone in your life right now that needs this kind of blessing, don't you?
I explained the other night to some close friends of ours that yes - my wife and I - we used to sit in the back row at church - that was the furthest we wanted to get inside but at least we were there. Never feeling connected - never making much of an effort - thinking the entire time what I could be doing, how long is this sermon? ... My momma changed all that with Gods hand. He had been working on me for months in preparing me for what was ahead. Serving - I can honestly say not many things are as high on my priority list than this. Serving - in our church - the people in my life - my family and friends - my coworkers and students -people I don't know. I look for opportunities and for openings, Blessings come in bunches - if you would just let your heart feel and experience what God has to offer. Today can be a new start.
Sunday morning - church is ready to start - Someone comes to the door wanting to come in - to look and see what is ahead of them for the next hour- Scared maybe not knowing much about church but something is tugging on them - A welcoming face with a big warm smile offers a kind word and eases the fears of a person who is there at church for a reason. We are Gods hands, Gods arms and Gods words...... Serving..... God didn't call His people to come together just to get blessed, but to be a blessing to someone else. If you want God to pour out His supernatural favor in your life, reach out to bless those around you. It starts with serving.....I serve you... because I love you. More to follow...

Randy~

We had some good football games yesterday - very exciting for those of you who like football or sports in general. I had to smile at the Colts Coach Dungy yesterday. I have to say I dont care for the Colts all that much(since I am a Charger/Panthers fan) but this is a class guy!! If you remember last year his son died right in the playoffs - or right before - his son was an up and coming football stud - but lost it all for reasons we will never understand. Coach Dungy and his family had to handle this incredible loss in front of many- I cant even imagine that pain. Anyways -the announcer (Terry) asked him how it felt to be the first African American Coach in football to make it to the superbowl. He side stepped the question and gave GOD all the glory for giving him this opportunity - for giving his team this opportunity - I was just smiling knowing how much society pushes God aside and here God is out front on live TV - right where He should be. So needless to say - I will be pulling for the Colts come Feb 4th. Who are you routing for?

Randy~

Can't ...... should be removed from the Dictionary

I am at the cabin now for a day or so - a good chance to unwind and enjoy the wilderness and wildlife that God has created. This is a place I always feel comfort and rest - a place to be quiet and be still. Things are slow here even if I have internet and TV! I have to stay connected right? Since yesterday I have been focused on a little word with a big meaning. Its a word that is part of another but when added together is totally opposite. "CAN" meaning - to be able to; have the ability, power, or skill to, to have the possibility: SO when we add "NOT" - What do we have? "Cannot/Can't" - meaning - to NOT be able to; NOT have the ability, power, or skill, to NOT have the possibility. Very different meanings to 2 little words - outcomes so different. Ok so why the english lesson? I will tell you - When we make up our minds with "Can't" it changes our direction, our disposition and our attitudes. When we say we CAN'T do something - we have already given up. I remember back when my momma was sick - people would come and say " I can't do this, I can't handle this, I can't - they have already given up - many did not come back or only came 1 or 2 times instead of pushing through - setting aside the Can't attitude and changing our minds to "CAN" do attitudes. See friends everyone makes a choice, a decision, if they are going to do something or not. Many of us have relationships that are broken because someone CAN'T go about forgiving or leaving things in the past. Many of us have marriages on the brink because we have already made up our minds to "Can't". God wants us to have a CAN DO attitude - a Can do outlook on life. I have heard so many times over the last year, that people will do what they want to do. I agree big time with that - people make up their minds and DO what they want to. CAN - people find a way no matter what they want to do or what they set out to do. Our attitude each day should be "CAN" - Many people never really manage to enjoy their lives. They spend day after day just going through the motions, hoping things will get better. Maybe you're one of them. If so, listen to this: Your life can be better. You CAN be the happy, healthy, victorious, and overcoming champion God made you to be! Everything you need to start enjoying life is already inside you.. You just need a little help to bring it out. Surround yourself with people who will encourage you and help bring out the best in you—because it's already there! Stop with the attitude of Can't and give those things to God - today is the day to start fresh - a new slate - hit that reset button!! People around you want to love you - reach out to you - be a better friend or daughter or son - a better momma or daddy - Drop the baggage of "Can't" and start today with a smile knowing God has these things for you and will work them out for you if you just give them to HIm. In John 5 - there is a man who has been sitting near a pool of water waiting for one day to be healed from his disabilities. John 5: 6When Jesus saw him lying there and learned that he had been in this condition for a long time, he asked him, "Do you want to get well?"
7"Sir," the invalid replied, "I have no one to help me into the pool when the water is stirred. While I am trying to get in, someone else goes down ahead of me."
8Then Jesus said to him, "Get up! Pick up your mat and walk." 9At once the man was cured; he picked up his mat and walked.
Friends Jesus "CAN" do this for you if you choose to give those things holding you back to Him. Make the choice today and start living your life in victory. We are only here for a short time and time is passing us by. People we know are hurting because of the hurts and baggage we carry. Our relationships CAN'T go any further the way it currently is and - Maybe - all they simply really want is to know -they are loved and accepted. Things of the past will be gone - our hurts washed away - true forgiveness will be granted and your spirit will rise to a new level. Freedom from your hurts, hangups and problems are closer than you think. I bet someone in your life "RIGHT NOW" would be jouyous to hear this Good News.
As many of you know who are close to me - I wrote a letter o few months ago saying that since momma was the leader of our family and she is not physically with us now - it was time for new leadership - new direction and new guidance. It was then I asked for everyone to pray that God takes our family - your family and lead us - Lord lead our families. Friends - everything Rises and Falls on leadership. Be a leader and make the decision - to "CAN" - and watch what happens.... I bet someone right now is waiting on you and your decision.......... with tears in their eyes!

Peace,
Randy

Freedom Lyrics by Kenny Chesney

People always tell me their life storyLove they've lost, their taste of glory
He sat next to me at the counter in the dinerSaid I used to be Wall Street but this is much finer
Oh yeahHe had a leather look on a steel horse HarleyAnd a dark-eyed girlfriend he called Charlie
He looked a little lost walkin' out the doorBut I think I knew what he was lookin' forFreedom, sweet freedom
I gassed 'er up, climbed back in my cabTo my wife I'm a husband, to my kids I'm a dad
To the credit card companies I'm just another suckerTo the IRS, a long-haul trucker
Mmmm yeah
Some say that freedom's the power to do what one pleasesYou can live like the devil or hold on to Jesus
I found the one thing I was born to doAnd girl that's why I'm runnin' back to you
Freedom, sweet freedom
He climbed up in my truck with his green duffel bagI knew he was a soldier 'cause I saw his dog tags
We talked about it, we cried about it
Then a steel horse Harley came roarin' on pastI knew it was Charlie hangin' on real fast
We talked about it, we laughed about it
Through the joy and pain that living bringsDon't we all want the same thing
Freedom, sweet freedom
It's what the junkie needs that the needle can't give
The oppressed and forgotten are praying for it
It's what the brave and courageous are fightin' for
An open sail on a distant shore
Freedom

Freedom........

I have been thinking the last few days about relationships - The people in our lives that we have a good relationship with and those who we don't. Why is this? Like most families, their are those that get along, those that don't and those who just put up with each other during those holiday events and then their are those who don’t speak at all. Every family has this and mine is no different. My dad has 2 silver maple trees in his front yard which are nice big trees - provide some shade in the summer and a nice color in the fall but he tells us each year he is cutting them down. I am a tree fan and living near a big city, people love the mature trees but builders cut them down because it’s easier for them. That should be a crime to clear cut the land to build a subdivision - just my personal feelings. Anyways, these trees are a fast growing tree - weak in the strength of its wood and the roots come to the top of the ground and stick out all over the place. Many places these types of fast growing trees if planted in the wrong places - can destroy sidewalks, foundations to homes - fall and land on something during a storm. I think about these roots and how they should be deep and strong but they are week and shallow. Much like our faith - our faith should be strong and deep - but many have shallow and a weak faith. Our lives can have bitterness and hurts that run very deep just like those tree roots. It may have been someone in your past that hurt you, an addiction to drugs or alcohol; it may be abuse in your past or even a parent who did not pay enough attention to you growing up. It may be a spouse who has been unfaithful or you being unfaithful to your spouse. It may be gambling or pornography or an abortion when you where younger - what ever it is- it runs deep and you may not feel able to let go and give those things to God. See these things are in the past and we cannot move forward in life unless we give these things to God. These hang ups - regrets- hurts - bitterness – addictions, whatever it is, it keeps us from moving forward. It keeps us from forgiving each other but more importantly it keeps us from forgiving ourselves. Just like the silver maple - its roots are shallow and it messes up everything around it. If we carry this baggage - it messes everything up in us around us and - our family, our friends, relationships, our wives and husbands, our children, the people we love - it is the sourness and sickness that spreads within us. It affects us deep into our being and holds us back from Gods plan for our lives. God wants us to trust Him with these details - with these important things that carry around. Over the past few months I have come to learn about a marriage that is in trouble. As I think back in my life as a child until now- I can't really say I know any marriage that had an affair in it until now, or at least this close to me. Maybe I just didn't know about it - but I have friends who are divorced now because of an affair. How they were not able to forgive their spouse - but other marriages I know - Have forgiven their spouse. That person who was cheated on or who cheated lives each day carrying around the blame and shame of the unfaithfulness. I wonder if they have given that affair to God or if it’s in secret still - or does each day that goes by that person has to make a commitment to forgive their spouse just to stay married and make it through the day? - it really must hang on them and drag them down everyday. It’s this kind of baggage that God can free you from. Every one of us has something we carry around - and when we learn the meaning of forgiveness and know we can give these things to God - we can then and only then, move forward – in our relationships, our marriages and the things that bog us down. True forgiveness comes only from God – we don’t have the capacity for true forgiveness – but God has given us true forgiveness through Him. Jesus came to give us forgiveness and release us of our sins. Bury your roots deep friends and live in faith that is strong and able to withstand the trials and hurts of this life. God can handle it for you – Quiet, be still and listen – God is speaking to your heart… Kenny Chesney wrote a song – “Freedom” – So close to - Sweet Freedom!!

Randy

Child Faith......

As many of you know we are having a winter storm here - no milk or bread in 5 counties but we have no snow - no ice and little rain. So the streets are wet - its finally up to 33 degrees. I was always taught water freezes at 32 degrees until one lives in NC. Then it can be 26 and still have rain - freezing non driving stuff or sleet - go figure. Never have I wanted snow more in my life. This past Christmas I shared with many of you a dvd movie I made. If you did not get one - email me and I will be glad to drop it in the mail for you. In that dvd was a small movie clip of a winter scene and snow falling - how peaceful and how quiet it is to listen to the music and see the snow falling. Many times in our lives we are just too rushed to sit and be still - to sit and be quiet and hear what Jesus is saying to us. Some of us choose to be that busy and not to hear - others of us get out of focus and are running 100 MPH in all directions but getting nothing done. During our family Christmas time together - I shared a note I had in my pocket with everyone - I carried that note for a week just for the purpose to read it in front of my family. Let me share that with you here,
REAL FAITH isn't about helping people become churchy--it's about helping people experience a transformed life in Christ that challenges folks to live out their faith daily in today's culture. That’s a lot harder than just being churchy. Churchiness is easy. You just follow prescribed rules and do what ever everyone else is doing.
Real faith is dynamic. It's controversial. It's dangerous. It's constantly growing. It asks challenging questions. It involves mystery. You can't put it in a box. You can't keep it quiet. You can't out-grow it. You can't out-dream it. It's more focused on others than it is on self. Real faith gives me peace but makes me discontent to let things stay the same.It's amazing what God can do through a church that embraces that kind of vision for life together. REAL FAITH is revolutionary.
I explained that this past Christmas was the first with out momma and how we are all struggling with this in our own and personal ways. We are not made to understand everything that happens and when our time comes to answer the call of heaven - we then will be told the answers to our questions. See, we are all not capable to understand everything about God, why some things happen, why there is sickness and why children die. Jesus came to this earth as a child and lived a sinless life and gave His life for us and our sins so that we would have a place to go when our time ends here. Even during that time, Jesus performed miracle after miracle - spent his life teaching and giving us the example to live by. Still many chose not to believe even with seeing all this with their own eyes and hearing it with their own ears. Today - God still gives us that choice to choose. Either follow Him or not to follow Him. Still faith has to be something that one accepts as it is - believe in your heart with no reservations other than this is the truth. Children posses this more than adults - that is why Jesus told us to have faith like children - for they will find it easier to get into heaven than adults will. At this time I asked my son to say the blessing before we ate our Christmas dinner. He has faith and believes with his heart - if a child can do this - why can't adults? Experience Jesus and His loving hand and mercy - its not about church- church is just the vessel for Jesus to minister to us. We are His hands to touch those around us who dont know Him; We are His arms to hug those around us who need that comfort; We are his words when we have someone in our life that needs that encouraging word; We are the church 24/7 - no place to hide from Gods love or no emotion to hide from Gods mercy. His love endures forever - Feeling a little childish that you're still reading? GOOD - Be still and listen - Jesus is trying to talk to YOU - If only you would listen.
more to follow....
Randy

Are you a poker player?

What a long day yesterday but what a good ending to the day. My uncle is doing fine and after speaking with him this morning- he is ready to do whatever to get on home. Probably not until at least tomorrow - prayers are still needed for him and my aunt. After leaving the hospital yesterday my dad took my cousin and I out to lunch and we had a decent meal - not my choice of food but as hungry as I was - I was not complaining. We shared some good laughs over our meal and it was a nice feeling sitting there as a family. My dad mentioned to me about Boston Rob and Amber have a new tv show. If your a survivor fan, like my family is, (well not this year - it stunk!) You will remember the season where Amber won the million and Rob came in second - during the final show he asked her to marry him. They did a show on their wedding and now Boston Rob is a poker player. I am not a fan of cards or even gambling all that much. Didn't care really if NC got a lottery or not - unless the schools get the money or for NC kids get to attend higher ed institutions for free or discounted. But anyways, Boston Rob is now a poker player - great aspirations in life! Last night trying to stay awake - the show of all things comes on tv. I sit and watch it since my dad gave me this big spiel on this show. I had to watch it just because my curiosity was up. Yea money has changed them I would say - Boston Rob and Amber fighting about being a poker player and she doesnt want him to. They are having a fight on the show now - and he has a beer in his hand. All I could think was - how sad. Such a stupid thing to be fighting with your wife about -all the while drinking a cold bottle of Bud - probably adding to the level of the fight due to the key senses are not working right because if his buz. This leads me to the poker game itself...
There are those sitting at the table - the sure fired up fella who is the risk taker. The fan favorite because poker is pretty boring until this person gets up and walks around, talks out loud etc. The other person is the quiet guy - who is studying cards and working his angles on winning. Another person really has no idea what he is doing and jumps from all in - to all out. The other person is the calm and TV type fella, people know him and is flashy for the tv - you know the type -he is trying to read his opponents no matter what he has in his hands. His opponents call the shots if he stays in, folds or he continues in the game with how they move their eyes or make facial movements with each passing card. The winner? - who care about the cards!

What kind of person are you in your faith if God was in the poker hand? Is your faith the guy who is calm and steady - the guy who is reading his opponents and is either in or out in a moments notice or maybe your the guy who is confident and really knows the cards and the chances of pulling the card he needs to win - or maybe your the guy who gets his card - walks around the table - talks to himself outloud and is all over the place? Are you all IN - or out when things aint going well - are you all out after the 2nd hand- or do you press on waiting on that next card to put you in the winners spot?
Where do you fall into Gods hand? I hate to say poker game because our faith is not a game and is serious business in where we spent eternity. I pray for a focused faith - a steady faith and knowing that our faith is resting in the hands of Jesus. He has control of our lives and every detail of our life! Our problems in this life have a purpose - everything has a purpose. From the people we meet in the stores - to our finances - to the jobs we have and our friends. Everything has a purpose, even those heart wrenching things we all go through in this life ~have a purpose. There is something to learn in each of them and being a Jesus follower does not mean we are immune to this worlds problems and heart aches - its how we go through them that matters most. My uncle saying to me - See you in an hour or I will be seeing your momma - either way - no matter what happens - its all good. Faith - steadfast and strong. Confident knowing our plans do not matter - we dont have to continue to wait to figure it all out - God delivers on time, no delay for a reason - he delivers when its time. Need a miracle?- keep praying because even though God has not answered you in the way you think He should and in your timing -
It might be He is already preparing you the answer or solution or the healing or the miracle for you to accept and receive it. Steadfast - Strong and Confident - Thats the faith in Jesus no matter our circumstances and problems.
Poker player - or not - which person are you holding the cards of faith?

Randy~

Thank you for all those who emailed me today and called me concerning my uncle. I went up to Mt Airy the night before and I am blessed to spend some time with my cousin last night and help her move some stuff to her new home. Momma left me something so special with her - nothing on this earth that I could do for her would repay her for her frienship and love. Thanks for the blessing of making my trip this morning SHORT and the first ever shared cup of awesome coffee in your home!! My uncle looked better today after his surgery than he did when he went in. I am thankful for him - his faithfulness in praying for me and for those in our family for many years - is awesome. There was no other place on earth I would have rather of been this morning, than by his side and the side of my aunt. As their pastor finished up prayer with us this morning my uncle grabbed my hand and said "Brother - I will see you in an hour or I will be seeing your momma". WOW - I hid this as much as possible - but I have to be honest - it made me cry on my way home tonight. SO much emotion and so much faith!- if only I can grow to know Jesus in my life as much as my uncle and my aunt. He has been a good and faithful servant and I know God has additional plans for him to accomplish. Today - we prayed a few times in key moments for my uncle - but nothing compares to my uncle before we all left this afternoon to say Randy - will you lead us in prayer? WOW - me - this is the man who has been praying for me for so many years and now is asking me to lead prayer for him and our family as we gathered around him. Lord - I cannot tell you how this fills my heart - how blessed I am to know the bigger picture of You on this earth. Lord it was awesome praying with my family around me for him. Me~ of all people asked to pray for someone who has prayed for me for years -to come to You. Maybe I am too emotional since momma has left - but I tell you - I felt momma today and I knew I needed to be there in her place. What an honor to pray next to such a godly man as my uncle and my aunt. More people should be like him and love our Lord like he does. This brings me to my quote from yesterday -

If you exalt yourself you will be humbled but if you humble yourself you will be exalted.

My uncle was exalted today because he is humble - he is all about the glory and life changing of Jesus - he knows his place is not his own and Jesus has the plan. Jesus wont do anything with out a plan. The only time we can really see Jesus work in our lives and those around us, is when we humble ourselves and give Him the details of our lives to Him. Our control is in His hands - do you give Jesus the details of your life? I know where my uncle is today - either he got to see us again or my momma in heaven - its all good - and in reality, he is so right! That is real faith and that is what Jesus wants us to know. Give control of your life to Jesus - let Him control your life - your finance- your health and so much more. He alone will change your life...... details? Jesus has them if you let Him work them out for you...
Continued prayers for my uncle - I thank you all from the bottom of my heart. Humble yourself and dont let your pride stand in the way of the experience that God has in store for you.
He seeks YOU more than you are seeking Him - its a choice of priorities.... what are you choosing? I pray you have spent some time with our king today.
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Take away my ESPN ...

OK - sorry Charger fans - thats a tough loss last night. I did not even get to see the 4th quarter because our small group was meeting then. Priorities first right?! Anyways - I still cant bring myself to watching any of the highlights on ESPN - Might even call Directv to take the channel from me for a few months until this loss heals. (just kidding) Well busy day ahead today - my son has a dentist appointment this morning and this afternoon we are doing some family babysitting. We are giving an afternoon off to a friend of ours so she can spend some time with her older daughter. I pray they have some good bonding time together. Please continue to pray for my father n law - he is in need of rework on his blood counts. I will keep you posted if we end up in the ER or doctor somewhere. This cant continue in the direction its going - stubborn as a mule but eventually if you work over the mule long enough, it will do what you want it to do.

If you exalt yourself you will be humbled but if you humble yourself you will be exalted.

Ponder that for a bit ....... more to follow....
Make time for prayer this morning and set the tone for your day....
Randy

Chargers...

Ok the Chargers are getting ready to play - its been years since I had my long time team since I was a kid play in a big game. I love the Panthers but this is my team..... Sorry Brady - its time to go home.
Go Chargers..........

girls are tough......

Ok so you want to know how yesterday went don't you? Well all I can say is - WOW. Smiles all around and our friends daughter was so happy to have some new fans watching her. I took a dvd of the game and will get that copied when I get back to work to give to them. Too bad their team lost in the last 15 seconds but what is more amazing is - girls are tough. These 9 year olds played hard and took it seriously to win that game. The other team had a big cheer at the end and we had nothing but sad and long faces. Next time the coach said - he too had emotions with this game. Todays church service was awesome - my family and I went to the early service to worship and the message was great. Our pastor did an awesome job delivering the message this morning! My wife and I took care of Sunday school in the second service and I am also part of the breakdown team - so had to pack everything up. It was a great day of service seeing everyone - worshipping and singing to the awesome music. I asked my family before we walked in ~to pray for my father n law. He has not been feeling well and is fighting his cancer as hard as he can. I have had some good talks about church and God with him - I pray I get more chances to do so in the future. He has yet to accept Jesus and is still trying to figure all this out himself. I wont give up until it either happens or it will be too late. Ezekiel 33 tells us to be the watchman - to sound the alarm for those who need to hear the Good News. Its our obligation in accepting Jesus to sound the alarm for those who don't know Him. We can't make them accept Jesus but its our duty to sound the alarm for them. As I focus my prayers this year like I said, I am expecting God to come through big time for me and for the lost ones in my life. As I learn more and more about Jesus, praying and spending time learning Gods word - it is obviose that my life has forever changed. After spending time first thing in the mornings with God - I find myself focused and wanting to do more in my day for someone. It sets my sight for the day on someone else other than myself. I am looking outward instead of looking inward. I want to do this life with others - I want to do this life with Jesus. I do believe I am less of a sinner that day that I start my day with Jesus than I would be otherwise. I still fall short on most things, make mistakes - we all do but things are just so much more focused with Jesus in my day. Our lives are busy - we have to make time to get certain things done but we all have the same 24 hours. I have heard many times over the years that people make time to do what they want to do. Make time to spend with God - let Him open the heavens to bless you - experience Jesus in your life. Its not just going to church and doing all the things Christians are supposed to do - its about transforming your life and setting the sails to a new course. Jesus can do that - He will if you let Him. Experience Him - it will be the best trip you have ever taken. The best is not behind us - its ahead of us..........
Come with me and enjoy the walk...
Randy

Its warm here today - in the high 60's and it should be in the 40's - never have I wanted to see snow more in my life than this year. Global warming seems to be the talk of the town these days - I just want some snow! I have been waiting for this day for a few days now. My family and I are going to surprise a friend of ours this afternoon by showing up at her daughters sporting event. I have been praying for her and her family since before Christmas and I finally shared that with her this week. It was pretty cool and I am looking forward to seeing her today. Its so easy to do something so special for someone - especially when its something small like this. What seems trivial or small to us - can be BIG and huge for others. I will let you know how this afternoon goes. I have been thinking about my prayer life the last few days. Especially since starting 2007 - I want to make this year a big year and a year that raises the bar on my faith journey. I am asking the Lord to take me to a new level in my life and understanding. I will share with you, that soon it will be a year I have kept a prayer journal. I can look back on a specific time and day over the last year and read - what was I asking God for or what was needed in prayer for someone - what was I thankful for. Its been a cool journey this past year and I have been blessed to share this journal with a few close people in my life. Talk about doors opening and hearts wide open. Prayer brings people closer together but first and foremost - it brings us closer to God. My wife and I have have an on going joke the past few weeks where something in the house wont be going right and the other person can tell frustration is going up - the comment of "Honey you haven't spent any time in your bible today?" comes out and we both smile and laugh knowing it true. It takes time to set aside to read Gods word everyday. Sometimes its hard to find time to do anything with everything we have going on. Everyday we must make some time and spend with God. Prayer is something that everyone should do - its personal and uplifting knowing Jesus is listening to our hearts. I have grown the last few years in trying to be specific about my prayers - my praise and thanks. My prayer life was raised a few notches a few months ago when I put down the morning paper. Instead before work during the quiet time of the morning - I read a few pages or whatever I have time to get in, in my bible. Its my time with God and it sets my day straight knowing I am focused - I have asked the Lord to keep my family safe and for us to make a difference in someones life that day. Smile's are so important and sometimes thats all people need to see to change the course of their day. JOY - Jesus first, Others 2nd and Your self 3rd. Prayers - is it part of your life?
More to follow......
Randy

Lost folks and found sheep

Howdy all, I have been in deep thought and prayers concerning this blog site and wondering what God wants me to do here. Yes this is neat and something different - we all need something new in our lives from time to time. So just letting ya'll know this is a work in progress. I pray that I won't offend anyone with what I say here or point anyone out. (These are my thoughts -sturred from various places and people) The thing is - I dont have to accept how things are. The things in my life and in the lives of my friends and family - I dont have to accept them as "This is it - The best it can be". We can break the mold in how things are done - especially when it comes to doing the Lord's work. As I have opened my home to some awesome people in my life and we get together to do this thing called "Life" together - I can't help but to think about what would Jesus be doing if He was walking the earth today. People have more than at any time in our history and yet we are spiritually more dead than at any other time in history. I think about the many folks who my wife and I have invited to attend church with us. I continue to ask and continue to ask - many comments that we get are -"You meet at a school, we will come when you have a building" - "The times your church meets does not fit our schedule" - "Your church plays the music too loud" - "We are visiting churches now and we want to keep our options open". So many excuses ~ we are a society that consumes - church is no different. I have heard many times our Pastor tell us - that church is not about a building but its the people who come through the doors. I think we would have had a building already at this point if we as the body of Christ did not focus on~ people. Jesus came and did not set up a tent -build a temple or buidling - he went to the people to preach. He did not teach to the high priests, government officials or anyone really of high status - He taught the bottom dwellars of society and the prostitutes - the sick and the poor. See everyone is invited to hear the "Good News" - even the lowest of people. I recently came across a web site that I have just been "Jaw dropped" with. I am praying for those who post on there because ... well you will see - just because. My heart breaks for these folks. http://www.mysecret.tv/ - Our churches in America need to work together - we need to focus on taking the Good News to the people. Its not about my church, my building, my Sunday school, your church on your side of town - we are all in this together. I have never understood the differences in being a Jesus follower - Catholic, Methodist - whatever...we all have the same obligations when we accepted Jesus and that is to spread the love of Jesus. There are more lost people out there than there are saved. Focusing on those who come to Christ is great but in my life - Especially this year - I am focusing on those who aren't. Those who are lost - I can't tell you how important this is to me. When my time comes to stand in front of our Lord and Savior - I am going to account for not on how many I won for Him - but how many I have lost. That is the number this year -2007- that I am focused on - the ones I have lost. I am asking the Lord to do what seems impossible this year for me. Bringing those lost sheep to the great sheppard. Expect big things from God - I do believe there is nothing more important in life to fight for....
Randy~
Email me - lrbatema@gmail.com

dead or alive?

OK made it out of Honda last night with the same vehicle - it was hard! Also stopped at 5 guys burgers for the first time to grab a burger - let me tell ya - we were all impressed! As I pondered my comment from last night about who was dead and who was not at the honda dealer, it became apparent to me that I have been thinking about this for days. Not in a consuming way or a way that I look at you funny - but in a way of reaching out and touching your life. See, I have some good news - good news for all to hear- good news that will change your life and put you in a direction that is so different in what you're living now. When I see dead people, I dont mean that I see you physically dead because you are not. You are as alive as I am or the person next to you ~on the outside. I am talking about dead people on the inside - spiritually. I see dead people with dead things all around me with friendships, relationships, marriages and in our hopes and thinking. Our thinking of -God never answers my prayers or I will never get out of debt or break this addiction or change my husband. Why am I sick with cancer if their is a God, why wont he heal me? I see many dead things that continue to drag us all down and keep us from being encouraged. I see family members turning their backs on their families and their resposibilities because they cant handle things because of things that has happened long ago with an argument or fight. Let me tell you all friends, that I am praying for you. I am praying for the courage to put these dead things ~in your past and for you to look to the future. We all right now, at this moment with God in our lives and in our hearts, have so much to live for, so much to be encouraged about and so much ahead of us that is good. Friends - God is saving the best for last. Our best days are not behind us - they are ahead of us!Look forward and imagine a life in a new direction, a new path, and with hope knowing that Jesus himself is walking with you. I see dead people - I want to see you alive and with JOY in your heart. Jesus raised Lasurus from the dead after 4 days - Jesus said to take off those dead clothes - and live. Friends, put down those dead things in your lives that keep you with dirt on your body like a dead person - drop them and live. Jesus will show you the way...This is the good news!
I love you~
Email me - lrbatema@gmail.com

The Honda dealer ~

I know being an american we often have discussions about buying american - but the Honda I have is made almost 80% in Ohio. I would say thats american. Everytime I come in to have service done on my Element - I cant help but to look around and see whats new. Cars are changing so much even though my 1986 CRX got 57 miles to the gallon then and now nothing can barely touch that. As I look around the showroom - I can't help but to think if everyone here has prayed about such a big purchase. Have they considered that a car is just a vehicle to take us from point A to point B? Good reliable transportation is important today in our busy lives but beyond that - its all for show. I think about that extra money that could be put to good use like giving it to church, feeding the neighborhood homeless, the people in real need across our community. I am ok with not having the latest of something - not having the latest clothes and gadgets. Even though I love my IPOD! Way to go Apple~ This showroom is so bright - so fancy and clean - people are so friendly - just makes me want to get a car - a Honda S2000 - I usually sit in the showroom car as they work on my Element. After the first few sales people come by with comments - they just leave me alone figuring - I aint buying - but man I would love to take it to Lowes motor speedway and open 'er up. Maybe one day soon when the guilt of something so MUCH - is not really that much to many around me who I pray for everyday. When their lives change maybe then. I am praying for just basic life necessities for so many. Including the most important - Salvation. I wonder how many dead people are really in here as they shop with big eyes and little wallets. More to follow.....

Randy

In the Beginning,

This is a new adventure for me with this - I dont know where I am going with this but I am praying I can use this somehow to reach people - reach my family and anyone else who happens to drop on in. I look forward to adding my thoughts and heart here -
More to follow as I fine tune this and open this up for Gods purposes.
Stay tuned for the walk...
In Christ,
Randy