I almost never read my posts after I dump them off of me and hit submit. Today has been a little different in being that I have had such an incredible walk in faith today full of encouragement and folks just sharing Christ with me. I am totally pumped.....
I have to say that after my txt prayer this morning, my day kept getting better. I got to sit lend a heartful ear with a friend at work that I have not seen in some time catch me up on his summer, his trip to China and the mission work he did there. He is also student teaching and it was fun listening to his first weeks in front of the middle school kids - he is like me - he just loves them and clicks. I also got a series of text messages from one of my students that is a freshman and how from the beginning of the school year, she cleared the table at lunch with making a bold stand for Christ in conversation and today finds herself sitting with some very awesome people eager to hear about Christ and all that is taking place in her life. She is contagious for Jesus and it is showing and being fruitful. Tomorrow at LOL we will have some new visitors and what a great night to have them - a great month ahead with a full schedule of outreach and fun things going on. Carol and Kyle are at skate night for school and I got a call from from one of my close kids that she needed a shake, so after the gym, she, her sister and I shared a shake and had a great evening talking about and through some things. I said on my way home before dropping them off - I hate this part the most. They asked whats that Mr. Lonnie - I said dropping ya'll off because I enjoy this time together. I really truly do - its such a great investment in people and that is what Christ's biggest investment was ...people.
Tonight I get home and in my inbox there is a comment from todays post that just tops off the day. I will be sure to be thanking Christ extra for a day like this. Not asking for another day but just for the timing of it - I needed it and I feel it.
Thanks Aunt Sharon for those kind words - you always lift me up after talking or an email with you. Love you and yes wish mom was here with us on this journey together. Awe the smile she would have - she has a heavenly smile today and I bet its much bigger than we can ever imagine. Love you.....
Randy
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
I have been clinging to a little encouragement the last few days. Being that encouragement is one of my spiritual gifts, I too have to sometimes cling hard to it and remain focused. I too have to sometimes dig deep to find it and stay positive. I can't walk around with my head down because it affects everyone around me. So, even during those times I am discouraged, there is not time to stay there. As Jesus said, - Pick up your mat and walk. I too must pick up my mat, my hurt, my feelings and walk. How we carry ourselves affects everyone around you. Don't you just love being around folks who seem to always be happy? I mean they find the good in all things and still continue to smile even when things are gloomy.
I had something happen to me that does not happen all that often. I had a student txt me this morning before school and pray for me and the things that I would be facing today. I did not prompt this txt message nor did I pray for this student first and this was in reply. This came from God prompting her to pray for me. Yes I have been praying for her before school. Yes I pray for her walk with Christ to be closer and be at a place in her walk to "Not Look Back" but to press forward with courage and boldness to stand for Christ and who she is in Christ. But this txt message really put my heart in a good place this morning and it reminded me why I love and care so much - for people to know Jesus.
The parable of Jesus and the planting of faith seed is shared with is in Mark gospel in Chapter 4.
Mark 4:13-20 - The Jesus said to them, "Dont you understand this parable? How then will you understand any parable? The farmer sows the word. Some people are like seed along the path, where the word is sown. As soon as they hear it, Satan comes and takes away the word that was sown in them. Others, like seed sown on rocky places, hear the word and at once receive it with joy. But since they have no ROOT, they last only a short time. When trouble or persecution comes because of the word, they quickly fall away. Still others, like seed sown among thorns, hear the word; but worries of this life, the deceitfulness of wealth and the desires for other things come in and choke the word, making it unfruitful. Others, like seed sown on good soil, hear the word, accept it, and produce a crop - thirty, sixty, or even a hundred times what was sown.
I am currently reading a book "Just Walk across the Room" by Bill Hybels and it has come at such a perfect time in my walk to be reading it. I read this morning something I just had to write down because it so spoke to me and tied it into Mark 4.
"Man, this is hard." You know what? It IS HARD. Maybe this is why Paul encourages doing the "work" of evangelism. It is work, and hard work at that. You put your heart out there. You offer grace and acceptance and love to people far from God. You sow seed. You make the phone calls. You extend the hand of friendship. You pick up the phone in the middle of the night. And at the end of the day, you just feel like you've been ripped to shreds. But somehow you hang in there, determined to keep sowing seed. SUre, you may be a fool, but you're a special kind of fool. You're the fool who still believes that a tiny green sprout will one day rise up from the dirt.
I fully believe in that sprout in each of us. It may be hard to invest time and energy into a student and have a great time sharing and talking and then come Sunday morning the look on their face tells a thousand stories and them leaving you wondering - is it really worth it? What about that family that you have poured into for years and they continue to fall over the same stumbling blocks in life with partying, wanting to sleep in on Sunday mornings and only need God when they need him - never fully following Christ. I could continue all day with stories like this but the truth is - its hard no doubt about it. Pouring into the student ministry and into the lives of these teens who mean so much and them hearing Gods word, knowing right from wrong, wanting to do what Gods is calling them to do and then - blam - they do what they want anyways. Its tough - its a roller coaster in faith. I know I will be there to pick up the pieces, to wipe the tears and hurts, to refocus them on what God is wanting them to know.
Its easy to get down and get in a place of being discouraged. God knows that and knows where our hearts are. Knowing that I am sometimes feeling like all my effort is for not - He prompts a heart of a student to txt me a prayer and pray with me. That is flippin awesome!
God you are so wonderful and the fact that you love and care for us so much that you not only created everything we can see, touch, smell and taste - you care enough about each of us to be personal and come to us when we need that soft reminder. Thank you for that whisper this morning Lord and thank you for the reminder that all this effort, tears, hurts and joy in serving you does produce fruit - in Your perfect timing. I believe in your faith seed Lord and even though my walk may not be that victory dance of taking someone far from you all the way across the finish line - Its a blessing to be any part of the play in the big game. If my walk takes someone from -10 yards to -8 ...then I am happy with that. That is my place and I am grateful to be used by you for those 2 little steps forward. Amen
I will end todays post from Mark 4:26-29
"This is what the kingdom of God is like. A man scatters seed on the ground. Night and day, whether he sleeps or gets up, the seed sprouts and grows, though he does not know how. All by itself the soul produces grain - first the stalk, then the head, then the fill kernel in the head. s soon as the grain is ripe, he puts the sickle to it, because the harvest has come."
Lonnie~
I had something happen to me that does not happen all that often. I had a student txt me this morning before school and pray for me and the things that I would be facing today. I did not prompt this txt message nor did I pray for this student first and this was in reply. This came from God prompting her to pray for me. Yes I have been praying for her before school. Yes I pray for her walk with Christ to be closer and be at a place in her walk to "Not Look Back" but to press forward with courage and boldness to stand for Christ and who she is in Christ. But this txt message really put my heart in a good place this morning and it reminded me why I love and care so much - for people to know Jesus.
The parable of Jesus and the planting of faith seed is shared with is in Mark gospel in Chapter 4.
Mark 4:13-20 - The Jesus said to them, "Dont you understand this parable? How then will you understand any parable? The farmer sows the word. Some people are like seed along the path, where the word is sown. As soon as they hear it, Satan comes and takes away the word that was sown in them. Others, like seed sown on rocky places, hear the word and at once receive it with joy. But since they have no ROOT, they last only a short time. When trouble or persecution comes because of the word, they quickly fall away. Still others, like seed sown among thorns, hear the word; but worries of this life, the deceitfulness of wealth and the desires for other things come in and choke the word, making it unfruitful. Others, like seed sown on good soil, hear the word, accept it, and produce a crop - thirty, sixty, or even a hundred times what was sown.
I am currently reading a book "Just Walk across the Room" by Bill Hybels and it has come at such a perfect time in my walk to be reading it. I read this morning something I just had to write down because it so spoke to me and tied it into Mark 4.
"Man, this is hard." You know what? It IS HARD. Maybe this is why Paul encourages doing the "work" of evangelism. It is work, and hard work at that. You put your heart out there. You offer grace and acceptance and love to people far from God. You sow seed. You make the phone calls. You extend the hand of friendship. You pick up the phone in the middle of the night. And at the end of the day, you just feel like you've been ripped to shreds. But somehow you hang in there, determined to keep sowing seed. SUre, you may be a fool, but you're a special kind of fool. You're the fool who still believes that a tiny green sprout will one day rise up from the dirt.
I fully believe in that sprout in each of us. It may be hard to invest time and energy into a student and have a great time sharing and talking and then come Sunday morning the look on their face tells a thousand stories and them leaving you wondering - is it really worth it? What about that family that you have poured into for years and they continue to fall over the same stumbling blocks in life with partying, wanting to sleep in on Sunday mornings and only need God when they need him - never fully following Christ. I could continue all day with stories like this but the truth is - its hard no doubt about it. Pouring into the student ministry and into the lives of these teens who mean so much and them hearing Gods word, knowing right from wrong, wanting to do what Gods is calling them to do and then - blam - they do what they want anyways. Its tough - its a roller coaster in faith. I know I will be there to pick up the pieces, to wipe the tears and hurts, to refocus them on what God is wanting them to know.
Its easy to get down and get in a place of being discouraged. God knows that and knows where our hearts are. Knowing that I am sometimes feeling like all my effort is for not - He prompts a heart of a student to txt me a prayer and pray with me. That is flippin awesome!
God you are so wonderful and the fact that you love and care for us so much that you not only created everything we can see, touch, smell and taste - you care enough about each of us to be personal and come to us when we need that soft reminder. Thank you for that whisper this morning Lord and thank you for the reminder that all this effort, tears, hurts and joy in serving you does produce fruit - in Your perfect timing. I believe in your faith seed Lord and even though my walk may not be that victory dance of taking someone far from you all the way across the finish line - Its a blessing to be any part of the play in the big game. If my walk takes someone from -10 yards to -8 ...then I am happy with that. That is my place and I am grateful to be used by you for those 2 little steps forward. Amen
I will end todays post from Mark 4:26-29
"This is what the kingdom of God is like. A man scatters seed on the ground. Night and day, whether he sleeps or gets up, the seed sprouts and grows, though he does not know how. All by itself the soul produces grain - first the stalk, then the head, then the fill kernel in the head. s soon as the grain is ripe, he puts the sickle to it, because the harvest has come."
Lonnie~
Monday, August 30, 2010
Just got in from lunch and 2 miles - they are getting harder the older I get. I can feel my toes hurting with each step and my knees ache in the morning. I guess I have to suck it up at times and continue to press through those sticky places. That is what I was thinking during the pounding of the pavement this afternoon. So many of us are at a sticking point in our faith walk. We are not strong enough in our faith or feel we know enough to press through. You really want to walk closer to Christ but you are unable to because you will have to change some things. You will have to change a few things with how you life, how you feel about things and people, the way you talk, think and even love. So many of us come to a place in life where all of a sudden because of some painful thing we come to know Christ during that season. Everything comes together, there is new energy and a purpose in your heart and church on Sunday mornings really speaks to you. You pray and God answers your prayers, you get the best parking places at the mall. Everything is going your way. Then that season ends... God seems quiet. You get the furthest parking place from the mall. That dress you wanted is out of stock. Your best friend doesn't stand up for you and you have to walk away from them. Faith seems to be a thing of the past and the once close God is not even on the radar. You can't lean back on your faith because you have only been walking with a little bit of God and not fully walking with him.
I was excited last night to get back to study in our LifeGroup. We have some new folks that have plugged in and its just exciting to have the energy and focus back as we come together as family and share in Gods word together. Its so important in your faith journey to have people in your life that accept you as you are. Regardless of the baggage, the struggles, and the ugly toes you have.
Romans 15:1-7 We who are strong must be considerate of those who are sensitive about things. We must not just please ourselves. We should help others do what is right and build them up in the Lord. For even Christ didnt live to please himself. As the Scriptures say, "The insults of those who insult you, O God, have fallen on me." Such things were written in the Scriptures long ago to teach us. And the Scriptures give us hope and encouragement as we wait patiently for Gods promises to be fulfilled. May God, who gives this patience and encouragement, help you live in complete harmony with each other, as is fitting for followers of Christ Jesus. Then all of you can join together with one voice, giving praise and glory to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, accept each other just as Christ has accepted you so that God will be given glory.
Excited for that next step to deepen my relationship with Christ as well as walking along side some great people to help them deepen their faith walk. In doing so, we bring praise and glory to Christ. A thousand different things to keep us distracted and from plugging into a spiritual family. We are each called to do life together and until you step out in faith - you will never experience what having a spirtual family is like. It may be your next step in your faith walk and a deeper relationship with our heavenly father.
13: I pray that God, the sourse of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust in him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.
Lonnie~
I was excited last night to get back to study in our LifeGroup. We have some new folks that have plugged in and its just exciting to have the energy and focus back as we come together as family and share in Gods word together. Its so important in your faith journey to have people in your life that accept you as you are. Regardless of the baggage, the struggles, and the ugly toes you have.
Romans 15:1-7 We who are strong must be considerate of those who are sensitive about things. We must not just please ourselves. We should help others do what is right and build them up in the Lord. For even Christ didnt live to please himself. As the Scriptures say, "The insults of those who insult you, O God, have fallen on me." Such things were written in the Scriptures long ago to teach us. And the Scriptures give us hope and encouragement as we wait patiently for Gods promises to be fulfilled. May God, who gives this patience and encouragement, help you live in complete harmony with each other, as is fitting for followers of Christ Jesus. Then all of you can join together with one voice, giving praise and glory to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, accept each other just as Christ has accepted you so that God will be given glory.
Excited for that next step to deepen my relationship with Christ as well as walking along side some great people to help them deepen their faith walk. In doing so, we bring praise and glory to Christ. A thousand different things to keep us distracted and from plugging into a spiritual family. We are each called to do life together and until you step out in faith - you will never experience what having a spirtual family is like. It may be your next step in your faith walk and a deeper relationship with our heavenly father.
13: I pray that God, the sourse of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust in him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.
Lonnie~
Thursday, August 26, 2010
The day after....
Yesterday being the first day of school had me up early yesterday morning. I sent out a txt to the entire student ministry and then took the opportunity to pray personally with as many of our students as I could before school. My phone was blazing until 9 and then it went silent. During the day it was odd not getting txt messages throughout the day asking how my day was, can you pray for this person, or answering a question about something. Yesterday afternoon it fired back up with reports of how the day went from students. Last night at LOL, our student ministry bible study, the looks on the faces showed some had a great day, while others had not such a good day. I prayed again this morning with a handful of students before school. Its such an honor to do so and in my quiet time this morning, yes I have to make time for that, am in Romans 7.
Paul has an amazing way of putting sin into perspective. He says in verse 18- And I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. I want to do what is right, but I can't. I want to do what is good, but I don't. I don't want to do what is wrong, but I do it anyway. But if I do what I don't want to do, I am not really the one doing wrong; it is sin living in me that does it. Verse 21- I have discovered this principle of life - that when I want to do what is right, I inevitably do what is wrong. I love Gods law with all my heart. But there is another power within me that is at war with my mind. This power makes me a slave to the sun that is still within me. Oh, what a miserable person I am! Who will free me from this life that is dominated by sin and death? Thank God! The answer is Jesus Christ our Lord. So you see how it is: In my mind I really want to obey Gods law, but because of my sinful nature I am a slave to sin.
Talking with the students last night they were reminded through Pastor Travis that they ultimately know right from wrong. We all do really. Some choose to follow the lead of others and go down paths that are hurtful and much harder than they need to be. While others, try hard to do what is right. There are some seeking the Bible in their day, asking to be challenged in their walk, and at lunch taking a stand for Christ and the entire table goes silent. I love being around these folks because their fired up faith is contagious!
I think we all want to do what is right and follow Christ with all we have but sometimes we are afraid and we often feel like we don't know enough. I think not knowing is a matter of taking the time and letting God fill your heart with the things of him. One way we can do that is to remove the junk we put into our minds. Turn off that tv show that shows a little bit of sex, a little bit of cussing, a little bit of drinking or doing drugs. Delete those songs on your Ipod that have messages of sex, drugs, gangs, and a host of other things that we are filling our minds with. Fill those things with praise and uplifting messages that can fill your heart, soul and mind with good things from above. Garbage in = garbage out
Spending time reading his word is a huge one! See God doesn't desire more of our time sometimes - I think he desires more of our attention all the time. Ever feel frustrated because you want to get closer to God, you see books on how to do that, you hear a message on how to do that and you have the desire to do so but you have so much to do already and guilt then takes you over. I think we all feel that way from time to time.
Psalm 16:8 - "I have set the Lord always before me."
Psalm 25:15 - "My eyes are ever on the Lord".
These are words spoken from King David who had a country to lead and he made time for God. The only way he could do that is to keep his eyes on the Lord all the time. Its a continual awareness of God that we are needing not so much more time devoted to Him. See I believe we can pay attention to God while you are doing everything else. Driving to work, in that math class, at the lunch table, in that meeting, in that conversation with your son or daughter while asking how their first day of school went and even during the shopping trip at the mall. Its all about bringing God in to the boardroom of your life and letting him lead and seeing God in everything you do. See, he is already there in those places but we are not looking for him there. We think he is only with us in our quiet time, at church or the wed night bible study. We have to set our minds in being aware that God is there at all times. This is what it means to set the Lord always before us. That opportunity to stand for Christ in the lunch room, that conversation that took place because you didn't want someone to sit alone, that walk across the room to say hello to someone new, that mean kid who you refrained from cussing out and in that conversation with your child become more precious to us because we are aware that God is with us all along.
My prayers the last 2 days for the student have been to focus on seeing God in the details of their day. Look for Him and He will be there and will go with you throughout your day.
I think with the right focus we can chose to do what is right, what is just and push sin further out of our lives. Seeing God in all we do will bring us to always living in the Spirit. Put that in action with reading Gods word each day is a recipe that will make a huge difference in your life.
Faith - if what we hear doesnt move from our heads to our hands, it will probably never make it to our hearts.
Shine on loved ones, you have the power in you that raised Christ from the grave. Take a stand today and know God is with you always and in everything you do.
Peace,
Lonnie~
Paul has an amazing way of putting sin into perspective. He says in verse 18- And I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. I want to do what is right, but I can't. I want to do what is good, but I don't. I don't want to do what is wrong, but I do it anyway. But if I do what I don't want to do, I am not really the one doing wrong; it is sin living in me that does it. Verse 21- I have discovered this principle of life - that when I want to do what is right, I inevitably do what is wrong. I love Gods law with all my heart. But there is another power within me that is at war with my mind. This power makes me a slave to the sun that is still within me. Oh, what a miserable person I am! Who will free me from this life that is dominated by sin and death? Thank God! The answer is Jesus Christ our Lord. So you see how it is: In my mind I really want to obey Gods law, but because of my sinful nature I am a slave to sin.
Talking with the students last night they were reminded through Pastor Travis that they ultimately know right from wrong. We all do really. Some choose to follow the lead of others and go down paths that are hurtful and much harder than they need to be. While others, try hard to do what is right. There are some seeking the Bible in their day, asking to be challenged in their walk, and at lunch taking a stand for Christ and the entire table goes silent. I love being around these folks because their fired up faith is contagious!
I think we all want to do what is right and follow Christ with all we have but sometimes we are afraid and we often feel like we don't know enough. I think not knowing is a matter of taking the time and letting God fill your heart with the things of him. One way we can do that is to remove the junk we put into our minds. Turn off that tv show that shows a little bit of sex, a little bit of cussing, a little bit of drinking or doing drugs. Delete those songs on your Ipod that have messages of sex, drugs, gangs, and a host of other things that we are filling our minds with. Fill those things with praise and uplifting messages that can fill your heart, soul and mind with good things from above. Garbage in = garbage out
Spending time reading his word is a huge one! See God doesn't desire more of our time sometimes - I think he desires more of our attention all the time. Ever feel frustrated because you want to get closer to God, you see books on how to do that, you hear a message on how to do that and you have the desire to do so but you have so much to do already and guilt then takes you over. I think we all feel that way from time to time.
Psalm 16:8 - "I have set the Lord always before me."
Psalm 25:15 - "My eyes are ever on the Lord".
These are words spoken from King David who had a country to lead and he made time for God. The only way he could do that is to keep his eyes on the Lord all the time. Its a continual awareness of God that we are needing not so much more time devoted to Him. See I believe we can pay attention to God while you are doing everything else. Driving to work, in that math class, at the lunch table, in that meeting, in that conversation with your son or daughter while asking how their first day of school went and even during the shopping trip at the mall. Its all about bringing God in to the boardroom of your life and letting him lead and seeing God in everything you do. See, he is already there in those places but we are not looking for him there. We think he is only with us in our quiet time, at church or the wed night bible study. We have to set our minds in being aware that God is there at all times. This is what it means to set the Lord always before us. That opportunity to stand for Christ in the lunch room, that conversation that took place because you didn't want someone to sit alone, that walk across the room to say hello to someone new, that mean kid who you refrained from cussing out and in that conversation with your child become more precious to us because we are aware that God is with us all along.
My prayers the last 2 days for the student have been to focus on seeing God in the details of their day. Look for Him and He will be there and will go with you throughout your day.
I think with the right focus we can chose to do what is right, what is just and push sin further out of our lives. Seeing God in all we do will bring us to always living in the Spirit. Put that in action with reading Gods word each day is a recipe that will make a huge difference in your life.
Faith - if what we hear doesnt move from our heads to our hands, it will probably never make it to our hearts.
Shine on loved ones, you have the power in you that raised Christ from the grave. Take a stand today and know God is with you always and in everything you do.
Peace,
Lonnie~
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
There is only a few more hours left of summer 2010. It has went fast for sure. Actually this entire last year has went fast. This time last year we were getting reacquainted with Kate and settling her into her new NC home. School tomorrow with Kate going into HS and Kyle going into MS. It really has flown by. Kyle and so many of his peers will be entering into a new middle school tomorrow morning - a brand new beautiful school with all kinds of technology and familiar faces with the new zoning. It has me excited for them and last week at open house it was great seeing so many smiling faces and hugs all around. I just love this season in my life and where God has me.
I have been really challenged lately on a few things and I will just touch on them and then focus on tomorrow morning. I think as we look at our lives we tend to focus in on our struggles and the things that are bothering us right now. We are like I said the drive through generation and the things we are dealing with right now are at the drive through window. We tend to focus on the right here and now and not the tomorrow or even this evening! Its easy to get caught up into the drama of the day and blow things out of perspective. As tomorrow morning rolls around there will be a LOT of tired frowns, grumpy teenagers and smiling parents but everyone nervous for the day ahead. I have been challenged the last few days in focusing in on how big our God really is. I posted on FaceBook yesterday - "My God is _____." and I got a few responses and thats cool and all but really - How big is your God today. Right now ... the things you are dealing with and the tomorrow that is coming - How big is God?
He is bigger than all you can imagine, bigger than any problem, struggle, in everything and in everywhere you go. He is almighty, powerful, knowing, perfect, loving and already in the next moment in time waiting on you to meet him there. He has given you salvation in a blink of an eye and all you did was ask him for it. He is able in all things and he is the meaning of victorious. So as I think about the students and the teachers walking into school tomorrow - I think about those being scared in their new school, maybe not knowing anyone or very few. Maybe not on the team they wished they were. Classes and the homework and expectations of so many building up. The possibility of not fitting in, drama club, football, softball, chess clubs pulling you. Do they still have chess clubs? What about my friends? Will they be my friends still? What about new friends? Now that I have accepted Christ and have this new heart that is on fire for God, what do I do with that? Will people think I am weird? How can I follow Christ and not have people make fun of me? I lost all my friends because of Christ over the summer and now I only have like 5 friends.
Loved ones, you have the spirit and power inside of you that raised Christ from the dead. You are already in victory over these things. Its better to have 5 good friends who will lift you up and carry you when you need it that 150 bad influence friends and 407 facebook friends who couldn't tell you what your favorite food is. Walk into school tomorrow with your chin held high, knowing that God has your back, the leaders in your church have your back, your parents have your back and that God loves you if you make the softball team or not. You are priceless in his eyes. He created you with a purpose and in His image. Not everyone you meet this year can say that. Share the practical love of Jesus by not so much in your words but in your actions. People around you should notice something different about you. Your actions speak loudly before you even open your words. That cross on your neck is there for a reason and honor God in all you do because people are watching, they are looking, they are learning about Christ through you. Its time to shine dear ones, to rise up, stand up and show up in your walk of faith. The government makes you go to school - Christ wants to use you in your school. Its your mission field to share Christ with anyone willing to walk with you and fed up with "Normal" - its time for a new normal and that change begins with you. You are capable and fully equipped to be Gods hands and feet.
I am proud of each of you, I am honored to be walking with you, and I am proud to be follower of Jesus Christ.
I challenged my Rock Group this past Sunday - the students are fasting from Facebook for a week and the parents are fasting food for 24 hours. You have a big cheering section in your corner loved ones. Always know that ..... be the Light on a Hill tomorrow - each of you are bright!
The new Jeremy Camp album came out today - one song on the album is "Not Ashamed" - I wont be turning this song off for a few days for sure.....
"My God is - my Everything" -
Lonnie~
I have been really challenged lately on a few things and I will just touch on them and then focus on tomorrow morning. I think as we look at our lives we tend to focus in on our struggles and the things that are bothering us right now. We are like I said the drive through generation and the things we are dealing with right now are at the drive through window. We tend to focus on the right here and now and not the tomorrow or even this evening! Its easy to get caught up into the drama of the day and blow things out of perspective. As tomorrow morning rolls around there will be a LOT of tired frowns, grumpy teenagers and smiling parents but everyone nervous for the day ahead. I have been challenged the last few days in focusing in on how big our God really is. I posted on FaceBook yesterday - "My God is _____." and I got a few responses and thats cool and all but really - How big is your God today. Right now ... the things you are dealing with and the tomorrow that is coming - How big is God?
He is bigger than all you can imagine, bigger than any problem, struggle, in everything and in everywhere you go. He is almighty, powerful, knowing, perfect, loving and already in the next moment in time waiting on you to meet him there. He has given you salvation in a blink of an eye and all you did was ask him for it. He is able in all things and he is the meaning of victorious. So as I think about the students and the teachers walking into school tomorrow - I think about those being scared in their new school, maybe not knowing anyone or very few. Maybe not on the team they wished they were. Classes and the homework and expectations of so many building up. The possibility of not fitting in, drama club, football, softball, chess clubs pulling you. Do they still have chess clubs? What about my friends? Will they be my friends still? What about new friends? Now that I have accepted Christ and have this new heart that is on fire for God, what do I do with that? Will people think I am weird? How can I follow Christ and not have people make fun of me? I lost all my friends because of Christ over the summer and now I only have like 5 friends.
Loved ones, you have the spirit and power inside of you that raised Christ from the dead. You are already in victory over these things. Its better to have 5 good friends who will lift you up and carry you when you need it that 150 bad influence friends and 407 facebook friends who couldn't tell you what your favorite food is. Walk into school tomorrow with your chin held high, knowing that God has your back, the leaders in your church have your back, your parents have your back and that God loves you if you make the softball team or not. You are priceless in his eyes. He created you with a purpose and in His image. Not everyone you meet this year can say that. Share the practical love of Jesus by not so much in your words but in your actions. People around you should notice something different about you. Your actions speak loudly before you even open your words. That cross on your neck is there for a reason and honor God in all you do because people are watching, they are looking, they are learning about Christ through you. Its time to shine dear ones, to rise up, stand up and show up in your walk of faith. The government makes you go to school - Christ wants to use you in your school. Its your mission field to share Christ with anyone willing to walk with you and fed up with "Normal" - its time for a new normal and that change begins with you. You are capable and fully equipped to be Gods hands and feet.
I am proud of each of you, I am honored to be walking with you, and I am proud to be follower of Jesus Christ.
I challenged my Rock Group this past Sunday - the students are fasting from Facebook for a week and the parents are fasting food for 24 hours. You have a big cheering section in your corner loved ones. Always know that ..... be the Light on a Hill tomorrow - each of you are bright!
The new Jeremy Camp album came out today - one song on the album is "Not Ashamed" - I wont be turning this song off for a few days for sure.....
"My God is - my Everything" -
Lonnie~
Monday, August 23, 2010
Wow, I can't believe that its been almost a week since my last post. Its been busy and days are jammed packed but living life large - why live it anyway else?
Its the first day of classes here at the university and thousands of people are on campus. Its exciting and I love this part of my job. Its probably the nurturing and helping side of me that shines out. This past Saturday I got the chance to finally take Morgan to Carowinds for her birthday along with her friends Jessica, Kyle and Zach. We had a great time and spent almost the entire day there on the rides and in the water park. It was Morgans first time on a roller coaster and riding the Intimidator for the first time was an experience for sure. The long slow line took some time and waiting can be a hard thing when you are anxious about something. Like the slow ride straight up the tracks, sitting next to her with her poor face as white as a ghost and fear in her eyes, we crossed over the top and then down 74 degrees to reach 80 mph and then 3:33 seconds later, the train comes to a stop. I look over and Morgan has this big smile on her face and she says - "Lets do that again!" - we rode it 3 times Saturday and almost every coaster in the park as well. The fear was gone and the wait was worth it.
See often times our waiting has purpose. Its not about us just begging God and making him more like us - God on our schedule. He has his own schedule and his timing is perfect. Our God is big and in Psalm 8:3-4 tells us this.
When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place, what is man that you are mindful of him, the son of man that you care for him?
Our God is a big God, maker of heaven and earth but He is also small enough to come into your heart and in a blink give you salvation and eternity in heaven. He is small enough to hear your cries and pleads and small enough to love you personally. He is bigger than your struggles and bigger than your problems. He is bigger than your schedule and your timing. We so often want things in life right now. We have drive through fast food, popcorn at the movies already waiting on us, and carpool lanes to get us to our destinations faster. We are a generation short on time and we often think of God this way. He doesn't have a drive through prayer answer line even though we ask Him as if we are in the drive through line ordering a frappe. Our waiting is often times on purpose. God has a plan in our waiting and in doing so we discover that we often times don't need what we are asking for, are not ready for what we are asking for or it will do us harm if we got what we ask for. Our faith is not on the fast track drive through line. It takes a lifetime of learning, things to be patient over and trials to test us. I look around and see folks just complacent in their walk. Yes they have their salvation but they are just going through the motions in safety cruise control. They come to church when they can fit it into their schedule or feel like coming in if they don't sleep in. Faith is just taken for granted and doesn't have a punch in life. They have been to church for years, often times growing up in church knowing all the "church" things to say and do - They have the fire insurance and they are content with that. They know the church answers to the questions but yet are not living out their faith calling and really alive in their faith.
Much like the roller coaster on Saturday - there is the wait, the anticipation of something incredible, the excitement as the coaster makes the top, the plunge downward at full speed, the rise up on the other side and then another drop, the turn, the next turn, the fast ride back and a picture to capture the moment. Following Christ will have its thrills and seasons of excitement but it won't keep you from experiencing the wait and the scared moment in life, like when waiting on the doctors to give you the news. We don't send in a message to the OR room for them to hurry up do we? We want the doctors to take their time and get it right the first time. Its worth the wait even though we hate the wait.
It took courage to get on that coaster Saturday. It took faith knowing that it was all going to be ok. It took a friend to walk with her every step of the way. It took someone who had gone before and could share the experience. Following Christ comes in Gods perfect timing. He is bigger than your struggles today but he is also small enough to be personal. My walk with Christ over the years makes me want more out of life and to inspire people to want more out of life - especially more out of their faith. Pursue more of His purpose and plans and to dream a BIG GOD size dream.
I bet there is someone in your life willing to walk you through that ride on the coaster. Faith journey ahead ... Proverbs 27:17 As iron sharpens iron, so does one friend sharpen another.
Follow Christ but always leading others in everything you do.
Lonnie~
Its the first day of classes here at the university and thousands of people are on campus. Its exciting and I love this part of my job. Its probably the nurturing and helping side of me that shines out. This past Saturday I got the chance to finally take Morgan to Carowinds for her birthday along with her friends Jessica, Kyle and Zach. We had a great time and spent almost the entire day there on the rides and in the water park. It was Morgans first time on a roller coaster and riding the Intimidator for the first time was an experience for sure. The long slow line took some time and waiting can be a hard thing when you are anxious about something. Like the slow ride straight up the tracks, sitting next to her with her poor face as white as a ghost and fear in her eyes, we crossed over the top and then down 74 degrees to reach 80 mph and then 3:33 seconds later, the train comes to a stop. I look over and Morgan has this big smile on her face and she says - "Lets do that again!" - we rode it 3 times Saturday and almost every coaster in the park as well. The fear was gone and the wait was worth it.
See often times our waiting has purpose. Its not about us just begging God and making him more like us - God on our schedule. He has his own schedule and his timing is perfect. Our God is big and in Psalm 8:3-4 tells us this.
When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place, what is man that you are mindful of him, the son of man that you care for him?
Our God is a big God, maker of heaven and earth but He is also small enough to come into your heart and in a blink give you salvation and eternity in heaven. He is small enough to hear your cries and pleads and small enough to love you personally. He is bigger than your struggles and bigger than your problems. He is bigger than your schedule and your timing. We so often want things in life right now. We have drive through fast food, popcorn at the movies already waiting on us, and carpool lanes to get us to our destinations faster. We are a generation short on time and we often think of God this way. He doesn't have a drive through prayer answer line even though we ask Him as if we are in the drive through line ordering a frappe. Our waiting is often times on purpose. God has a plan in our waiting and in doing so we discover that we often times don't need what we are asking for, are not ready for what we are asking for or it will do us harm if we got what we ask for. Our faith is not on the fast track drive through line. It takes a lifetime of learning, things to be patient over and trials to test us. I look around and see folks just complacent in their walk. Yes they have their salvation but they are just going through the motions in safety cruise control. They come to church when they can fit it into their schedule or feel like coming in if they don't sleep in. Faith is just taken for granted and doesn't have a punch in life. They have been to church for years, often times growing up in church knowing all the "church" things to say and do - They have the fire insurance and they are content with that. They know the church answers to the questions but yet are not living out their faith calling and really alive in their faith.
Much like the roller coaster on Saturday - there is the wait, the anticipation of something incredible, the excitement as the coaster makes the top, the plunge downward at full speed, the rise up on the other side and then another drop, the turn, the next turn, the fast ride back and a picture to capture the moment. Following Christ will have its thrills and seasons of excitement but it won't keep you from experiencing the wait and the scared moment in life, like when waiting on the doctors to give you the news. We don't send in a message to the OR room for them to hurry up do we? We want the doctors to take their time and get it right the first time. Its worth the wait even though we hate the wait.
It took courage to get on that coaster Saturday. It took faith knowing that it was all going to be ok. It took a friend to walk with her every step of the way. It took someone who had gone before and could share the experience. Following Christ comes in Gods perfect timing. He is bigger than your struggles today but he is also small enough to be personal. My walk with Christ over the years makes me want more out of life and to inspire people to want more out of life - especially more out of their faith. Pursue more of His purpose and plans and to dream a BIG GOD size dream.
I bet there is someone in your life willing to walk you through that ride on the coaster. Faith journey ahead ... Proverbs 27:17 As iron sharpens iron, so does one friend sharpen another.
Follow Christ but always leading others in everything you do.
Lonnie~
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
I was such a spaghetti yesterday that I couldn't even keep a thought in my head. Up early to leave the beach and then coming right into work and all the days events kept me all over the place. But I am good now with some sleep and some things knocked out here at work. I want to share just a few things today as I reflect back on the weekend and being at the beach. It is such a peaceful place for me... yeah the beach is nice and I love the sand and playing in water with Kyle and Madison. But for me it was the "Pause" that I needed the most. Both Saturday and Sunday I was up at dawn and on the beach. I enjoyed sitting in the spot that last year God called me to step up and to see what He wants me to see and not what I was seeing or even what I was scared to see. I answered that call this time last year and I have not looked back. Though scary at times, though uncertain at times, though hard at times - I am blessed to have some close students and their families in my life because of it. I would never be in this place if God didnt call me to it or I continued to run from it. I never thought after a year of this walk ... I would be this blessed with so much.
After a morning prayer and some quiet time just listening to the sounds of the beach, waves washing up on the beach, people walking, the warm sun hitting me ... I hit the beach for an hour walk. Kyle joined me on Sunday morning which was awesome and gave us a chance to sit and talk. We then hit breakfast and tore up some pancakes and eggs.
This pause was so needed for me - a huge stop sign that I didn't just drive through. It has me at a peaceful place as well as a renewed energy in my spirit. With life so fast today, people always needing things and the life of doing Ministry never seems to shut off - I needed this down time, some quiet time and some much needed focus time. What does the next year look like in my faith walk? Where does God want me to reach next? How do I do that? What do the relationships in my life look like and what is next?
I don't have those answers yet but I do know they are already being worked out because they are in Gods hands.
I think about those moments when the sun was coming up - God showing off his glory and masterpiece in such an amazing way ... we don't take the time to pause and enjoy what is around us. We run here and rush there - we just don't take the time to enjoy the pause moments in life. What if God asks us when we get there - I created those beautiful things for you to enjoy and make you pause to focus your life on and you didn't take the time for them. Why?
I can say that I felt close to God this weekend during those early mornings. I am glad I didn't rush past that sunrise, that rainbow, that sunset because its moments like those that God wants us to seek His presence. I have breath in my lungs, an awesome family, close friends and students in my life that I love like my own and I know I don't deserve any of it. I don't deserve forgiveness but I have been granted all this nonetheless. All because God chose me to be near to him.
I recently heard a saying "One day, God will hold us accountable for all the things he created for us to enjoy, but we refused to do so". God is closest when we are grateful for all these things that he created for us to enjoy. I remember not long ago talking with a dear friends of mine before he passed - we were on our way to the Salvation Army and there was a beautiful sunset that evening as we drove down the highway. Joe looked at it and then looked over at me and said - "Lonnie, each one of those are numbered for us to enjoy. We never know how precious they are until you know they are counting and there are not many left."
Time to be still and refresh, get close to God, and remove the hurry in life.
I cant lead anyone, if I am not letting God lead me and letting him restore me, fill me and reconnect with me.
Rest your spirit from time to time loved ones~
Lonnie~
After a morning prayer and some quiet time just listening to the sounds of the beach, waves washing up on the beach, people walking, the warm sun hitting me ... I hit the beach for an hour walk. Kyle joined me on Sunday morning which was awesome and gave us a chance to sit and talk. We then hit breakfast and tore up some pancakes and eggs.
This pause was so needed for me - a huge stop sign that I didn't just drive through. It has me at a peaceful place as well as a renewed energy in my spirit. With life so fast today, people always needing things and the life of doing Ministry never seems to shut off - I needed this down time, some quiet time and some much needed focus time. What does the next year look like in my faith walk? Where does God want me to reach next? How do I do that? What do the relationships in my life look like and what is next?
I don't have those answers yet but I do know they are already being worked out because they are in Gods hands.
I think about those moments when the sun was coming up - God showing off his glory and masterpiece in such an amazing way ... we don't take the time to pause and enjoy what is around us. We run here and rush there - we just don't take the time to enjoy the pause moments in life. What if God asks us when we get there - I created those beautiful things for you to enjoy and make you pause to focus your life on and you didn't take the time for them. Why?
I can say that I felt close to God this weekend during those early mornings. I am glad I didn't rush past that sunrise, that rainbow, that sunset because its moments like those that God wants us to seek His presence. I have breath in my lungs, an awesome family, close friends and students in my life that I love like my own and I know I don't deserve any of it. I don't deserve forgiveness but I have been granted all this nonetheless. All because God chose me to be near to him.
I recently heard a saying "One day, God will hold us accountable for all the things he created for us to enjoy, but we refused to do so". God is closest when we are grateful for all these things that he created for us to enjoy. I remember not long ago talking with a dear friends of mine before he passed - we were on our way to the Salvation Army and there was a beautiful sunset that evening as we drove down the highway. Joe looked at it and then looked over at me and said - "Lonnie, each one of those are numbered for us to enjoy. We never know how precious they are until you know they are counting and there are not many left."
Time to be still and refresh, get close to God, and remove the hurry in life.
I cant lead anyone, if I am not letting God lead me and letting him restore me, fill me and reconnect with me.
Rest your spirit from time to time loved ones~
Lonnie~
Friday, August 13, 2010
In Spite of what you hear......
During the spring months up at the cabin - we always get the new young little birds that come and sit on our window sills that are high up on the cabin. They usually see themselves and think its another bird just like them and in the excitement, they hit the windows over and over again. This noise sometimes wakes us up at it echos througout the house and is usually early in the mornings. I think about these birds who are just doing what they do but often in our lives the noise we are making is just like these birds. We hit that window or brick wall over and over and over again. That noise in our lives sometimes amounts to a sin that is in our lives and it continues to make noise. We hate to call those things sin though and just pass those things off as just normal things - we think that they are ok because everyone else is doing this or that. Sin is just such a harsh word but Christ came and called out our sins, He died for our sins and He rescued us from our sins.
We have 5 senses and in spite of what you see, in spite of what you smell, in spite of what you taste, in spite of what you hear, in spite of what you feel ~ know that YOUR God is able.
That noise in your life may be coming from poeple talking about you. Those things might be hurting you in some way. The normal reaction would be to talk about them, complain or post mean things on facebook, or maybe even let those words focus you and get you down. I bet those people who are talking about you were a friend at some point. Maybe a friend(s) that had access to you, that you allowed to speak truth to you and now things are not in that place any longer. Hurt feelings from one person usually means hurting another. We carry that hurt around and inflict damage on others. God gives us that grace to move past those things. Hear me loved ones when I say - rise above the noise you are hearing. Rise above the noise of the talk that others are saying about you. If there is truth in those words, then do sometime with those words to make things right. If they wont accept them, then move on and know you did your part. You may even have to remove those friends so that you don't have to hear the noises that hit your window to your heart over and over again.
God wants us listening to his heart. Those hours and days being wasted into something that wont matter 100 years from now can be invested in what God is wanting to say to you. Take some time and get alone and spend time with God. You have a friend and in order to get to know a friend - you must spend time with a friend.
Mark 1:35 - Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.
Jesus provided us this example for us to follow. He being Gods son took time and got alone so he can spend time with his father. He removed the noise in his life. He didn't listen to what the people were saying, he didn't take his cell phone with him or his laptop to check facebook - he got alone and listened.... listened to what His father had to say. He gave thanks and focused His heart. You can do the same.
In Spite of what you hear.... know that YOUR God is able.
I will be headed to the beach later today. I am especially excited about it as it has been a year since I have been there. I am so looking forward to just being still at a place where last year God called me out on something in my life. He told me that He would not continue to bless me until I stepped up and did what He was telling me to do. I am so thankful I accepted that and I am thankful for the close people in my life today because of it. My heart changed that day, I experienced a new kind of love for people, and I am at a much different place today because of it. Those people in my life because of Gods calling on me are so special to me... It was a moment I wont ever forget. <3 U.
You are an amazing God! Lord, Thank you for those special people in my life today because of your vision and not my scared vision that was just SO small. Thankful I took the time to listen and hear what You had to say. Amen
Lonnie~
We have 5 senses and in spite of what you see, in spite of what you smell, in spite of what you taste, in spite of what you hear, in spite of what you feel ~ know that YOUR God is able.
That noise in your life may be coming from poeple talking about you. Those things might be hurting you in some way. The normal reaction would be to talk about them, complain or post mean things on facebook, or maybe even let those words focus you and get you down. I bet those people who are talking about you were a friend at some point. Maybe a friend(s) that had access to you, that you allowed to speak truth to you and now things are not in that place any longer. Hurt feelings from one person usually means hurting another. We carry that hurt around and inflict damage on others. God gives us that grace to move past those things. Hear me loved ones when I say - rise above the noise you are hearing. Rise above the noise of the talk that others are saying about you. If there is truth in those words, then do sometime with those words to make things right. If they wont accept them, then move on and know you did your part. You may even have to remove those friends so that you don't have to hear the noises that hit your window to your heart over and over again.
God wants us listening to his heart. Those hours and days being wasted into something that wont matter 100 years from now can be invested in what God is wanting to say to you. Take some time and get alone and spend time with God. You have a friend and in order to get to know a friend - you must spend time with a friend.
Mark 1:35 - Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.
Jesus provided us this example for us to follow. He being Gods son took time and got alone so he can spend time with his father. He removed the noise in his life. He didn't listen to what the people were saying, he didn't take his cell phone with him or his laptop to check facebook - he got alone and listened.... listened to what His father had to say. He gave thanks and focused His heart. You can do the same.
In Spite of what you hear.... know that YOUR God is able.
I will be headed to the beach later today. I am especially excited about it as it has been a year since I have been there. I am so looking forward to just being still at a place where last year God called me out on something in my life. He told me that He would not continue to bless me until I stepped up and did what He was telling me to do. I am so thankful I accepted that and I am thankful for the close people in my life today because of it. My heart changed that day, I experienced a new kind of love for people, and I am at a much different place today because of it. Those people in my life because of Gods calling on me are so special to me... It was a moment I wont ever forget. <3 U.
You are an amazing God! Lord, Thank you for those special people in my life today because of your vision and not my scared vision that was just SO small. Thankful I took the time to listen and hear what You had to say. Amen
Lonnie~
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Something Stinks .....
Well not really. It smells pretty good I guess. This thing called ~life. We had about 50 folks show to the student ministry movie outing last night and that is pretty exciting. Though some left before I spoke to everyone like we always do after a movie, some got to hear just a little bit of the passion I have for Christ.
I read something yesterday that just fired me up even more so with the movie Charlie St. Cloud and the message that movie brought to the screen. 2nd chances. We all need 2nd chances in life. Some of us need more than that...and God is all about them. We should forgive those seeking and asking for forgiveness just as Christ has forgiven us. Clean slate - after reading Kate's accountability letter today at lunch with tears streaming down my face ... I am glad that this message has really been hitting me hard the last few days. It has me in such a different place and with her about to move next week across country - it really has put my heart in the right place. I think about all the students in my life who are also just a small choice away from some of the same area's that Kate has walked. They are easy to fall prey into. Satan blinds us and keeps us out of focus of the things of God and honestly, its easy to get caught in that trap. Its easy to focus on the problem instead of the solution. Its easier to walk away from the relationship than it is to own it and honor it by saying "I'm sorry, I have really messed this up." People struggle with forgiveness for years and suffering when its never received but forgiveness is for you. Its the bonding that it holds over you by not giving it to someone who may have hurt you in some way. Most of the time they don't even know that you are hurt until you forgive them. Its a double blessing for sure.
We have 5 senses and in spite of what you see, in spite of what you smell, in spite of what you taste, in spite of what you hear, in spite of what you feel~ Know that YOUR God is able.
In spite of what we see - know that YOUR God is able to overcome it. That problem that you are focused on can be overcome. That relationship that you don't see how could be restored, God can repair and rebuild it. That marriage that looks dead, God can make it stronger and better than before. When we focus on the things that keep us down, we can't get up and move on.
I can remember back to the beginning of the year and in our student ministry we had a growth spurt and students were coming in and hearing about Jesus. After that series "To Save a Life" things looked like they lost some steam. Some students fell off and our normal numbers the past few month backed off. Instead of focusing on what was wrong, focusing on those students leaving, I tried to focus on God and the students he placed in our hands. Those relationships today are strong, those students are walking closer to God today and I believe they will help lead other students when school starts again in a few weeks and again we see new faces and new hearts ready to hear about Christ.
Loved ones, we have to keep our eyes on Christ to get through the valleys in life and focused on Christ to get us up over those mountains we climb in life. My spiritual gift is the gift of encouragement and in doing so - I have to focus on the good in all things, all people and all situations. If I did not... I would be looking at the problems, the mess that people leave behind, and in those tough things that take place in life.
Romans 15:4
For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through endurance and the encouragement of the scriptures we might have HOPE.
No matter what you are looking at today dear ones, KNOW that YOUR God is able.
Lonnie~
I read something yesterday that just fired me up even more so with the movie Charlie St. Cloud and the message that movie brought to the screen. 2nd chances. We all need 2nd chances in life. Some of us need more than that...and God is all about them. We should forgive those seeking and asking for forgiveness just as Christ has forgiven us. Clean slate - after reading Kate's accountability letter today at lunch with tears streaming down my face ... I am glad that this message has really been hitting me hard the last few days. It has me in such a different place and with her about to move next week across country - it really has put my heart in the right place. I think about all the students in my life who are also just a small choice away from some of the same area's that Kate has walked. They are easy to fall prey into. Satan blinds us and keeps us out of focus of the things of God and honestly, its easy to get caught in that trap. Its easy to focus on the problem instead of the solution. Its easier to walk away from the relationship than it is to own it and honor it by saying "I'm sorry, I have really messed this up." People struggle with forgiveness for years and suffering when its never received but forgiveness is for you. Its the bonding that it holds over you by not giving it to someone who may have hurt you in some way. Most of the time they don't even know that you are hurt until you forgive them. Its a double blessing for sure.
We have 5 senses and in spite of what you see, in spite of what you smell, in spite of what you taste, in spite of what you hear, in spite of what you feel~ Know that YOUR God is able.
In spite of what we see - know that YOUR God is able to overcome it. That problem that you are focused on can be overcome. That relationship that you don't see how could be restored, God can repair and rebuild it. That marriage that looks dead, God can make it stronger and better than before. When we focus on the things that keep us down, we can't get up and move on.
I can remember back to the beginning of the year and in our student ministry we had a growth spurt and students were coming in and hearing about Jesus. After that series "To Save a Life" things looked like they lost some steam. Some students fell off and our normal numbers the past few month backed off. Instead of focusing on what was wrong, focusing on those students leaving, I tried to focus on God and the students he placed in our hands. Those relationships today are strong, those students are walking closer to God today and I believe they will help lead other students when school starts again in a few weeks and again we see new faces and new hearts ready to hear about Christ.
Loved ones, we have to keep our eyes on Christ to get through the valleys in life and focused on Christ to get us up over those mountains we climb in life. My spiritual gift is the gift of encouragement and in doing so - I have to focus on the good in all things, all people and all situations. If I did not... I would be looking at the problems, the mess that people leave behind, and in those tough things that take place in life.
Romans 15:4
For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through endurance and the encouragement of the scriptures we might have HOPE.
No matter what you are looking at today dear ones, KNOW that YOUR God is able.
Lonnie~
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Had a really great time at Charlotte Motor Speedway last night with some close peeps. I enjoy the smiles and the laughs for sure. The bus race was about the funniest thing I have seen in some time though - I am sure the students with us last night will be thinking back to last night in a few weeks when school starts and they step on that bus!
Today I am in Jeremiah 17:9. I am taking a side step to my daily study that I have been following and will focus on a different topic for the next few days. I think God really has something for me to learn here.
Jeremiah 17:9
The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is?
For sure the heart will lead you places. It can lead to good places and it can easily lead you to a really hurtful places. I say this all the time to the students close to me that are that path of relationships - "Once you get your heart involved into another person, the brain doesn't work anymore." Meaning most of the time the person will follow their heart and no so much on clear thinking. Our feelings are a true enemy to your faith. People fall into affairs, people have hurtful relationships that bring pain and destruction into our lives, we fall away from following Christ over a boy or a girl, we desire more of that person over the desires of what God wants for our life.
Our feelings change not only daily but moment by moment. How can we lead our lives when something changes like that? We would be all over the place and often times - we are. We make bad choices when our feelings are in the way. People are mean when they are hurt. When we lead our lives on what we feel, we minimize what God is and can do in our lives.
We have 5 senses and in spite of what we see, in spite of what you smell, in spite of what you taste, in spite of what you hear, in spite of what you feel ~ Know that YOUR God is able.
He is able to lead you through those feelings. He is able to lead you through those hurtful and empty places in life. He is able to be the comfort when you are hurting. He is able to be that friend when you need one instead of that relationship that you are wanting or putting your faith in - especially knowing its not a good one. If you are not honoring God in that relationship then that marriage probably wont either.
What it breaks down to is: if you take away your family, your church, your student ministry outings, your bible study, your facebook account, your friends and you are left with ... YOU ... A lot of people say they know Christ, they have a relationship with Christ - but if you take away all the stuff above - where is that relationship with the one who created you? How much of that relationship happens without all the other stuff? What is it like without the noise and distractions and its just you ... and Christ?
Don't let people, relationships, friends, difficulties, struggles, society, your job or anything else other than Christ himself define who you are.
God knows your heart. Even when you have it hidden from everyone around you and they think you got it going on. God knows where you are - in life and in Him.
Don't let another moment pass by with leading your life on your feelings - feeling change - Christ doesn't. Noah had woodpeckers on the boat - I am pretty sure he kept them above the water line. We all have woodpeckers in our lives. They are there ready to take the entire ship down in your life. Don't let them ..Don't let your feelings stop you from doing what God has called you to do.
Lonnie~
Today I am in Jeremiah 17:9. I am taking a side step to my daily study that I have been following and will focus on a different topic for the next few days. I think God really has something for me to learn here.
Jeremiah 17:9
The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is?
For sure the heart will lead you places. It can lead to good places and it can easily lead you to a really hurtful places. I say this all the time to the students close to me that are that path of relationships - "Once you get your heart involved into another person, the brain doesn't work anymore." Meaning most of the time the person will follow their heart and no so much on clear thinking. Our feelings are a true enemy to your faith. People fall into affairs, people have hurtful relationships that bring pain and destruction into our lives, we fall away from following Christ over a boy or a girl, we desire more of that person over the desires of what God wants for our life.
Our feelings change not only daily but moment by moment. How can we lead our lives when something changes like that? We would be all over the place and often times - we are. We make bad choices when our feelings are in the way. People are mean when they are hurt. When we lead our lives on what we feel, we minimize what God is and can do in our lives.
We have 5 senses and in spite of what we see, in spite of what you smell, in spite of what you taste, in spite of what you hear, in spite of what you feel ~ Know that YOUR God is able.
He is able to lead you through those feelings. He is able to lead you through those hurtful and empty places in life. He is able to be the comfort when you are hurting. He is able to be that friend when you need one instead of that relationship that you are wanting or putting your faith in - especially knowing its not a good one. If you are not honoring God in that relationship then that marriage probably wont either.
What it breaks down to is: if you take away your family, your church, your student ministry outings, your bible study, your facebook account, your friends and you are left with ... YOU ... A lot of people say they know Christ, they have a relationship with Christ - but if you take away all the stuff above - where is that relationship with the one who created you? How much of that relationship happens without all the other stuff? What is it like without the noise and distractions and its just you ... and Christ?
Don't let people, relationships, friends, difficulties, struggles, society, your job or anything else other than Christ himself define who you are.
God knows your heart. Even when you have it hidden from everyone around you and they think you got it going on. God knows where you are - in life and in Him.
Don't let another moment pass by with leading your life on your feelings - feeling change - Christ doesn't. Noah had woodpeckers on the boat - I am pretty sure he kept them above the water line. We all have woodpeckers in our lives. They are there ready to take the entire ship down in your life. Don't let them ..Don't let your feelings stop you from doing what God has called you to do.
Lonnie~
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Thorns....
I am glad I have a little margin at times in my life. I was reminded that this morning that guys don't have a clue about locating things. Like - we do but we don't ask for directions! I am also reminded that ladies don't know how to fix a flat tire. I got that call today - odd its the 2nd time in like a week to go change a tire. Hey I am good with that and always willing to lend a hand to help. Without margin, for sure it would be upsetting because time is the most important thing these days. I am also reminded that we make time for the important things in life. If you value those things - you will make time for them. What is eating up your time? Can't get up for church on Sunday mornings? Well there is an alarm clock on your cell phone - set it and make time for it if its that important to you. That was free - don't know where that came from. :)
Anyways - Thorns. Riding last week up the hills and trails there are a lot of sticker bushes that seem to just lean out and grab you by the arm, knuckles, legs and scratch the crap out of ya. Not sure how they do that but it always seems to happen. Then you get these little sticker pointed needle things in your skin you have to take them out one by one. They hurt - they bleed and sometimes scar.
Paul shares with us in 2 Corinthians 12:7-10 his version of a thorn.
even though I have received such wonderful revelations from God. So to keep me from becoming proud, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger from Satan to torment me and keep me from becoming proud. 3 different times I begged the Lord to take it away. Each time he said, "My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness." So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me. Thats why I take pleasure in my weakness, and in the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong.
Do you ever wonder why Paul didn't tell us what this thorn was? I am so glad he didn't because to each of us - we have our own version of a thorn in our lives. We may be struggling with something 0r with someone. We may have an addiction or some sin in our lives and that thorn that Paul talks about is left up to us to examine our own lives and find out what that thorn is. See sometimes in order to remove that thorn further damage must take place. The trial is not over yet. There is more to learn through this trial - but like any thorn and season in time - its temporary. You will get past it! God will see you through it.
I remember when I was a kid and I would be walking on my parents deck around the pool and get a splinter in my foot. Mom, used to heat up a needle with the standard remedy - a match and spit. Then once completely ready for the operating room sterile - the procedure began. She dug and dug and poked and pulled .... it was like she was digging through my entire foot! Eventually getting the splinter out. She had to do more damage to the area to remove the splinter. Lots of times in our lives, we have to do damage to get the sin out of our life. For some that may look like an accident before you quit drinking. Getting married after having the baby. It may be trying to take the words back from a dear friend after a fight and hurtful words took place.
At some point there is a wake up call - drinking and driving is no good. Sex before marriage is no good. Using words to break down people is no good. God lets these thorns come into our lives to keep us humble and proud. Like Paul who prayed 3 times for God to take his thorn away - God showd Paul his purpose. Gods power works best in our weakness. We have to be in a broken place sometimes to see God for who he really is. We need Him - I need Him. I have written on my calendar here at work - Lord, I can't do this alone~
A simple reminder for me to keep focused, to keep humbled and if really my prayer is from the heart for God to use me for His purposes and mission - then this is the place I need to be. The thorns in our lives often times comes with pain and pain is, unfortunately a great teacher.
Learn through your thorns loved ones. They won't last forever for everything has a season.
It may be time to put that drink down, dump that relationship that keeps you in bondage and in full swing of the drama, or it may be time to have that heart to heart with a close friend. Learn from the thorn and move on.
Move on ..........
Lonnie~
Anyways - Thorns. Riding last week up the hills and trails there are a lot of sticker bushes that seem to just lean out and grab you by the arm, knuckles, legs and scratch the crap out of ya. Not sure how they do that but it always seems to happen. Then you get these little sticker pointed needle things in your skin you have to take them out one by one. They hurt - they bleed and sometimes scar.
Paul shares with us in 2 Corinthians 12:7-10 his version of a thorn.
even though I have received such wonderful revelations from God. So to keep me from becoming proud, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger from Satan to torment me and keep me from becoming proud. 3 different times I begged the Lord to take it away. Each time he said, "My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness." So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me. Thats why I take pleasure in my weakness, and in the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong.
Do you ever wonder why Paul didn't tell us what this thorn was? I am so glad he didn't because to each of us - we have our own version of a thorn in our lives. We may be struggling with something 0r with someone. We may have an addiction or some sin in our lives and that thorn that Paul talks about is left up to us to examine our own lives and find out what that thorn is. See sometimes in order to remove that thorn further damage must take place. The trial is not over yet. There is more to learn through this trial - but like any thorn and season in time - its temporary. You will get past it! God will see you through it.
I remember when I was a kid and I would be walking on my parents deck around the pool and get a splinter in my foot. Mom, used to heat up a needle with the standard remedy - a match and spit. Then once completely ready for the operating room sterile - the procedure began. She dug and dug and poked and pulled .... it was like she was digging through my entire foot! Eventually getting the splinter out. She had to do more damage to the area to remove the splinter. Lots of times in our lives, we have to do damage to get the sin out of our life. For some that may look like an accident before you quit drinking. Getting married after having the baby. It may be trying to take the words back from a dear friend after a fight and hurtful words took place.
At some point there is a wake up call - drinking and driving is no good. Sex before marriage is no good. Using words to break down people is no good. God lets these thorns come into our lives to keep us humble and proud. Like Paul who prayed 3 times for God to take his thorn away - God showd Paul his purpose. Gods power works best in our weakness. We have to be in a broken place sometimes to see God for who he really is. We need Him - I need Him. I have written on my calendar here at work - Lord, I can't do this alone~
A simple reminder for me to keep focused, to keep humbled and if really my prayer is from the heart for God to use me for His purposes and mission - then this is the place I need to be. The thorns in our lives often times comes with pain and pain is, unfortunately a great teacher.
Learn through your thorns loved ones. They won't last forever for everything has a season.
It may be time to put that drink down, dump that relationship that keeps you in bondage and in full swing of the drama, or it may be time to have that heart to heart with a close friend. Learn from the thorn and move on.
Move on ..........
Lonnie~
Monday, August 9, 2010
Got an early start to my day today. Didn't sleep all that well and was up at 5:00 getting ready to roll out from the cabin to head on into work. I fully enjoyed the time this weekend at the cabin with Carol, Kyle, Zach, Donna and Morgan. Boat ran great and we enjoyed 2 days on the lake, 2 evening rides on the 4-wheelers and a little too much sun burn is a good thing. I have to admit that not even watching the TV this weekend left me some extra time to spend in my quiet time. I love being on that front porch in the stillness with a cup of coffee and just reading, examining my heart, reading and praying. It just doesnt have words to describe it.
I really was missing church yesterday - it is nice to get a couple emails, text messages and facebook posts asking if everything was ok. Being missed is pretty cool :) - Its good to take some time and get away. I mean with pouring out of my heart for Christ to all those around me - I need to get my batteries charged at times. Its nice to remove some of the things that bog me down, turn off the computer and just relax, chill, spend time with close people and just laugh.
Today brings me to 2 Peter 1:4-8-
Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the devine nature and escape the corruption in the world cause by evil desires. For this reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness, knowledge, perseverance, godliness, brotherly kindness and love. For if you possess these qualitites in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.
I am pretty hard on myself at times. I would say that those around me - I guess I can be somewhat of a pain when it comes to faith and following Christ. I spend a lot of my energy focused on that walk and ready to have that talk, or help someone, or just sit and listen to someone's heart who is hurting. Ministry is an everyday thing. One never gets a break from it and it should show throughout your daily life. Being that real person in life, to your friends, in your actions, to those in the grocery store, on facebook, in our conversations, with our coworkers and in our families and churches. We have to be the same person all the time. I just don't see how you can say I want to get close to God again, I want to get back to where I was, I am lost right now and continue to be a person who is all over the place. I struggle with things like everyone else and for me to focus on gaining more faith in my walk with Christ through, goodness, knowledge, self control, godliness, kindness and love - I have to be the same person all the time.
Pastor Noble from NewSpring Church spoke yesterday at their services about, Found People, find people. How can we come to know Christ and not let Him change us? We can't be the same if we have been found! Found people find lost people - its our calling in following Jesus. Yeah, I'm fired up about that! This world offers nothing that satisfies and only through Christ do we find meaning and purpose in this life. When you experience that, its impossible to keep quiet.
The last 4-5 days I have been really encouraged with a few folks in my life that are just fired up for Christ. I have noticed changed FaceBook posts reflecting things for Christ instead of drama, I have witnessed conversations taking place about plugging in at church and other outreach things taking place and I see hearts with smiles on them. I love being around fired up people!
Lord I ask for your favor in knowing you more, being closer to you and having my heart aligned with yours. I pray for boldness Lord to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. I pray for the students around me that would take a chance, have a little courage and walk towards following you in all they do. Help us align ourselves to be the same person all the time and help us be the light for you to all those around us. Help us in our decisions, our choices and in our words and actions. Help us be fired up in our lives because of you and the promises you have given us Lord. Help us reach a lost world for you. I pray all these things in your name. Amen
I really was missing church yesterday - it is nice to get a couple emails, text messages and facebook posts asking if everything was ok. Being missed is pretty cool :) - Its good to take some time and get away. I mean with pouring out of my heart for Christ to all those around me - I need to get my batteries charged at times. Its nice to remove some of the things that bog me down, turn off the computer and just relax, chill, spend time with close people and just laugh.
Today brings me to 2 Peter 1:4-8-
Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the devine nature and escape the corruption in the world cause by evil desires. For this reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness, knowledge, perseverance, godliness, brotherly kindness and love. For if you possess these qualitites in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.
I am pretty hard on myself at times. I would say that those around me - I guess I can be somewhat of a pain when it comes to faith and following Christ. I spend a lot of my energy focused on that walk and ready to have that talk, or help someone, or just sit and listen to someone's heart who is hurting. Ministry is an everyday thing. One never gets a break from it and it should show throughout your daily life. Being that real person in life, to your friends, in your actions, to those in the grocery store, on facebook, in our conversations, with our coworkers and in our families and churches. We have to be the same person all the time. I just don't see how you can say I want to get close to God again, I want to get back to where I was, I am lost right now and continue to be a person who is all over the place. I struggle with things like everyone else and for me to focus on gaining more faith in my walk with Christ through, goodness, knowledge, self control, godliness, kindness and love - I have to be the same person all the time.
Pastor Noble from NewSpring Church spoke yesterday at their services about, Found People, find people. How can we come to know Christ and not let Him change us? We can't be the same if we have been found! Found people find lost people - its our calling in following Jesus. Yeah, I'm fired up about that! This world offers nothing that satisfies and only through Christ do we find meaning and purpose in this life. When you experience that, its impossible to keep quiet.
The last 4-5 days I have been really encouraged with a few folks in my life that are just fired up for Christ. I have noticed changed FaceBook posts reflecting things for Christ instead of drama, I have witnessed conversations taking place about plugging in at church and other outreach things taking place and I see hearts with smiles on them. I love being around fired up people!
Lord I ask for your favor in knowing you more, being closer to you and having my heart aligned with yours. I pray for boldness Lord to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. I pray for the students around me that would take a chance, have a little courage and walk towards following you in all they do. Help us align ourselves to be the same person all the time and help us be the light for you to all those around us. Help us in our decisions, our choices and in our words and actions. Help us be fired up in our lives because of you and the promises you have given us Lord. Help us reach a lost world for you. I pray all these things in your name. Amen
Thursday, August 5, 2010
LOL Bible study was good last night. We had 3 new students that came and that is always exciting. Got to talk with a mom and dad before and afterwards and that is always a cool thing. They have a great daughter and I have to say - it took some courage to come and hang out with some folks and not know a single person there. The really cool thing is ... she didn't leave that way. Proud of our students rising up and making her feel welcome and I bet she is glad she came because now she has a few friends and she got to hear Gods word too :) She left differently than when she came in.
I am in Mark 7:33-34 this morning.
After he took him aside, away from the crowd, Jesus put his fingers into the man's ears. Then he spit and touched the mans tongue. He looked up to Heaven and with a deep sigh said to him, "Ephhatha!" (which means, "Be Opened!"). At this, the mans ears were opened, his tongue was loosened and he began to speak plainly. Jesus commanded them not to tell anyone. But the more he did so, the more they kept talking about it. People were overwhelmed with amazement. He has done everything well, they said. He even makes the deaf hear and the mute speak.
There are a few students who really where touched by God last week. I have spoken with 2 students since late yesterday afternoon and my heart is just excited for them. I am so excited to see what God is going to do next in their life. That gives me such a buzz ... its really hard to explain. Our faith is personal and it shows in everything we do when we are in that zone with God. Like the man above - when God shows up - big things happen. This man could not hear nor speak - so instead of Jesus doing a miracle like he had done so many times before by speaking to the person or touching them - he pulled this man aside. He got him out of the spotlight where everyone could see him. Its almost like he didn't want to embarrass him - so he quietly and gently - showed this man grace by pulling him aside and made it so personal. Imagine walking along the road being lead by friends, not able to hear or speak and Jesus is there. He pulls you aside and you have a special personal moment with Christ. WOW - that just fires me up. Like the 2 students who are fired up this morning - they got pulled aside and had a personal moment with Jesus last week. Jesus touched their hearts as he did this man. Jesus put his fingers in his ears letting him know that he was going to heal them and then spit and touched his tongue and looked to the heavens and with a few words the man was healed.
My mom used to spit to cure things when I was little. It was the way back then. She would get dirt off my face, slick a messy spot in my hair with it, she would even heal a scrape if needed. Spit happens!
The thing for me this morning is that Gods shows up big when our hearts are in a place that is ready for him. Jesus loved this man enough to pull him aside and have a personal moment with him and heal him. He can do that for you too because he loves you. Martha prepared a meal and cleaned house and prepared everything for the visit with Jesus. Mary sat at his feet .... all she wanted was Jesus. All this man wanted was Jesus. All these 2 students wanted was Jesus. Lives change when all we want is Jesus. Maybe the mans plans changed that day when he heard Jesus was in town. Maybe those 2 students changed their plans last week to come to camp. Maybe Mary changed her plans that day to just sit at the feet of Jesus instead of helping in the kitchen. Our plans change... sometimes for the better. Thankful for that this morning.
Opportunities... maybe that is what we need to be praying for today. When God is present, anything can happen.
Lonnie~
I am in Mark 7:33-34 this morning.
After he took him aside, away from the crowd, Jesus put his fingers into the man's ears. Then he spit and touched the mans tongue. He looked up to Heaven and with a deep sigh said to him, "Ephhatha!" (which means, "Be Opened!"). At this, the mans ears were opened, his tongue was loosened and he began to speak plainly. Jesus commanded them not to tell anyone. But the more he did so, the more they kept talking about it. People were overwhelmed with amazement. He has done everything well, they said. He even makes the deaf hear and the mute speak.
There are a few students who really where touched by God last week. I have spoken with 2 students since late yesterday afternoon and my heart is just excited for them. I am so excited to see what God is going to do next in their life. That gives me such a buzz ... its really hard to explain. Our faith is personal and it shows in everything we do when we are in that zone with God. Like the man above - when God shows up - big things happen. This man could not hear nor speak - so instead of Jesus doing a miracle like he had done so many times before by speaking to the person or touching them - he pulled this man aside. He got him out of the spotlight where everyone could see him. Its almost like he didn't want to embarrass him - so he quietly and gently - showed this man grace by pulling him aside and made it so personal. Imagine walking along the road being lead by friends, not able to hear or speak and Jesus is there. He pulls you aside and you have a special personal moment with Christ. WOW - that just fires me up. Like the 2 students who are fired up this morning - they got pulled aside and had a personal moment with Jesus last week. Jesus touched their hearts as he did this man. Jesus put his fingers in his ears letting him know that he was going to heal them and then spit and touched his tongue and looked to the heavens and with a few words the man was healed.
My mom used to spit to cure things when I was little. It was the way back then. She would get dirt off my face, slick a messy spot in my hair with it, she would even heal a scrape if needed. Spit happens!
The thing for me this morning is that Gods shows up big when our hearts are in a place that is ready for him. Jesus loved this man enough to pull him aside and have a personal moment with him and heal him. He can do that for you too because he loves you. Martha prepared a meal and cleaned house and prepared everything for the visit with Jesus. Mary sat at his feet .... all she wanted was Jesus. All this man wanted was Jesus. All these 2 students wanted was Jesus. Lives change when all we want is Jesus. Maybe the mans plans changed that day when he heard Jesus was in town. Maybe those 2 students changed their plans last week to come to camp. Maybe Mary changed her plans that day to just sit at the feet of Jesus instead of helping in the kitchen. Our plans change... sometimes for the better. Thankful for that this morning.
Opportunities... maybe that is what we need to be praying for today. When God is present, anything can happen.
Lonnie~
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
People Pleasers.....
Some of the greatest pain in my life I have honestly brought onto myself. Thats big for me to say that and it took a little courage to do that. I can say that because I have walked the shoes of being a people pleaser. No matter what it took, how far I had to go or whatever it was I had to suck up - tried to always have the same end result. As I look around me with the students in my life and pouring this much into them - I see it all around me. I see it on Facebook. I see it in their actions. I see it when they talk to each other. In church, out of church, church students or not ... people pleasing is tough work and eventually it doesn't work out. Putting your faith in people will always let you down. You are wrapping your hands and feet in bondage. Jesus came to set you free from this painful pattern of living. (I'll do whatever it takes to make them like me) (Ill do whatever it takes to keep them)
There are a few things you can do to turn the corner in people pleasing. Hard to do, hard to learn for sure ... you can minimize your focus on what others think of you.
1 Corinthians 4:3 - But with me it is a very small thing that I should be judged by you or by any human court.
- Paul says its a minimal thing! No matter if that boy broke up with you... his words are a small thing! No matter that you are not the most popular in school or at work... its a small thing. No matter how many "friends" you have on Facebook ... its a small thing!
Maximize your focus on what God thinks of you. You must move to a place where Gods evaluation of you is your main thoughts. You can do that through reading his word. If you need a jump start - get a new bible in a different translation. Ask a new friend at church some spiritual questions and have that conversation. There may be a good friend right there and by doing so you MAY drop a few BAD ONES! Get with one of the leaders and ask to go for coffee, Starbucks works good! Hint Hint .....
Pray that God will move you to a place where you will want to spend more time with him and discovering His will and not someone elses. Dont be controlled by someone with emotions. Facebook is great for this - drama runs high hiding behind the keyboard or text message. Just walk away ........... Any lasting friendship will have forgiveness in there somewhere. Is that friendship worth it if one doesn't extend forgiveness? One is always on the take and the other is always on the give?
Limit the friendships that you have based on performance. People are never satisfied and friendship based on "what you will do for me" is never a good place to be.
Limit the influinces in your life that get to speak to your heart. You can't listen to everyone - that will really screw you up but chose a few trusted people and really lean in, dig in and listen to what they are saying. Far too many people today talk and talk and talk .... never hearing a word.
Lastly, get alone with God in your quiet time every day. Start with 5 minutes and build from there. "Lord are you pleased with my life right now?" - "Show me what I need to do to be closer to you", "My life is far from you and my walls are up, Help me break them down Lord."
God is the only one who has all the facts, he sees all your motives, he knows why you are seeking those friendships, He knows what is missing, He knows why you think you need a dude or a girl in your life .... He knows ........ and only Gods assessment of your life, the way you are living RIGHT NOW matters.
Honor God - Ephesians 5:10 - And try to discern what is pleasing to the Lord.
Lonnie~
There are a few things you can do to turn the corner in people pleasing. Hard to do, hard to learn for sure ... you can minimize your focus on what others think of you.
1 Corinthians 4:3 - But with me it is a very small thing that I should be judged by you or by any human court.
- Paul says its a minimal thing! No matter if that boy broke up with you... his words are a small thing! No matter that you are not the most popular in school or at work... its a small thing. No matter how many "friends" you have on Facebook ... its a small thing!
Maximize your focus on what God thinks of you. You must move to a place where Gods evaluation of you is your main thoughts. You can do that through reading his word. If you need a jump start - get a new bible in a different translation. Ask a new friend at church some spiritual questions and have that conversation. There may be a good friend right there and by doing so you MAY drop a few BAD ONES! Get with one of the leaders and ask to go for coffee, Starbucks works good! Hint Hint .....
Pray that God will move you to a place where you will want to spend more time with him and discovering His will and not someone elses. Dont be controlled by someone with emotions. Facebook is great for this - drama runs high hiding behind the keyboard or text message. Just walk away ........... Any lasting friendship will have forgiveness in there somewhere. Is that friendship worth it if one doesn't extend forgiveness? One is always on the take and the other is always on the give?
Limit the friendships that you have based on performance. People are never satisfied and friendship based on "what you will do for me" is never a good place to be.
Limit the influinces in your life that get to speak to your heart. You can't listen to everyone - that will really screw you up but chose a few trusted people and really lean in, dig in and listen to what they are saying. Far too many people today talk and talk and talk .... never hearing a word.
Lastly, get alone with God in your quiet time every day. Start with 5 minutes and build from there. "Lord are you pleased with my life right now?" - "Show me what I need to do to be closer to you", "My life is far from you and my walls are up, Help me break them down Lord."
God is the only one who has all the facts, he sees all your motives, he knows why you are seeking those friendships, He knows what is missing, He knows why you think you need a dude or a girl in your life .... He knows ........ and only Gods assessment of your life, the way you are living RIGHT NOW matters.
Honor God - Ephesians 5:10 - And try to discern what is pleasing to the Lord.
Lonnie~
Monday, August 2, 2010
I am almost fully recovered from Thirst Camp - it was awesome being at church yesterday and seeing most of the students there and the chest bumps, high fives and smiles. Thirst Camp is an amazing week and I don't even know where to begin to explain all that God did last week. He showed up big time in some lives and hearts but some - for whatever the reasons was not allowed to touch some hearts. All I know is my voice is still cracking from singing during the worship time each evening, small group leading, time spent with students in prayer and conversations plus all the work done in the community. WOW - what a week. For those who struggled last week, I pray that God touches your heart this week as you reflect back. I pray that you dont add another brick to the wall that you have up to protect yourself and keeping you from experiencing what God has for you. May He break those walls and wreck your life for the things of Him. May he ruin you to the point where crying is ok. Serving people has emotion and meaning. Where seeing hungry people breaks your heart to the point where you are wanting to do something. May He heal you and build you as He shapes you into the person that He wants you to be. Last Wed night at the evening service - I had arms wrapped around my waist from a rising 6th grader who was having a time with God. She wept and wept and wept and I held on to her for I guess an hour or more. Worshiping and singing as she cried and God really was moving in her. I spoke to her afterwards and told her I was so proud of her and that God was moving her heart. No matter what has happened in her life or what she has done - dont look back - start from this point forward. It was such an honor to share in that experience - it makes a tough week so much more! Signed on my shirt this year from another student - I luv you UL - you are my root. I totally get it .... roots grow deep and are stable and through Christ, for this one student, I am there as her root.
A knock on the door as I finished up writing in some of the students journals - came a letter written to me - thanking me for inviting her and how her life is so different now after accepting Christ last week. How life now is so much better and that things will change. I never gave up on this student when so many have. I knew God was going to do what He does if I just did what I would do. Boldness of Christ ..... its the example of the early Acts 2 church. Lord make us BOLD for you and in doing so we get a front row seat into the miracles of death to life in people.
Today I am in Matthew 6:31-33.
If God gives such attention to the appearance of wildflowers - most of which are never even seen - dont you think he will attend to you, take pride in you, do his best for you? What I'm trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to Gods giving. People who dont know God and the way he works fuss over these things, but you know both GOd and how he works. Steep your life in God-reality, GOd-initiative, God-provisions. Dont worry about missing out. You'll find all your everyday human concerns will be met.
We touched the lives of many last week for Christ. As I sat in McDonalds last week over a sweetea with 8 students one afternoon an elderly man walked up and introduced himself. He wanted to know more about our shirts that the students had on - Thirst Camp 2010. I told him the story of camp and what we were doing in the community and he got really excited with a big smile. He was excited that these young people were putting faith into action and turning a word into a verb. Faith with no deeds is a dead faith and this gentleman was excited to see the Lords work through these students. He ended with shaking my hand and thanking me for leading them - God Bless.
Hearts are changed this week loved ones, don't look back - our faith starts right here and right now. Look forward and meet God in those next moments... he is already there waiting on you.
Lonnie~
You can give without loving but you cant love without giving. Lord we gave you a week to do something that only you can do. You kept your promise in answering our prayers. Continue to help us grow in the things of you, challenge us, break our hearts, ruin us Lord so that you can shape us and build us back up in the things of you. I understand now why I fight tears during worship, over a student who is hurting, why they keep me up at night and how a few simple words on a piece of paper can have my heart.... I understand Lord. Blessed and thankful I understand. Praise your heavenly name Jesus. Its all for your glory. Amen
A knock on the door as I finished up writing in some of the students journals - came a letter written to me - thanking me for inviting her and how her life is so different now after accepting Christ last week. How life now is so much better and that things will change. I never gave up on this student when so many have. I knew God was going to do what He does if I just did what I would do. Boldness of Christ ..... its the example of the early Acts 2 church. Lord make us BOLD for you and in doing so we get a front row seat into the miracles of death to life in people.
Today I am in Matthew 6:31-33.
If God gives such attention to the appearance of wildflowers - most of which are never even seen - dont you think he will attend to you, take pride in you, do his best for you? What I'm trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to Gods giving. People who dont know God and the way he works fuss over these things, but you know both GOd and how he works. Steep your life in God-reality, GOd-initiative, God-provisions. Dont worry about missing out. You'll find all your everyday human concerns will be met.
We touched the lives of many last week for Christ. As I sat in McDonalds last week over a sweetea with 8 students one afternoon an elderly man walked up and introduced himself. He wanted to know more about our shirts that the students had on - Thirst Camp 2010. I told him the story of camp and what we were doing in the community and he got really excited with a big smile. He was excited that these young people were putting faith into action and turning a word into a verb. Faith with no deeds is a dead faith and this gentleman was excited to see the Lords work through these students. He ended with shaking my hand and thanking me for leading them - God Bless.
Hearts are changed this week loved ones, don't look back - our faith starts right here and right now. Look forward and meet God in those next moments... he is already there waiting on you.
Lonnie~
You can give without loving but you cant love without giving. Lord we gave you a week to do something that only you can do. You kept your promise in answering our prayers. Continue to help us grow in the things of you, challenge us, break our hearts, ruin us Lord so that you can shape us and build us back up in the things of you. I understand now why I fight tears during worship, over a student who is hurting, why they keep me up at night and how a few simple words on a piece of paper can have my heart.... I understand Lord. Blessed and thankful I understand. Praise your heavenly name Jesus. Its all for your glory. Amen
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